I am 21 years old, been dating a girl for two months and she is a month pregnant with my child, and ever since it happend we have been fighting non stop.Our relationship ended recently after a fight, I dont know if its for good, and i dont know what to do in the situation i am in. can someone please help me?
2006-11-09 04:48:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well, I think you should stick with her and try to work things out. Right now she is in her first stage of pregnancy and she is very emotional right now. believe it or not I went through this with me daughter father I was so mean when I first got pregnant and we did brake up for maybe a week so I know how she feels I was 19. Look at it this way she is not in her right mind right now give her maybe a month or two let her get pass that first stage on pregnancy you will be fine. Try to be there as much as you can for her she is going to need you alot.
2006-11-09 05:01:03 · answer #1 · answered by Cherie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pregnant woman have alot of mixed emotions during pregnancy try to stick with her during that time maybe after the baby gets her she will be back to her old self but if that dont work just end the relationship with her not with the child because the child needs u if ur not with the mom or not maybe yall can become best of friends for the child interest
2006-11-09 05:02:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will have to talk to each other without fighting and figure out whats going on. If you can't be with each other then just talk about being in the child's life and how you can make things better for the child.
2006-11-09 04:55:30 · answer #3 · answered by Babe 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go on with your life, start getting prepared to be a father. Give her money or insurance for doctor visits, help buy some clothes for her now, buying diapers for newborns, find out in your state how much child support is for 1 child and decided which weekends and holidays each of you want.
2006-11-09 04:52:26 · answer #4 · answered by letthepartybeginnow 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately my best thoughts on this you may not like. But if you are a strong man, regardless of what you think about her, you need to be a strong and proud father for your baby in the future. Do not do what most scums on this Earth do, don't leave her alone, even if you don't love her, she is giving up more now for you than you can ever give up for her in the future. Be financially responsible too, don't think about yourself or let your **** do your thinking with another woman. You need to step up to the plate and become a real man now.
2006-11-09 04:59:46 · answer #5 · answered by droopydog88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please keep in mind that women are very emotional while we are pregnant. Sometimes the hormones will make us unreasonably emotional, and we may use poor judgment or just be overly dramatic for no reason. Hopefully you can talk this out with her without putting her down or making her feel as if things are all her fault for being overly emotional. Good luck!
2006-11-09 04:52:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get married and get premarital counseling.
Or, put the baby up for adoption.
You really don' t have much of a relationship after dating only 60 days, but with the baby, you're stuck with her for the rest of your life.
2006-11-09 04:51:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get used to the fightes...its apart of pregnancy..mood swings are common..they'll just get worse later in the pregnancy
just be there for her and be a good dad
2006-11-09 04:51:27 · answer #8 · answered by mommy2savannah51405 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it is not working out, it is not working out, BUT just sick by her and your unborn child, and help out as much as possible with everything. That is all you can do.
2006-11-09 04:51:15 · answer #9 · answered by Jenny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to have a relationship with her. But you have to have one with the kid. Take care of the kid but as for her, whatever....
2006-11-09 04:50:58 · answer #10 · answered by bodinibold 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋