i split from my 6 year relationship with my fiance 8 months ago.we had our own place too.when i was with my ex, i was introduced to this guy. hes not a friend of my ex. anyway, we swapped numbers coz we had alot in common career wise. he said that he wished he could meet someone like me, but understood that i was in a relationship. despite this, he would always text me asking me to meet im for drinks. i declined as i was with my boyf. my boyf also told him to stop texting me but he didnt. anyway, since, i have split from my ex (not coz of this guy) he is still texting me to meet him for drinks. he has been chasing me for ages now. i have met him a couple of times and have stayed over is place (as i live in a different town to him). we have only kissed eachother. he always compliments me and always makes conversation with me.i always catch im looking at me too.he hasnt pressured me for sex but as asked me to give him oral. i have refused yet he is still contacting me.
2006-11-07 05:40:00 · 15 answers · asked by Pretty Little Girl xxx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
is he really interested in me?is he just after one thing?why hasnt he asked me out properly?does the fact that hes been chasing me for ages and ages mean anything?hes told me that he likes me and thinks that im a nice girl.i asked him if he saw me as another knotch and he said i was being ridiculous and was talkng nonsense. should i believe im?
we only meet up on weekends if we are out in the same town together
we were fooling around kissing when he asked me to go "down there", he didnt just come out and say it in conversation!lol
2006-11-07 05:41:15 · update #1
OK, think of it this way - when he knew you were living with someone, do you think it was respectful (to either you or your ex-fiance) for him to ask you out for drinks?
He sounds like a selfish pest after one thing.
2006-11-07 05:45:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you met any of his friends or family? Has he shared anything personal about himself, like where he works or at least how he makes a living?
It is a given that guys always want sex, but the question is if it is ONLY about sex. Usually, when a guy shares personal things about himself it means he is truly interested in you as a person, and not just about sex. Introducing you to friends (good friends) and family is a good sign.
Take your time, and be patient. There are plenty of good guys out there.
2006-11-07 13:50:15 · answer #2 · answered by Jack C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I would feel offended if a guy I only saw on the weekends was telling me to give him a blow j**. Like where is the romanticism there? Seems like he's only after one thing. I hope you didn't leave your fiancee for this oral demanding ding dong. Tell me you didn't. And good luck! You can find someone better. If he respected you, he wouldn't be concerned with that as the first issue at hand.
2006-11-07 13:43:33 · answer #3 · answered by Mimi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds strange to me, think about this:-
1 - He knew you had a boyfriend but still tried to contact you, how many other people is he doing this with.
2 -He did not respect the relationship you had, would it be any different if you were with him, will he be texting other people.
3 - What does he do midweek?
2006-11-07 17:02:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were interested in this guy you wouldn't be asking for other peoples opinions.
Maybe your just not ready for anything yet and you don't know how to tell him.
The fact that you have asked this question twice should speak for itself.
I wouldn't have start a relationship with this guy if I were you, he doesn't seem to respect you in the slightest.
2006-11-07 13:51:16 · answer #5 · answered by debs1701 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like this guy was just using you, leave him alone n tell him 2 get a life. Lotsa people have this problem so dont worry.
2006-11-07 13:44:25 · answer #6 · answered by _charlotte_ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's funny what you consider not pressuring you for sex,-- yet wants you to give him oral. He sounds like a jerk. You're not in a relationship with him, he's asking you to s*** his d*** - how disrespectful is that?
2006-11-07 13:44:49 · answer #7 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He seems a little shady to me. I'd say don't let your guard down. I don't know if I'd trust someone that was chasing you when you both were in relationships.
2006-11-07 13:52:24 · answer #8 · answered by Chrissy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should just ask him outright next time you see him and see what he says, it's probably the only way to get an answer
2006-11-07 13:45:44 · answer #9 · answered by shortstuff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say this but:
1Grow up
2You either like him or you don't
3If you like him give him a BJ at least you can forget it and walk away.
Sorry MAKE YOUR MIND UP TIME
BJ or not BJ that is the question?
2006-11-07 13:47:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋