Family & Relationships - 7 November 2006

2006-11-07 05:30:57 · 26 answers · asked by Bo0!!!!!! 1 in Friends

ok i'm only 15-i've been in two relatinoships with a guy 6 months older and one with a guy 6 months younger-both relationships went about 6 months....and both ended abruptly when they left me for other girls.....i never tryed to hurt them,i always treated them right.....and they jus left me for girls who didn't even care about them...i don't understand why....i mean they couldn't even think of a good reason to break up with me,every guy says i'm beautiful,every guy says i'm sweet every guy even says they envy the guys who got to kiss me,but i don't have a bf.....isn't that weird? i mean i don't midn being alone,it's better then getting my heart broken-but.....when is that perfect guy gonna find me?the kind of guy who will treat me right? i know i know i'm only 15 but.......i don't know...i am happy for like every one of my friends who are in great relationships n stuff.... but all my gf's slight me to hang with their bf's and i end up getting left alone like even at parties n stuff

2006-11-07 05:30:53 · 11 answers · asked by greenismylife.songismyworld 2 in Singles & Dating

Hey all, I got asked to do a video by this guy and girl where they would film me getting tickled on the bottoms of my feet, I have never heard about anything this crazy before but it pays really well and they only tickle my feet so for some strange reason I am considering it because I really need the money. A few things weird me out a bit, first I am crazy ticklish which is why they want me to do it in the first place and secondly, they tie your feet up to tickle them. I am not sure I can handle 2 seconds of it nevertheless an hour long video but like I said I need the money. I am not sure anyone out there ever even heard of such a thing. I saw a few others they made and they look crazy!! I hope there is one person at least that could help me make a decision.

Thanks

Hanna

2006-11-07 05:30:07 · 12 answers · asked by Hanna 1 in Singles & Dating

Normally, I'm a sporty person I play every sport there is, its my life and so did my so called bestfriend Tarah. Now Tarah and me were always the talk of the school, we had everything going until Jr High split us apart. At the beginning, it was no big deal we were both in 7th grade we hung out in groups and we were both dating the cutest 8 th graders., we saw movies, and hung out all the time But now that I'm in Berner Jr High you don't get through meeting a new person without. "Hi I'm soandso do you tarah?" She dumped me for her new friends, yeah she's pretty and tall and blonde and I'm that almighty ones stick figure friend. I'm ready to tell her off, but my nerves are jumping. I want to be her friend again we've been friends for 12 years, and I'm not giving it up.

2006-11-07 05:29:32 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Im talking about MySpace. Girls are always emailing him and wanting him. The bad thing is he responds to the questions or emails these girls send him.

2006-11-07 05:29:17 · 8 answers · asked by Monique G 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been married 2 1/2 years now and am 22 years old i do P.R work and my husband 23 is in med. school student . We never see each other at all anymore. The first year of our marriage was good but now we dont even have sex its been almost 5 months since we last did it.Whenever i see him he's asleep or studying. He even ignores me when i try to talk about relationship stuff cant be bothered.I tried everything putting in time to see him and catering to him when i was home he barley noticed.Recently my husband has said he wants to seperate till he is done with med. school. I am attracted to another guy he is 26yrs old, a small time producer/promoter and we see each other around a lot and hang out sometimes and go eat.I feel guilty because i like him alot and know he likes me but i'm married.I dont feel in love with my husband anymore?I feel crushed and this guy invited me to stay as roomate in his apartment in NYC.

2006-11-07 05:28:30 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

wondering if we will break up or not

2006-11-07 05:28:23 · 28 answers · asked by booky 1 in Singles & Dating

My 13 year old sister wants a bf in our community and she dated a very ugly guy named xavier and it was a bad relationship and I'm wondering if I should get her a bf for her but I don't kno how I am very shy and quiet and it would be hard.

2006-11-07 05:28:20 · 7 answers · asked by Calia C 1 in Singles & Dating

can anyone give me any advice. recently i lost a best friend she didnt die but she moved very far away i cant ever seem to be able to contact her and when i think im just starting to realise shes gone ill get asimple text from her opening old wounds can anyone help me plz

2006-11-07 05:28:05 · 9 answers · asked by keli2162 1 in Friends

He covered it up when we were dating. Now that we've been married 2 months I found out he was looking through adult personal ads around where we live and in the state where his next business trip is. He says it's just to get off on, not to actually act on. The thrill of it all--knowing that there are other people out there that do this sort of thing. I don't know if I should believe him. I trusted this man with all my heart. He said that he would never hurt me. I feel dead inside. I don't know what to do. We have an appt with our therepist for this weekend...how do I get rid of the pain before then? He says over and over again how sorry he is and that it was a stupid mistake he'll never do it again.

2006-11-07 05:27:40 · 21 answers · asked by ihateyou 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How many people will find happiness with this combination. some body how has been through throug it please respond.

2006-11-07 05:27:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Did you ever end a long term relationship, later get back together with your ex, settle your differences, and the relationship actually worked out?

2006-11-07 05:26:56 · 20 answers · asked by ☆skyblue 7 in Marriage & Divorce

while i was on the stall. i answered. after that he said, oh and by the way, dang dude your dumps are stank! what the heck do you eat?

i didnt know how to respond. what would you do in this situation?

2006-11-07 05:26:50 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

trying on a new thong that i had just bought. Does this mean that he is gay even though he says he still want s to be with me? He asked to borrow some panyhose that i bought this week. How can he love me and dress like a woman? He only wants to dress like a woman at home. What should i do??????

2006-11-07 05:26:20 · 16 answers · asked by BOOYAH 3 in Singles & Dating

The reason I ask is because I am seeing a girl who recently broke off an engagement to her fiance who is overseas. I heard through the grapevine that they were married at the justice of the peace?? or something. Which would make sense because you receive more money from the government when you're in the military on active duty and you're married. How can I find out? I asked her but she says it's not true...

2006-11-07 05:25:46 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

1. Do you lie about how much time is spent online?
2. Do you have a general decrease of physical activity and social life?
3. Do you neglect obligations at home, work, or school to spend time online?
4. Do you spend too much money on computer equipment or Internet activities.
5. Do you feel a constant desire to be online when they're away from the computer?
6. Do you go online to escape real world problems?
7.Do you disregard the emotional or physical consequences of being in front of a computer all day?
8. Are you in denial of the problem?

2006-11-07 05:24:53 · 9 answers · asked by jeanie_in_a_beer_bottle 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been in a long term relationship 16yrs, they were diagnosed as being Manic Depressive about 7 years ago BUT they will not stay on their meds, I have endured 7 years of cheating. Every time they have left to be with some one else I get a call begging to come home and promises of never cheating again. Three months ago I gave in once again to the heartfelt pleadings and they returned home. I had one condition, stay on the meds of course no cheating. Sunday they were caught with the same person again, they downed their entire prescription of antidepressants after being told to move back out. The suicide attempt was not successful. I went to the hospital for a visit, the phone in the room rang and it was the 3rd person. Now what? I feel guilty turning my back on a “sick” person, I need help I am almost just as depressed from all the drama. We were married for 10 of the 16 years, divorced now.

2006-11-07 05:24:38 · 21 answers · asked by actually_im_lost 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-07 05:24:35 · 2 answers · asked by katiana4life 1 in Singles & Dating

the last time my oldest two children came down from michigan; It turned out to be a real argument. They think that i should drop my job, my children 6&9, my relationship, 19 and a 15 yr old fighting for all the attention.HELP!!!!!!!!!!!! ANY GOOD ADVICE?

2006-11-07 05:24:22 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Hello. I have been in a car accident have been unable to work for about two months. So, my boyfriend says it's okay for me to not work, because he can cover things until I get back on my feet so to speak. I feel bad about not working, so I've been looking for a job.
However, I found out that he didn't pay the power bill and I payed the money off with my credit card. It's not that I mind paying it or helping, it's that he didn't even open it.
He's a grown man, in his thirties. Should I be mad about this, or am I making a big deal?

2006-11-07 05:23:30 · 24 answers · asked by evie e 1 in Singles & Dating

when you just say..."No thanks, i'd rather not do that"...and the person just ignores you and says.."we'll do that anyway"..what is wrong with that person??? i just said no....DO I NEED TO SAY IT FIRMER OR what is the problem??? i cannot figure it out!!!

2006-11-07 05:22:36 · 13 answers · asked by sweet 4 in Singles & Dating

Anyone here ever caught or has been caught cheating with a person of the same sex? Did you work through it or is breakup inevitible?

2006-11-07 05:22:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I do. Seems most guys I know do or act like it.
I hear this somewhere a long time ago and it stuck with me.
Is this right?
It is awefully hard to have a cognitive thought through all that.
Doesn't seen we get good at handling it until after 30.
Is this why the gals don't understand us.
Most of the great "Geniuses were womanizers. Eistein. BenFranklin etc.
Is that cause they got enough and kept the demons down?

2006-11-07 05:21:52 · 11 answers · asked by Kaustaub 4 in Singles & Dating

Okay a couple of days ago when i was having my acid trip, i was walking along Conti Street in New Orleans (thats where i live) so anyways as im walking, i realize that there are these two Frat looking guys following me, smiling and waving as i look back at them. I finally got angry and i told them, "if you dont stop following me, ill cut your ear off with my razor." And then they apoligized and said they just wanted to get to know me.
I invited them over to my house. I offered them some shrooms and acid but they didnt want that. so we smoked pot instead. When they got comfortable, thats when i told them to take off their clothes. they were high and drunk when i told them so they did it! then i told them to kiss each other. i took a pic of them doing it! keep im mind these werent gay men. i then told them to..............TO BE CONTINUED. (i will post the rest of the story so dont worry. please write comments on what you think about these events i have told so far though.)

2006-11-07 05:21:50 · 5 answers · asked by Little Black Riding Hood 1 in Singles & Dating

Anyone here ever caught or has been caught cheating with a person of the same sex? Did you work through it or is divorce inevitible?

2006-11-07 05:21:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hi, I moved out of my parents house and a low income city two years ago with my fiance. Since then I lost contact with my friends and they have moved on etc. I have only had temporary jobs with agencies as full time work isnt advetised alot. Now I have finished my temp job, away from my family, no contact with any friends and my fiance is working shifts. I am stuck in a house on my own nearly all day, I feel so lonely and I dont know what to do. I am looking for a job again!! I am not a lazy ****.

2006-11-07 05:20:31 · 24 answers · asked by sunshine 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I need some ideas on how to preform a DNA test. My fiance' unfortanally doesn't know his real father, even his mother doesn't know who his. It's not my boyfriends fault for his mother
"bad habbits" he is wanting to do by the mouth swab but the problem is he can't tell this person that he wants to preform this test because it is some one he knows really well. So we need some ideas on how to preform the testing with out this peron getting the idea. I hope you can send me some ideas for us to preform! Thanks

2006-11-07 05:19:08 · 7 answers · asked by Sarah 2 in Family

I am getting married in April and would like to be able to see my venue choices before I decide where to hold the ceremony and reception.

2006-11-07 05:18:24 · 5 answers · asked by Alicia L 2 in Weddings

I really don't know why I cant get over this. It's been about 3.5 months since my relationship ended. He was very cold and uncaring in the end. Yet... last night I was awake for hours feeling upset about it. There are days when I'm fine but then last night happens and I feel wounded all over again. It was my first real breakup (yes, even though I'm 30... I never let myself be vulnerable before). I really do NOT trust men right now -- nor their motives. I just feel like they use women (and I do NOT want to feel like that... I didn't before my ex). So, naturally, finding another guy won't happen right now. How can I erase this horrible guy from my brain (or something close to erasing?)? thanks ;-)

2006-11-07 05:18:13 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend were engaging in sexual intercorse, and right in the middle of it I just got bored. So I pushed him away from me and asked him to stop. Now he thinks that he doesnt do it for me and its all my fault. I feel awful that I got cold like that. I just started getting bored, tired, and began to think about work and my bills. Any advice on how to get over this or what to do next time? I dont know why this happened, should I just act like nothing happened?

2006-11-07 05:17:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating