he says i am a wonderful, great person and very pretty but he's not interested in me anymore. i asked him what i did, and he said that we just have nothing in common. but we do, we have endless conversations about different things..honestly, i thought everything was fine...
what would cause this? anyone have any insight?
2006-11-09 05:59:13 · 24 answers · asked by sassy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He may be interested in someone else. Maybe you should ask him......If you really care about him, try talking to him more and finding out what's going on with him. Hope you guys work things out...
2006-11-09 06:03:06 · answer #1 · answered by kweenb2327 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry for your situation, because rejection of any kind is painful.
It doesn't matter why your boyfriend lost interest. The point is that it takes two people to have a relationship, and if he's not interested and says you two have nothing in common, then it's over, whether you agree or not.
Instead of trying to dissect the relationship or hoping for a way to salvage something, accept that it's over and walk away with your head high and your pride intact. Take care of yourself, let yourself mourn the end of the relationship in your own way, and when things feel right, move on and get back into the social swing of things.
Good luck.
2006-11-09 14:04:42 · answer #2 · answered by Karin C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No worries. Move on. He didn't feel the spark. You have to be fair to both of yourselves. It may take a long time to find the right person so that you both feel sparks. Those are the relationships worth persuing. I married someone great and caring and intelligent and we had great conversations. Things broke down because she had a bigger spark for me than I had for her. Each relationship is very much a learning lesson. So learn from this and move on. It is important to remain friends if you are friends, though. Don't use this black/white view of the world. I'm still good friends with my ex-wife and her family.
2006-11-09 14:05:11 · answer #3 · answered by Handsome Devil 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that he might need a break and he is just another typical guy. He might to see what other option he has. If you do want to keep him don't give him the only thing that is really yours because that will drive him away. Try to do more things he likes to do and just listen to what he has to say he is the guy let him decide most of the things.
2006-11-09 14:11:51 · answer #4 · answered by jessi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Act like you don't care! get cocky with him and say "fine, you were starting to bore me anyway" He's loosing interest because he thinks he's already won you. If he still has to chase you for you attention or affection, the "spark" will come back. Not saying over night, but keep it up. Go out, have fun, be too busy for him and he'll wonder why you aren't all broken up over him. He'll be the one up at night wondering how to get you back. Just play it cool.
2006-11-09 14:11:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi
Honestly I can not really say what happened because I am not your boyfriend. The only thing I can say is move-on if he does not want you anymore. Later he will see what he missed if he is hoping to find something better and when he wants you back you better not dare go.
2006-11-09 14:03:58 · answer #6 · answered by justagirl2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say his interest is with someone Else.
Looks like to me he is using you as an open door just in case the other lady falls through.
Sorry but I've been down that road before .
2006-11-09 14:09:22 · answer #7 · answered by jc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's just not in to you. Which by the way is the name of a book you need to read. Why beat yourself up over something you can't change. The guy has said it's over the only thing you should be doing is getting over him and then looking for someone new.
2006-11-09 14:03:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will be ok, I promise.
My ex husband and I got along so great, we talked about anything and everything. But "it" wasn't there for me. It's not that he's a bad person or a lousy lover, "it" just wasn't happening. Please don't take it too hard. Don't let it reflect badly on you. Sometimes it just doesn't work.
Try, if you can, to look at it in a positive way. Move on with your chin up, ready for the next one.
: )
2006-11-09 14:02:44 · answer #9 · answered by Ade 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Im sure he has found another girl that he wants to be with and is trying to let you off easy. Been there done that. Thats his immature way of getting out the relationship without being honest with you. You will find someone else just give it time.
2006-11-09 14:06:42 · answer #10 · answered by Sunflower 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋