Me and my boyfriend were engaging in sexual intercorse, and right in the middle of it I just got bored. So I pushed him away from me and asked him to stop. Now he thinks that he doesnt do it for me and its all my fault. I feel awful that I got cold like that. I just started getting bored, tired, and began to think about work and my bills. Any advice on how to get over this or what to do next time? I dont know why this happened, should I just act like nothing happened?
2006-11-07 05:17:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
WOW! What an insult to him!!! You should have told him what was wrong instead of shutting him out and treating him that way. I would say I am sorry and let him know that would never happen again. So are your problems greater than him? He am sure is traumatized and most likely anger will follow. As far as you getting over this. Do you trust him? Only you know what happened and I also think you know why. Are you embarrased by what you feel? At the very least you need to tell him. Otherwise your relationship will not survive.
2006-11-07 05:24:28 · answer #1 · answered by bountyhunter101 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's funny, has happened to me once or twice (okay more times than I care to admit) When I start getting bored or distracted, I think of a really naughty fantasy I want to play out and then I get on top and take control or I start role playing or dirty talk or something. Usually does the trick
2006-11-07 05:20:42 · answer #2 · answered by FoxyFoxy, Kickass Drama Queen 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pray to God continuously even as attempting, as God is helping folks that support themselves instead than people who are lazy. Lord Krisna mentioned in Bhagavad Gita, we have got to bring out our works and surrender the fruit of our movement. So we have to preserve attempting and uncover pleasure in doing our paintings, whether or not or now not we get the favored influence. We will have to now not lose wish. Do your fine and go away the leisure to God,it'll all come correct a few day or night time.
2016-09-01 08:43:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just based on the way you use words to describe things turns me off completely, for example: "engaging in sexual intercourse" ... what is this? Sex education class 101? You're too politically conscientious, and seem like a dead fish. I doubt anyone could interest you in the bed cause you're a flake.
2006-11-07 05:34:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
That is the problem obviously nothing happened. You need to move on to another relationship. He is just a boyfriend and will be nothing more. Move on!!!
2006-11-07 05:24:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DAMM! I smoked a ciggarete during sex once! Find a way to tell him what you want and like.
2006-11-07 05:23:27 · answer #6 · answered by Asia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that happens sometimes to me and my husband, you were just stressed out. you should of just explained to him that you have alot on your mind and it had nothuing to do with his performance. when that would happen to me i would just tell my husband to finish because i was getting tired and faked that i had already came so he can think he pleased me.
2006-11-07 05:22:14 · answer #7 · answered by juicy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1.tell him wut was on your mind at da time
2.let him warm u up wit 4 play so u stay worked up
3.if u take charge and turn him on hell forget bout da whole thing
trust me men think dey have all the power but da women do
2006-11-07 05:34:54 · answer #8 · answered by cristina v 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋