My ex. boyfriend left me for his baby momma w/o saying anything to me....I had to find out for myself....he moved in with her....I was hurt not to much mad...I understand that they have a child together and there are jus somethings you have to put aside because of that....I did what i could for this man and i felt that he could have told me the situation and y he was moving in with her and him and i could have just been friends.....well I haven't seen or spoke to him in about 2 1/2 months untill this past tuesday we had a good talk and i asked him y he didn't tell me and what made him move in with her.....he gave me some reasonable answeres.....but now he does not live with her any more because all they did was argue and it was just not going to work and now he wants to get back with me.....I love him so much that i haven't stoped thinking about him since that last day i saw him and seeing him agian made me fall in love all over agian i'm jus not sure if i should let him back in....
2006-11-09 05:49:34 · 14 answers · asked by Sky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi
First of all I understood everything in your message you just put alot of slang words in and people use baby momma all the time so don't even worry about the other messages. Honestly though if you are looking to get hurt again then I would say YES! If he left you and didn't give you the respect you deserved by saying it was over then what makes you think he would not up and do it again. The old saying is Love can make you blind. Open your eyes girl and see him for what he is.
2006-11-09 05:57:45 · answer #1 · answered by justagirl2 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well my dear that is only a choice that you can make. I,m sure you already know the pros and cons of this relationship more better than any of us out here. My advice is to think this through for a bit and then decide what both your head and your heart tells you . I know that they are in conflict right now or you would not of asked this question. -Best of luck.
2006-11-09 13:54:44 · answer #2 · answered by ~♥ L ♥~ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good Lord, where did we get the term "baby momma"? I think you should be glad you are no longer associated with the jerk. Find a nice man who will marry you and with whom you can build a life.
P.S. Also learn to write and spell.
2006-11-09 13:52:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let him move back in with you if you want a relationship with him take time and try to start things over between the two of you and then take it from there
2006-11-09 13:55:09 · answer #4 · answered by tpchick22 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
ok for one baby momma drama.. and for two you bet not let him back he left you without anything to say if you take him back you are a sad sad SAD women. so go buy you a outfit and hit the club to find you somebody without no drama.
2006-11-09 13:55:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Good. He should be with the mother of his child. I hope they get married and make it work. Oh wait.. he left her and wants you? Ok so he has a baby with one woman, then he dates you, then he dumps you and goes back to her, then he dumps her and now wants you.... he's a human yo-yo!
Don't see him again- he's a waste of time.
2006-11-09 13:52:29 · answer #6 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
dont take him back. because if he loved you and respected you he should have spared a little time to tell you that he was leaving you. gal i kow you can find yourself a better man. pliz pliz pliz dont take him back he is going to be a heart ache.
2006-11-09 14:03:20 · answer #7 · answered by Obria 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT DO IT! He is an asshole!
Don't you think you are worth more than that?
I'm trying to understand how you were so calm about it like it was ok.
2006-11-09 13:59:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Haha...baby's momma
2006-11-09 13:51:58 · answer #9 · answered by jrhod263 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG - NO - Stay away from him. He'll do it again. Did he tell his baby's mother that he's breaking up with her or did he just leave???
2006-11-09 13:52:52 · answer #10 · answered by eightieschic 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋