i have been goingout with my girlfriend for 13 months now. she used to say i love you, once or twice, now and again. she used to kiss me too now she never after one day i asked her if she loved me and she said i don't know.
it has torn me to pieces i really thought she was the one.
what should i do? how should i feel?
2006-11-09 05:55:19 · 5 answers · asked by chris_harte_14 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
when i asked her why she doesnt know she replied im just going through that stage where i question anything and everything. the problem been i will NEVER walk away from her as i really really love her and i know she knows that because i told her.
2006-11-09 06:10:47 · update #1
I can relate to you perfectly. The guy I have been with for just about a year did not know if he wanted to keep the relationship going. After a long talk I said I was willing to work on it but he still needed time to think it has been like 6 days now and he hasn't even called me. Your entitled to be sad and angry after all she wasn't 100% honest with you and that is always painful. About the being torn part the best thing I can say to you is to pray and ask who ever your god may be to give you the strength to get past this and to open your mind and heart so that you can know what it is you have to do. Also taking a break with her might not be a bad thing after all you never know what you have until you lose it. Good luck and I'll keep you in my prayers.
2006-11-09 06:05:15 · answer #1 · answered by M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can understand and I can feel your pain because I,ve been there. You need to relax a min and then talk to your girlfriend and ask for more specific reasons as to why shes not sure- get really honest with each other and if she gives you answers that hurt and this is something she needs to figure out then all you have are two choices -one to walk away or two to give her the room to make the choice. Your in a hard place and I know it hurts but the facts are shes not sure-So find out why.
2006-11-09 14:05:28 · answer #2 · answered by ~♥ L ♥~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to her about it because if you love someone then you will know if you love them just ask her how she feels and that's really all that you can do is ask how she feels and go from there! GOOD LUCK!
2006-11-09 13:58:30 · answer #3 · answered by ~*~aLeShA mArIhA~*~ Love Ya!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on.
I can relate to how the girlfriend feels. She's got a lot of stuff to work on with herself.
2006-11-09 13:58:03 · answer #4 · answered by Jennifer L 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her a little time and if she still doesn't know find someone else
2006-11-09 14:03:08 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋