Ha ha not in the mood. I get told that all the time it depends on the situation and it really is always me instigating things. But if he hasn't had a long day at work I don't ask I just do I go down without asking and it ends in sex. I think that things die down after awhile but you just have to work harder to make it happen I suppose. I do a lot of the touching and kissing I think its just cause they don't think that way. When they do its sweet. If I waited for him we would probably have sex once a week and that just wouldnt cut it for me.
2006-11-09 05:00:53
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answered by Anonymous
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In my house it goes both ways. We are always all over each other. If my hubby is a bit tired, I wake up certain parts of him and then he can't say no! lol
2006-11-09 12:56:00
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answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7
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I'm not married now, but I have been and I'm now engaged, so I think I qualify for this one. ;) Generally, I wait for my man to make the first move. BUT, this is only because I'm so afraid of any kind of rejection (even something as silly as sex)from him. It makes me feel unattractive and undesireable. But, there are LOTS of women who can make the first move with confidence. :)
2006-11-09 12:58:42
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answered by WiccaWoman 4
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Usually it's my husband who makes the first move. I'm thinking about kids, dishes, work, whatever. Sometimes, I'll go after him if he's really tired and do all the work. I know he appreciates it.
2006-11-09 12:57:43
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answered by wish2bwriter 2
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Sometimes. but there is no set pattern... it depends on how each of us is feeling. We don't start something unless we both want it and then there is no problem... If someone is tired it is like flogging a dead horse.... it doesn't work....
2006-11-09 12:56:48
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answered by doclakewrite 7
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sometimes i start it but at other times he starts it. If either one of us is tired then we wait till morning or later on
2006-11-09 12:57:01
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answered by Anonymous
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It pretty much goes both ways now. It used to be that it was always me. When I brought it to my husbands attention he said it was because he didn't want me to fell like all he wanted from me was sex( like some wife's do) . We talked it out and now things are pretty equal.
2006-11-09 13:01:46
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answered by DEBBY'S BABY 4
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Both parties should keep the flame alive in the bedroom.
It is great to feel desired.
2006-11-09 13:43:41
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answered by onlineseeker 4
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I would ALWAYS let him initiate it...and sometimes I would go to bed angry and antsy...but recently I have been Initiating and it has been soooooo good.....If you want it then go get it!!! you both will be Pleased!!!
2006-11-09 13:02:10
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answered by YourGSpot.net 3
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