Hi. The thing is there is this guy at my school that I like a lot but I’m nervous about asking him out. I kind of wanted him to ask me but my friend said he wouldn’t because he is so shy (which is very true, but so am I) and that I should ask him. I don’t know if he would say yes. And if he said no, that situation is always weird and I would have to sit by him in so many classes which would be very awkward. I really like this guy and I keep hinting that I do but I don’t know if he is picking that up or not. I told my mother and she said I should give him the opportunity to ask me to the Christmas dance next month instead of me asking him. What should I do?
2006-11-09 04:59:13 · 19 answers · asked by Emma G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Mention that you want to go to the Christmas dance but you haven't got a partner yet. Then smile at him. If he doesn't pick up on that then I don't think it's worth it....
2006-11-09 05:01:22 · answer #1 · answered by Katrina Van Tassel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why Not Go For It What Have You Got To Lose! Especially If You Have The Gutts To Ask Him Out!
But Personally I Would Only Ask As Long As You Knew That He Was Single
But Then On The Other Hand So What If He Said No Just Move On Plenty More Fish In The Sea!
2006-11-09 05:42:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think these situations are really sweet, but your mother is right wait until the Christmas dance, as you will soon find out whether he is interested or not. Asking him now and if he replies back no this will make things difficult for you. If you can't wait then if you have a friend who knows one of his friend they could may be ask him what he thinks of you and maybe you can take from there. However it would be reasonable to wait as patience is a virtue and you won't get hurt.
2006-11-09 05:14:50 · answer #3 · answered by vic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, i agree with that dude ^ lol. Well, wait to the Christmas dance and see what happens. You can sort of talk about it him to it or whatever and if he asks you then all is good ;o) but normally, what happens is love just clicks. And if your both spending time together, you know you like each other but your unsure of the others person's feelings. you should try and suss out whether he like you or not. If he does then don't doubt yourself and go for it.
But you could do some sneaking around :P ask his mate whether he likes you or not.. if you can trust him that is lol
good luck!
2006-11-09 05:07:01 · answer #4 · answered by x_theblackparade_x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next month?! My dear girl, were you to wait a month he may be asked by someone else who wants to get in first! Carpe diem by Christ! It's always rather nice for us chaps to be asked out by a lady. And if he's anything like I was in school he'll be too ****-scared to ask you! But then I am rather odd.
Also, don't hint. We men are quite oblivious to it, especially at an adolescent level. I recall a girl 'dropping hints' and I liked her too. But then she moved away. A friend of hers told me of her feelings months later. Boy was I pissed off!
In the words of popular plimsol manufacturer 'Nike', Just Do It...
2006-11-09 05:06:57 · answer #5 · answered by Ben631 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With guys you can not give suttle hints. You almost have to say you like him and want him to ask you to the dance. Let him ask you. Tell him how much fun dances are but you wont get to go becasue no one is going to ask you. Then ask him if he is going to go and with who. And keep saying you really want to go. That should work if he likes you no matter how shy he is.
2006-11-09 05:06:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well there isn't a long time left for Christmas party. I think I would wait too. If you ask him now and he says no even though he likes you and don't know why he would say no though, then you'll be worrying more about approaching event. So I would wait
2006-11-09 05:03:52 · answer #7 · answered by better late than never 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you are afraid of being turned down at school. So, have your friend get his number, give him a call and just let him know whats on your mind, and get him to let you know whats on his mind and then see what happens from there. You are not embarrassed and he is not on the spot with friends. Good Luck!!!
2006-11-09 05:03:22 · answer #8 · answered by jman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's good advice from your mother. Drop hints around that time.
2006-11-09 05:01:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him when he is on his own so his friends don't influence his decision an any way.
2006-11-09 05:05:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋