Family & Relationships - 7 November 2006

I used to have lots of friends but i wasn't close with any of them and many of them were really mean to me and put me down all the tim. At the beginning of the last school year i started to become friends with this new group of girls and i found out i had a lot in common with them. My old friends didn't like these new girls and tried to make me choose and i chose my new friends. This school year i became best friends with these girls but they always walked all over me and i let them do it. Last week that all started acting weird and stopped talking to me. I confronted them about it and it turned out that they all hate me. They say i am mean because i ditched my old friends which they pressured me to do and they say that i am bad person and they hate me. What should i do because i don't want to be friends with those girls anymore if they are mean but i can't go back to my old friends cos they always put me down. I can't belive those girls hate me so much i don't know what i did to them

2006-11-07 05:46:27 · 14 answers · asked by Holly 2 in Friends

I just found out that I have a step sister. I barely join myspace, and a month into the program a girl wanted me to add her as a friend. I look at her profile and saw that a lot of my family member were in her friend list. I just assume that she was my cousin. I ask one of my cousin about her and she told that she was my half sister. I dont know what to do, I dont know what to talk to her about. If you have any advice please tell me.

2006-11-07 05:46:13 · 8 answers · asked by Jesus A 1 in Family

2006-11-07 05:45:34 · 14 answers · asked by mich 3 in Marriage & Divorce

about 6 mths later he just turned into a complete jerk. We have been on and off for these 5 yrs. We'll get together for a few months break up for like 6 mths get back together. Well two mths ago I broke up w him bcuz he said some really mean things. I couldnt even believe he said what he did. But now he keeps calling me, emailing & iming me like nothing happened. He hasnt even apologized bcuz he said he meant what he said. I am done w/ him I am tired of it After being together on and off for 5 yrs and it still hasnt worked why even try? I am still young(i'm 22) and want to move forward w/ my life and I dont even see him the same way I used to after what he said. I cant believe he would ever say anything like that to me. How can I get him off my mind and move on w/ my life when he wont let me go?

2006-11-07 05:45:33 · 8 answers · asked by Jennifer V 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex freind wants to fight me. I do weigh 250 pounds and he only weigh 110. But hes much faster, more limber and in a lot better shape. He also has beaten me in arm wrestling in less than 5 seconds. I feel like a coward if I don't fight but I know he could beat the snot out of me. What should I do?

2006-11-07 05:44:38 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

male to female that is

2006-11-07 05:43:26 · 11 answers · asked by be real 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-07 05:42:04 · 22 answers · asked by chris g 2 in Friends

I have primary custody. We divorced in Alabama. She moved to California. She refuses to let the courts know where she works or lives. She is already 6 months behind in childsupport. Please help.

2006-11-07 05:41:58 · 4 answers · asked by silliw1961 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Here is the situation. Me and my friend knew each other for about 15 years. We always talked and hung out. One day he found a girlfriend and basically stopped talking to me. He doesn't answer his e-mail and doesn't pick up his phone. Why do you think this is? Was this his plan all along or is his girlfriend to blame?

2006-11-07 05:41:52 · 12 answers · asked by psuman2100 1 in Singles & Dating

She e-mailed me this morning telling me all of her problems after she left our marriage for another guy! Saying she found a note I had written her 3 months ago and it made her cry. Why should I care anymore? She really messed up my world! TS!!

2006-11-07 05:41:41 · 21 answers · asked by Johnboy 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I come from a family of 14 kids and people are sometimes negative and sometimes positive. What is your initial reaction?
What if I told you that my dad is a Doctor and my Mom a lawyer (both true) But does that change your perspective? I don't think it should.

2006-11-07 05:41:10 · 11 answers · asked by Opinion 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-07 05:41:06 · 6 answers · asked by steph k 1 in Singles & Dating

we've been best friends for over 4 years. she was going to move to california from australia to live with me. but now shes kinda dating a guy she kinda likes, and i realize i can't be just a friend to her. i love her. i always have. i told her last night... i can't stand on the sidelines and watch her date another guy, especialy when she can't even think of any reason whatsoever that she wont date me.

i dont know what to do. i'll keep living, i'll keepworking... but i just have to stop hurting.

2006-11-07 05:40:17 · 5 answers · asked by Arklan 1 in Singles & Dating

i split from my 6 year relationship with my fiance 8 months ago.we had our own place too.when i was with my ex, i was introduced to this guy. hes not a friend of my ex. anyway, we swapped numbers coz we had alot in common career wise. he said that he wished he could meet someone like me, but understood that i was in a relationship. despite this, he would always text me asking me to meet im for drinks. i declined as i was with my boyf. my boyf also told him to stop texting me but he didnt. anyway, since, i have split from my ex (not coz of this guy) he is still texting me to meet him for drinks. he has been chasing me for ages now. i have met him a couple of times and have stayed over is place (as i live in a different town to him). we have only kissed eachother. he always compliments me and always makes conversation with me.i always catch im looking at me too.he hasnt pressured me for sex but as asked me to give him oral. i have refused yet he is still contacting me.

2006-11-07 05:40:00 · 15 answers · asked by Pretty Little Girl xxx 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-07 05:39:16 · 14 answers · asked by Bob the Cat.™ 4 in Singles & Dating

It is not the first time this happens. Last week they went to a mini vacation and we stayed home. Now they have money trouble. I feel kind of bad for them, but I don't think they administer their finances correctly. We also have debts. We try to be wise about our money. What should we do? Is this fair?

2006-11-07 05:38:51 · 11 answers · asked by Nicole Ch 1 in Family

i have been single for a year and i am very shy. what can i do.

2006-11-07 05:38:00 · 22 answers · asked by willjw17 1 in Singles & Dating

i like this boy in my class but i am not sure if he likes me what should i do go for it or stay behind.Also he put me on the top 5 good looking girls in my class.is that a clue he likes me.my friend says she is starting to like him i think she is copying me she has been copying me since 4 grade im soooo confused

2006-11-07 05:37:15 · 17 answers · asked by SIANI S 1 in Friends

I'm a successful 22 year old female. Not to sound full of myself, but I don't think I'm that bad looking, I have a great job, great friends, but I just can't seem to meet any nice guys...I go to bars, but hey the only guys I met there are lame, been in jail, too immature, etc. I'm not that picky, I guess I just don't know where to look. HELP!

2006-11-07 05:37:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have been through so much together and we have been arguing alot lately. I believe I am suffering in depression and I have back sliden significantly in my walk as a Christian. We went to Vegas for a weekend trip with all of our friends and one night I got really drunk and yelled at him and berated him and told him "I felt like beating him up or leaving the Room". Needless to say I had a reason to be upset but not to express myself in that manner. I felt ashamed and foolish. I also got really insecure and starting begging him not to be mad at me and not to leave me. He then said, "since we have been engaged I feel our relationship as gone down the tubes...all we do is fight". I immediately sensed that he didn't want to be with me anymore. Since then he has not talked to me and has not come to bed for two days. He hasn't asked for the ring back he hasn't asked me to leave, but he is totally ignoring me.. He keeps saying to "leave him alone". I am trying but it is really hard

2006-11-07 05:35:24 · 9 answers · asked by prettybird 2 in Singles & Dating

a day ago i went to visit my girlfriend. she didn,t want any company and demanded that i leave her apatment. i stood there for quite awhile and she started acting like she was getting mad. telling me she didn't feel good. i still did'nt leave but i still decided to stay. then i told her that if i leave now, don't expect me to come over anymore. i told her that i wasn't going to come over to see her anymore if she wanted me to leave. all of a sudden she jump up from the chair that she was sitting in and grabbed my shirt pushing me saying "get out ", "get out", "get out". she put her fingers on my nose and scratch me there. when i put my finger on my nose i was bleeding a little bit. then she picked up an iron holding it in her hand like she wanted to hit me with it. i had to keep saying to her " I'm not going to leave you", "I'm not going to leave you. And that's what helped to calm her down. after all that she still let me stay over and we made love the next morning and she apologize

2006-11-07 05:34:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I REALLY LIKED HIM BUT HE DIDN'T KNOW MY NAME UNTILL TODAY WE TALKED AND THEN HE LOOKED AT ME A LOT OF TIMES
I THINK HE LIKES ME BUT I AM NOT SURE HOW CAN I MAKE IT SURE WITHOUT PUTTING MYSELF IN DANGER?

2006-11-07 05:34:44 · 4 answers · asked by Tina 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm sorry for being in your presence
I'm sorry for walking in your direction
I'm sorry for even existing
Perhaps I'm deserving of your dismissing
For I'm nothing but a ******* eyesore
Juxtaposed against the beautiful
At least this razor goes beneath the surface
Much deeper than you would ever go
So go and fondle that player's ego
Make him feel like a ******* king
While my sincere attempts get vetoed
With the most lethiferous of stings

Why... do... I... even... bother?
When each attempt only sets me back farther
Running this gauntlet of constant rejection
Would steer any man in this direction

I am just a worthless reject
I am just an also-ran
In this competition for your love
Thus, my libido stays locked in prison
Looking at lovers locking lips
Lacerates my lens
And seeing that I may never experience it
Makes my heart descend
Another bottle shatters like my psyche
Another tear falls to the floor
Forming an emotional oasis
Until I feel deserted once more

(CHORUS)

2006-11-07 05:33:39 · 15 answers · asked by Dawn of Darkness 1 in Singles & Dating

i get my son every other weekend a situation his mother and i came up with the court order was for different days but the judge said we could change as needed. my question is should my son be made to come over or atleast given the choice, he is 5 yaers old and my thiking is at five he knows what he does and does not want to do on the other hand his mother does not think so what do you think ?

2006-11-07 05:33:25 · 9 answers · asked by OFFICER CAMPBELL 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My gf used to always swallow. Now she doesn't. She says she never liked to swallow but tried to get used to it and couldn't. Should I insist? I know she would comply.

2006-11-07 05:33:19 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Just wondering if it's really possible to be "just friends" after the sexual relationship.

2006-11-07 05:33:16 · 18 answers · asked by who me? 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't get through a conversation without the ever formal "LOL" which I fined ridiculous.


This is such a petpeeve of mine, does anyone else notived that popular chatspeak abrevitations[sp] are taking over the world?

2006-11-07 05:32:53 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

be real im not a millionaire

2006-11-07 05:32:01 · 24 answers · asked by be real 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-07 05:31:11 · 8 answers · asked by Bob the Cat.™ 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-07 05:31:11 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating