my boyfriend is white. we have been going out for 4 months now. my family is cool with it and his famliy is cool with it too. i want to tell ,y father but i am afraid of how he will act
2006-11-09 05:11:26 · 18 answers · asked by santiagardner 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"Father, I'm dating a person outside of my race."
2006-11-09 05:13:40 · answer #1 · answered by a_blue_grey_mist 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Depends what race your dating outside of N A S C A R or the Busch
2006-11-09 05:18:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
just ell him. Race shouldnt be and issue in these times. If he doesnt like the guy for his race then say, daddy your a racists and i thought you were bigger and better than that. On the other hand if he doesnt lie him someother reason take it into consideration because your parents (especially dads or brothers) can see what we ladies cant (because wwe may be blinded by love.
Thats just my two cents...
peace and love- chai
2006-11-09 05:19:14 · answer #3 · answered by chai 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If skin color didnt matter this wouldnt be an issue. Instead of making a big deal out of what color he is why not just tell your dad what a great guy your boyfriend is. In other words focus on the important things about him to your dad, not his color.
2006-11-09 05:14:21 · answer #4 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your dad should want you to be loved so he is not going to initially like any guy that you bring to him, black, white, Asian, Puerto Rican, etc.. it does not matter. So let him know you found a man that has been treating you nice and you wanted him to know and then describe the guy to your dad. Good Luck!!!
2006-11-09 05:16:20 · answer #5 · answered by jman 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well...if u r very happy with ur bf and your father really loves u then he shouldnt let that ruin a great relationship...im sure he'll understand...if u need to u should probably have another family member or really close friend help u break ti to him...Best of luck! :)
2006-11-09 05:15:09 · answer #6 · answered by SoCcEr ChIcKa13 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Very quickly, at a distance, and make sure you are wearing a good pair of running shoes. Dad's are always a little overprotective of their little girls, but he will calm down and it will be ok.....just give him some time (also a door left open will give you a quicker exit) Good luck, hon!
2006-11-09 05:14:32 · answer #7 · answered by Yahoo Answerer 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just get him to sit down in a VERY comfortable chair, and tell him straight out. Who knows, he might be happy for you. Good Luck.
2006-11-09 05:14:45 · answer #8 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Unless he is violent or terribly rude, set up a dinner date for you to introduce the two of them. No need to tell him about the race thing up front.
2006-11-09 05:13:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
tell your father you love your boyfriend and that it does not really matter if his out of your race its love it does not matter.
' Dad am dating this guy and his not my race'
2006-11-09 05:13:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋