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My faithful, horny girlfriend?
My girlfriend has confided that she wants a black male stripper for her birthday. She said that if I got her one, she would allow me one wish also, like my fantasy about her dressing up like a maid. She said that she has been faithful and would just like one fantasy and would not ask for more. She stresses that I would be the only one who benefits from her being turned on--she would attack me shortly after the strippers performance. She says that she would not do anything sexual with the stripper, but would touch his big package if I agree. If not, she would just look. Should she get it out of her system? She IS a faithful woman and is extremely open with me. She says that she is 25 this year and would like to do one crazy thing before we marry. I have had much more sexual experience than her and she thinks this would even the playing field, so that she has no regrets when she settles down. Rather than sneak around, she wants my blessing. Should I give her a dark fantasy night?

2006-11-09 04:32:50 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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yes,give her her fantasy,u had ur share of fooling around,let her have her share under ur supervision,coz after that she will be married to u and no more foling around,so grant her her last wish before marriage.it is only fair thing to do.

2006-11-13 01:38:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

That is a very difficult situation you have there. I understand why you would be concerned. Despite her faithfulness to you, you do recognize the potential for error. Either on your part or hers. One thing I would suggest you do is rid yourself of this idea that the "playing field" needs to be evened. That isn't necessary. If you approach the situation from that angle, then there is bound to be problems. Speak to your girlfriend, express your concerns rather than posting them here. I understand thay you may be hesitant to address it with her, you need the support of others, but this is something she needs to know. Let her know what you fear could be the result of allowing this 'Fantasy' to take place. She has promised you that she will fulfill your fantasy- which is great. You do you. But there is an unavoidable difference between yours and hers, that is, hers involves another person. Your concern, your fear lies in her fantasy being fulfilled, or satisfied through another individual, instead of yourself. You really need to do some self exploration here. Ask yourself if this is something you can recover from. By that I mean, jot down what the repercussions of this could be. How could this affect you (and her- or rather your relationship) in a short term and long term sense. She has been faithful. And I am sure that you are a good judge of character, but you do need to realize that each action does become a precursor to another. By allowing this to happen, you may "open" a gate for other things to be requested of you. This may or may not happen. And I am not trying to scare you, I just want you to consider the consequences. But if you are confident in yourself and what you have with her, and you have invested a great deal of time in speaking to her about this. Asking her questions, finding out her concerns about this, and you feel that you are in a position where allowing this 'fantasy' to take place will not be detrimental to your relationship, then by all means- let it happen. You're young, life is a blessing and it offers you so many great things. Make use of the time you have and live it to the fullest. I know how you feel. I've been through something similar. I hope I was able to at least provide you with a way to get to the "answer" if not the answer itself.

2016-05-22 00:33:32 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

I would give it too her but the I wouldn't let her touch cause that Black snake might come alive and then she might be telling you another story. I like that she can ask you instead of her doing it behind your back beside what are you going to do for your bachelor party.

2006-11-09 04:44:54 · answer #3 · answered by isitreal1963 3 · 0 0

Just the thought of it angers me! We all have sexual fantasies but once you are in a relationship, its time to have respect for your one and only. She is acting a fool! She would touch!! She has already cheated in her mind! If you feel o.k with this I think she has met her true sole mate.

2006-11-09 04:41:09 · answer #4 · answered by Adam B 1 · 1 0

i'ld say go fro it man, BUT! u never know these women these days. they say things to make u think that way like, sayin you'll be the only one. BUT u know if it's before you marry, I'ld just let her have hers while u have urs. after all, who knows how much fun you'll have after the wedding vows have been said. after her one night, hehe, you just might be in heaven with her when u get ur wish! Have a good one PEACE!

2006-11-09 04:37:45 · answer #5 · answered by metal_dude06 2 · 0 0

nope only gonna lead to her thinking a bout a big black wang instead of yours

and more dark fantasy nights after this one

2006-11-09 04:35:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1 3

i wouldnt but then im not in the relationship.. dig deep on this one. why would she want to touch another when yours is right there. again people think different.

2006-11-09 04:36:15 · answer #7 · answered by justincase119 2 · 2 1

ahhh, the road to perdition is scattered with such ideas and lusts.

2006-11-09 04:37:29 · answer #8 · answered by richard c 4 · 0 0

go ahead just beware it opens doors just make sure your one is a good one

2006-11-09 04:43:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

yes

2006-11-13 00:06:16 · answer #10 · answered by john 7 · 0 0

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