Im talking about MySpace. Girls are always emailing him and wanting him. The bad thing is he responds to the questions or emails these girls send him.
2006-11-07 05:29:17 · 8 answers · asked by Monique G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He responds by having them email SEXY pics and phone numbers. WHAT DO I DO???
2006-11-07 05:41:18 · update #1
We have been together for a little over a year and living together for 10 months.
2006-11-07 05:44:42 · update #2
but how does he respond? There's nothing at all wrong with being polite and cordial, and answering any/all mail one recieves online...but if he's flirting, acting as though he wants to meet them, making sexual comments, etc then THAT would be inappropriate.
He should be able to communicate with women, just as you can with other men...the line should be drawn when the behavior is inappropriate for someone who is in a relationship...
If he wouldn't want you doing it, then he shouldn't do it...
What is the level of communication happening? Casual chat or acting like he wants to hook up?
2006-11-07 05:33:29 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, you want to know how to a) get him to be honest with you, and b) get him to stop responding to other women.
Okay, the reason he is doing this behind your back is that he knows it is wrong and will upset you. In order for him to be honest with you, you will have to foster a relationship in which he feels he can tell you anything without fear of repercussions. To do this, be accepting of his feelings, think of things from his point of view, and tell him calmly what you think of the situation. To get him to stop responding to other women you should tell him that you know what he is doing and that it hurts your feelings, and you would like him to stop. Don't ask for an explanation, guys don't like to have to explain why they do things. Plus, asking for an explanation will just embarass him or upset him and your goal isn't to do that, it's to get him to stop emailing and be honest with you.
2006-11-07 05:39:07 · answer #2 · answered by Nick 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know. How do you get a girl to stop dating a dishonest guy who hides things behind her back? The bad thing is, she knows he's responding to other girls and she stays with him.
2006-11-07 05:34:51 · answer #3 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's responding to them, then there are issues in your relationship you need to work out. Try professional counseling.
2006-11-07 05:31:39 · answer #4 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Then he has no respect for you or your relationship. Don't see it working out.
2006-11-07 05:33:02 · answer #5 · answered by Asia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would be like wtf is wrong withcu. i know ur handsome but i mean dam n .. u better quit these things in the future other wise we aint got no future. lol yeahh that.
2006-11-07 05:32:55 · answer #6 · answered by ily_______&?; 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't. Boys want one thing and that's all.
2006-11-07 05:32:09 · answer #7 · answered by just curious 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
dump him!!!
2006-11-07 05:37:06 · answer #8 · answered by lisa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋