i know this boy who has a girlfriend but he "talks" to me and trys to get with me still. he tells me that he never cheats and he wants to be with me and he would like to be with me forever but he is doing everyting he said he dont do to his girlfriend right now. if i got with him do you think he would do the same to me or do you think he would change for me like he sais? i really like him though and i donr know what to do!!! HELP ME PLEASE!
2006-11-09 05:49:35 · 22 answers · asked by care_bear_sugar_princess_hottie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If i were you, because this guy has cheated on his girlfriend he will also do the same to you and disregard your feelings in time to come by going off with someone else....best advice i can give you is to protect your heart.
2006-11-09 06:04:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that he will probably do the same thing to you as he is doing to her because like they all say once a cheater always a cheater....My boyfriend cheated on me after being together for 7 months.
2006-11-09 05:53:51 · answer #2 · answered by ~*~aLeShA mArIhA~*~ Love Ya!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This boy sounds very selfish. He is out to please one person, himself!!!! Do you think if he was a good person that he would be cheating on his girl with you. I mean he doesnt even think twice about how this will hurt his girl. What do u think he will do to you? the same thing!@!! This is the kind of guy who tells women exactly what they want to hear to snatch her and then find another woman on the side to fulfill his pleasures again. Girl, this guy is a kid and doesnt know the meaning of love, be very careful of him.
2006-11-09 05:58:53 · answer #3 · answered by virgin 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunaltly women do the same things. It's not just a guy thing. Keep to your morals and know what's right for you. Your self esteem will never have to take a hit from it if you do. Not to mention your heart. Good Luck!
2006-11-09 05:54:04 · answer #4 · answered by Scott L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's trying to upgrade. Guys and gals are the same in this but usually for different reasons. If you are the top of the chain on the gal side you are safe.
2006-11-09 06:02:13 · answer #5 · answered by dano 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh sweetheart, he will treat you the same way he treats this current girlfriend. Once a cheater, always a cheater. Don't listen to his lies any more. Run the other way!
2006-11-09 05:52:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheaters are cheaters. It doesn't matter whom they're with. If he does it to her, he will do it to you. By the time he might grow out of this, if he does, he will be 92. People only change for themselves not for anyone else.
2006-11-09 05:54:39 · answer #7 · answered by mich 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Why are guys lyers and cheaters?"
Because we spend all our time trying to get with women, and the more time you spend with them the more likely you are to pick up their habits. And those would be the two BIGGEST ones that all women are good at!
2006-11-09 05:53:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u got to help urself. u need jst a bf, go for him. if ur sensible, be smart, n play it off the way he is doing it so well.
n yeah, u can't get to change a person. once in, he's thru, n no motivation would excite him to change anyways.
n yeah, guys ain't cheats... it's not their fault. just when it comes to girls the can't help it - plain truth.
2006-11-09 05:59:47 · answer #9 · answered by abh_gup 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe a man wont cheat on you if your really what he wants or until he is ready. Sounds to me like he just wants to make you another notch on his belt so i think you should not even go there.
2006-11-09 05:58:42 · answer #10 · answered by ~InEvItAbLe~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋