Question to the people who said it's NOT ok for him to move in. What possible reason do you have for him not moving in while waiting for his divorce to become final?
2006-11-09 05:52:13 · 15 answers · asked by puresatin 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Because until the divorce is final, he IS STILL MARRIED. The woman is shaking up with a married man.
2006-11-09 05:54:41 · answer #1 · answered by First Lady 7 · 3⤊ 3⤋
no i do not think it's okay for a man to move in with another woman until after his divorce becomes final, because it is cheating, and there might be a chance of repairing his marriage if the other woman wasn't present. perhaps the other woman is the reason their is a divorce in the first place. if he wants a divorce that is fine, but he should want a divorce for reasons other than there is another woman involved. with the presence of another in the marriage, no reconciliation can ever take place, because the other woman is pulling him in her direction. he should live apart by himself because he needs to be able to think about his future, and if he might want to give his marriage another chance.
2006-11-09 13:34:53 · answer #2 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it totally depends on the circumstances. I moved in with my husband before his divorce was final. He was getting a divorce because his ex-wife cheated on him and had her boyfreind move in the weekend my husband moved out! The fact that they are getting a divorce period means the marriage is over. Wether he lives with another woman or by himself the marriage is still over. I don't know about the alimony laws and they differ from state to state like every other thing. This is your own personal and conscience decision. What works for one doesn't work for another...
2006-11-09 06:19:38 · answer #3 · answered by mother_flower 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Is his wife going to use you as a pawn technically he isnt divorced so he is cheating with you. She could cite this and the judge give her everything because if his cheating is the reason for the divorce he is still flanting it. He may be on the rebound which is going to leave you out once he uses you for a while. If he has kids you are the reason their parents are divorcing so be prepared to always be the other woman or the slut as far as the kids are concerned.
2006-11-09 06:18:56 · answer #4 · answered by fortyninertu 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i don't believe of I understand what your asking? do you should do something now about what? i imagine the shown truth that your quickly to be ex has yet another woman pregnant and your upcoming divorce are 2 separate topics. you may divorce him yet as far because the being pregnant, that is extremely not about you.
2016-11-28 23:18:55 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys moving in before the divorce are moving in with the woman who broke up the marriage. The guy is still married and therefore hooked up with the girlfriend while he was still married. I think the homewrecking Ho can at least wait unitl the ink is dry on the divorce papers.
2006-11-09 06:03:20 · answer #6 · answered by Debra D 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It depends on the temperature of the divorce. Mine was amicable and I had no problem with my ex-husband meeting someone special. If it's a nasty divorce case, with child custody and alimony, you may want to cool it until it's final.
It really depends; is he a good man or a jerk? Is his ex wife reasonable or is she a jerk? Gauge the situation carefully.
2006-11-09 05:59:49 · answer #7 · answered by Ade 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
My friend had her boyfriend move in while he was still in the middle of a bad divorce. She cared about him alot, but his divorce took a huge toll on their relationship, and left her feeling totally drained. His wife ended up getting 90% of is paycheck in spousal and child support, and my friend ended up supporting him.
After about 6 months, they totally resented each other, fought all the time, stopped being intimate, etc.
A divorce is a very hard time for someone, and it is definitely not a good time to jump in to a relationship with someone else. He needs time to adapt to his new life alone.
This is a big change. You should really reconsider.
2006-11-09 06:04:59 · answer #8 · answered by Mrs.Gaddis 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
If you are dating a man that is going through a divorce you should not let him move in with you until it is final because his ex could use this against him in court stating that he was comitting adultry and make him pay alimony.
2006-11-09 05:55:04 · answer #9 · answered by Venus 3 · 2⤊ 3⤋
He needs time to function on his own instead of jumping from one relationship to another. There's also a chance him and his wife could decide to give it another try.
2006-11-09 06:15:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋