I belive "There's no point in just grown up by parents.. playing.. studying.. earning.. only taking care of family.. wedding.. bringing up kids.. then die oneday.." what's the big deal? Just a normal human life.. Can't we do big things in life.. other than just..
2006-11-09 05:02:51 · 16 answers · asked by littlehearts13 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Marriage is not the end all and be all in relationships. neither is the current life script pattern (born, school, marriage, kids, retirement,die...) that is way too boring. unfortunatley that kind of concept is constantly being thrown at us no thanks to the media outlets (tv, magazines, radio) in a variety of ways. only when we become independent thinkers and start thinking outside of what our parents did and outside of what our friends and family expects and start charting our own course is when we will truely experience happinest at its fullest. but some people do think that marriage is the end all and be all...and so they settle. others really want to have the marriage with family and two kids with a dog and a big house. there's nothing wrong with that. only when other people expect for you to live like they do is when it's wrong. only you can live your own life, nobody else.
2006-11-09 05:11:43 · answer #1 · answered by cfalways 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is whatever very deep, and personal, and i offer you credit for asking this. So, he refuses to move to counseling? If he denies you at all times eventually (if it hasn't already occurred) it'll take a horrible toll on you emotionally, and mentally. Does he shut you out whilst you try to talk to him? If I have been you i might take a seat down with him and be open and honest and tell him the way you believe, tell him how him pushing you away is affecting you as a girl. Tell him you want him to be there for you physically, and emotionally, and if he can't supply that to you then you definitely need to make a serious choice with the intention to have an impact on the leisure of your lifestyles. Can you reside without intimacy for the rest of your existence, or dp you wish to have to be with any person who can give you the companionship you deserve? I think it could be worthy for you to go see a counselor, (even though he does no longer), they will have to be in a position to provide you with some guidance, and help you suppose powerful for your ultimate resolution. You should be pleased, and if your now not joyful do not stay where you're depressing just given that he says "i like you". Be glad dear, excellent success!
2016-08-09 22:13:21 · answer #2 · answered by aliaga 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One can certainly live without marriage & it is not a must. Now if your question is cant one live without a relationship/partner then my answer would be different. As such I see no reason to have a formal commitment in paper. As long as two people are happy to carry on with thier relationship or the lack of it, there is no need for wedding or to have kids. And if you have no one special in your life...again there is no need to be paranoid about it. You can have a lots of fun with friends. And be satisfied at it. I know a lot of my friends who end up spending much more time with thier friends than thier wife which obviously means though married they prefer spending time in thier friends company... so never ever settle for someone coz you want a wedding and the likes. You will & can be happy with status quo!
2006-11-09 05:13:19 · answer #3 · answered by Mock-mast 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I enjoy being a father. That is the greatest thing in the world to me. but marriage, i just ended mine. Marriage is not a neccessity not for me. I do want to get married again, and have children with that woman. THat is my life. That is big for me. Children are a gift and I feel privilaged to raise my kids.
2006-11-09 05:06:04 · answer #4 · answered by Saint 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is committment. I believe in committment. I do not believe that there is anything bigger or more important than raising children to be happy well-adjusted people. Whether or not we get married, we are all someday going to die. The only truly happy people have made a committment to either their families, GOD or the betterment of mankind. I have a feeling that you are young. You have time to made choices. GOOD LUCK.
2006-11-09 05:11:14 · answer #5 · answered by bettyswestbrook 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
there is no point arguing in it..
you can ask any married person answer will be same... it is fine
but what before marriage if one compares it was fantastic and this time no pilferage in answer I am married and believe me dont go for it ther is just one reason in this world to get married is the PARENTS WISH and if you will get married the wish changes to child kids etc.. and life is absolute hell and there no time to look at it if it is good or bad
bass theek hai..
dont go for marriage
2006-11-09 05:13:03 · answer #6 · answered by raunak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone in life is free to do with it as they so choose.
Whatever makes one happy and complete is anyone's choice.
Marriage is not a requirement. And I believe many are beginning to understand and embrace the single lifestyle.
2006-11-09 05:10:11 · answer #7 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Though marriage is not must, you can find out yourself that its better to get married than to be single from the fallowing points
1. its good to have a person,who will be always with you to share your happyness n sadness
2. it would be good to have a partner who helps you in doing things, so that your life becomes easy. in return you can help her/him with things you are better at.
3. you always have someone to talk to.
2006-11-09 05:11:18 · answer #8 · answered by new_guy_hyd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
marriage is not about sex relationships bondages. it is compulsory to any one. life means struggling with problems and understanding family persons. wife gives sex security family honor takes care of health emotional protection. moreover she is ready to bear all nonsense hearing about useless matters. she gets all the information to you to take care of entire life. parants would with the pasage of time. and you need some children to make you happy with love and affection. love emotions are not so easily avalilable outside. yoo need blood relationship in bondages. eventhough its hurting sometimes same way they would be ready too share all your weaknesses and drawbacks. friends would be biggest enemies when coming to career. they would be spending their own families. you would regret it later if u dont do it. but if u want to be like sankaracharya vivekananda vajpayee saibaba then its fine. if nodesires ready to serve the society i welcome your dsecision. donate all your property and join asram serve the society like paramahansa yogananda. even budha valmiki tulasidas changed their life due to thier wife concerns. dont make any serious decisions. be part of the society live like ganga river flow naturally without comiting to false social prestige and provoked bad emotional friends. what about sex romance girl friends movies family tv career? do u require them . then u cant escape from the purified marriage institution. so join in our club and enjoy smooth life . all the best . god bless you.
2006-11-09 05:22:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its completely up to you. I chose that life and I feel great about my decision.
2006-11-09 05:07:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋