do you think that this is right?

Question

Ok my brother and his girlfriend live with me and my boyfriend...anyways my younger brother came and stayed for the week the second night he was here my (older) brothers girlfriend the one that lives with us was flirting and showing off her boobs to my younger brother what should i do??? should i kick her out tell my older brother or what??? by the way im 21 my older brother is 23 his girlfriend is 18 and my young brother is 20

Answer 1

i think you should let your brother know i mean this is very wrong! who does she think she is!? she not only disrespected her brother but she did the same to you get her out of your place fast what if she is doing it or has done it to your boyfriend and hes to scared to tell you????

Answer 2

Tell your brother (the one going out with her), and tell him they need to work it out. If he doesn't listen, then he is almost condoning it. Also, tell the younger brother you are going to tell the older brother, because something tells me it wasn't just her that was flirting. But this way, if it was, the girlfriend can't turn this around on you or him.

The other possibility is that maybe the older brother likes girls who are like that. I apologize if i'm wrong, but he may not think its a big deal. If that is the case, you need to let him know that you don't feel that is acceptable behavior.

If it isn't the case, you need to give him his space to take care of this on his own.

Answer 3

Surprised at your ages because they sounded more like 15 or 16.

Since it's your place I would tell her to leave. Let her explain it to your older brother.

By the way when I was 14 something similar happened to me and she ended up seducing me and the results over time weren't good. My brother beat the **** out of me. She got off pretty good though.

Answer 4

well i would definitely tell your older brother and just say look i love you your my brother but i feel like your gf always flirting with the younger brother and i don't think its right so take it or leave it and that you don't like it if you want her out then tell him or just let him resolve the problem

Answer 5

First you should tell her that if she is not able to respect you, your place and the people who are residing there, then you are going to have to ask her to leave, immediately after you tell her that then tell your brother, as a matter of fact tell her while your brother is there.

Answer 6

I would think it to be unappropriate. If it bothers you and makes you uncomfortable simply kindly ask your brother's girlfiend if she would refrain from doing those things in front of you. If you don't want to sound like you are complaining too much simply say it makes you uncomfortable and to smooth things out ask her if there is anything you do that makes her uncomfortable that you could refrain from doing. If she refuses to listen and continues in this matter it would be something you would need to tell your older brother about.

Answer 7

she's a dumb girl to screw this bad. Tell your younger brother to tell your older brother what happened, and he doesn't beleive him, then you should tell him that it is true, because you saw everything, besides who's going to take an 18 year old seriously, common.

Answer 8

You should talk about it to your older brother. And also you should tell his girlfriend nicely that she should STOP.

Answer 9

tell your brother, if she will flirt with his brother who knows who else she would do it with or how she would go with it. I think u should tell him and let know u r not trying 2 get into their business but u thought he should know be4 he finds out the hard way

Answer 10

Tell your brother