Do you believe meeting your husband or wife was fate?

Answer 1

Yes, My husband and I grew up in the same small town, went to all the same schools and never remember crossing paths. After my parents moved about 20 miles away, I met him at a local hot dog stand and we started laughing when we talked about the schools we went to etc. not realizing they were the same schools. After 33 years, he's still my heart.

Answer 2

Yes- I do. When I was 13 I had my first EVERYTHING with my now husband, we sperated by 14 and lost touch with eachother, ( but we still lived in the same city) 10 years later I was visiting my friend at work and as I was getting out my car the person in the next car was rolling down their window so we looked at eachother and YUP it was HIM my very first love, kiss, ect.ect.
We have been 2gether ever since. We think it is fate. Our fist child will be born in dec. '06.

Answer 3

A sense of destiny (fate) in its oldest human sense is in the soldier's fatalistic image of the "bullet that has your name on it" or the moment when your number "comes up," or a romance that was "meant to be." The human sense that there must be a hidden purpose in the random lottery governs the selection of Theseus to be among the youths to be sacrificed to the Minotaur. Many Greek legends and tales teach the futility of trying to outmaneuver an inexorable fate that has been correctly predicted.
Many people believe destiny is a fixed time line of events that is inevitable and unchangeable so was meeting of your spouse..
Others believe that they choose their own destiny by choosing different paths throughout their life in such away that you meet your spouse.
As you can see both believes lead to same result.

Answer 4

Yes I do. I was working as a waitress on a night that I was suppose to have off. Him and a friend came in and they had never been there before. They hung out for awhile and when he got ready to leave, he gave me his card. Most of our relationship has worked on fate, we haven't had any planning for anything, it just all seems to fall into place.

Answer 5

Yes, but with strings attached. I say this because it's not simple enough for simpleton to understand. And trust me on this ~ there are lots of them out here.

And, on with your Q. It's GOD's fate which man and woman can't stay committed to because as comfortable, lazy and selfish as they are, people (after being married for however long) these days are not content with the decision they made in the partner they have chosen to live long and prosper with. They find shallow flaws and sacriligiously spit at the sanctity of marriage only to satisfy the smut that's taking over this generation. God said marriage is not for everyone; rather not everyone is cut out for marriage. Therefor, I say before you blind-leap take inventory!

Answer 6

If fate exists, then free will doesn't. I'd rather be master of my own destiny than a player in a giant cosmic soap opera whose ending is already determined.

Answer 7

I believe that every person, man or woman, that we meet in our life time is fate.

I also believe that in each and everyone of our lives, all the people we are close to and have in our cirles, all go on to other lives together in the same sphere.

Answer 8

Absolutely!! We found eachother when neither one of us was looking. And it seems when I think back about it that all the circumstances surrounding us meeting were, in a way, too good to be true or just plain freaky!

Answer 9

Nope

Answer 10

Yes. When I met my ex-wife it was ill-fated.....