I found a receipt for diamond earrings. I found out he is having lunch with her almost daily. She went on vacation with us and they left me in a motel room and they went bar hopping. I had to drive the truck to the beach and her and him rode the motorcycle down and back. We went to the movies and he sat and through popcorn in her mouth like teenager right in front of me and another couple . No matter where we go she has to come along. If I say anything I am crazy. Am I crazy? What should I do?
2006-11-09 05:01:12 · 27 answers · asked by springer 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sue for alienation of affection. That will let you know what their intentions are and get you a little of that money back from the vacation and the earrings. Hey, divorce and take half if you like, but whatever you decide to do, you deserve to be treated with respect and like the queen that you are. If he is not doing that then you have not found the one. Good Luck!!!
2006-11-09 05:07:10 · answer #1 · answered by jman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No your not crazy. But on the other hand do you really think that they are having an affair. You need to really have your own time with him and you need to put your foot down and not let your little sister go on vacation with you. I guess my perspective of vacation is immediate family spending good quality time together and your sister isnt your immediate family anymore your older and there is no need to have to take her everywhere I can understand once in awhile but not everywhere all of the time. This sounds like a sticky mess and I wouldnt like it at all. Has she ever done anything like this to you in previous boyfriends or something? They are getting to close in my opinion and I just think that you should put a stop to it. She should been the one sitting the motel room and the one driving the truck it makes no sense. Why do you allow them to this? People will do the things they want to as long as you allow them to. If you were to put your foot down and say no more it could either end in a very messy situation or be better. But in the long run its going to better for your happiness either way. Put your foot down and dont allow them to treat you like that. I dont know I would never hang out with my sisters spouse without her unless it was to get her a gift or something. I dont know its like an unspoken code.
2006-11-09 13:12:04 · answer #2 · answered by hmm 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to confront him and ask him if he's having an affair with your sister. Blood is thicker than water, so I don't understand why your husband and your sister are hurting you so badly. You need to file for divorce, get rid of him, and move on! As far as your sister goes, I honestly don't know if your relationship with your sister is worth saving. Good luck to you and you deserve a lot better!
2006-11-09 13:06:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I wer you, I'd start looking for a good man, or just leave him because you should be abe to do bad all by yourself. If you be the biggr person, it will make both of them feel worse, but you still need to be happy to, so go find that happiness eventhough you thought you've already found it, which means you found a fool who could see what he HAD.
2006-11-09 13:09:24 · answer #4 · answered by Jerome E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not crazy! Stick up for yourself and get rid of him. You're sister needs help, too, to hurt a family member like that! Get out while you still can and don't put yourself through this drama. You deserve better!
2006-11-09 13:06:19 · answer #5 · answered by wish2bwriter 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, your sis needs a good ole smack upon the head. Not that I condone violence or anything, but WOW.
Divorce him. Even if they are not having sex (doubtful) he is replacing his wife with your sis.
I am so sorry, what a truly crappy position to be put in. And no, you're not crazy. Just in a bad marriage.
2006-11-09 13:05:07 · answer #6 · answered by Gem 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
GIRLLLLLLL ok no you are not crazy and you know what she is your sister yes but at the same time shes not i would first LEAVE HIM !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and then give her the silent treatment for month she will realize she dont know how much she cares until your not there anymore a bf is like a doll eventually u dont want it anymore but a sister is like a heart you always need it!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-09 13:07:04 · answer #7 · answered by justins_nmber_one 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Collect all the proof you have. Throw him out, tell your mother the reason you wont be talking to your sister anymore. Close the bank accounts etc after you take all the money out and open accounts in your name at a different bank, pack his clothes, toys, etc throw them out in the driveway with copies of your proof.
2006-11-09 13:06:03 · answer #8 · answered by letthepartybeginnow 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The next time you all go somewhere... movies, beach or whatever, invite a guy along to keep you company and to joke around with... see what he says then...
2006-11-09 13:06:11 · answer #9 · answered by deakjone 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you're not crazy----You have the true sense that means it's time to move on---DOUBT.When in doubt, then get out.They sound very disloyal.Take the earrings when you go-it will make you feel better.Curses to them both....
2006-11-09 13:51:35 · answer #10 · answered by Maw-Maw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋