Family & Relationships - 7 November 2006

I'm thirteen and as if life wasn't already confusing enough my boyfriend is avoiding me. He doesn't kiss me in the hallway or hug me anymore. He waves at, happily but from a distance. I've been going out with him for atleast 5 months now and I don't know what to do. I see him all the time and we still hang but I'm not sure whats going on.

My friends give me the same answers, "He's a guy, what do you except?" But he's my guy and he isn't supposed to do that, I need to know if I should move on and find someone better, or give him another try!

2006-11-07 05:17:29 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When you're involved in a relationship, do you have expecations about your relationship growing and maturing into something more? For instance, do you think about marriage, co-habitation, children, etc. Or, is the relationship purely for fun? I guess what i'm basically trying to ask is, what do you expect to come out of a relationship....or do you expect nothing, and prefer to let nature take it's course?

2006-11-07 05:17:12 · 24 answers · asked by LibraT 4 in Singles & Dating

I like my friends brother. She knows this. I've liked him ever since July and we see each other almost all the time. We joke in art class and talk and when I go over his house we watch movies (with his siter of course) and talk about serious stuff. I can't tell if he likes me though. What are some hints?

2006-11-07 05:16:48 · 1 answers · asked by QueenofLeon 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-07 05:15:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im 17 years old and my boyfriend is 20 years old....ive known him since he was 12 and i was 9.....my parents however have forbidden me to speak to him.....but i do anyway.....everynight at 11 i call him and we talk until 4am....i love him more than anything in the world and he feels the same about me.....what should I do? should I try to make it work even though my parents hate him? or should i give up altogether?

2006-11-07 05:15:08 · 23 answers · asked by XSkittle_FantasticX 1 in Singles & Dating

I have the brains of us two, (we are 9 yrs apart), but she is taller, skinnier, and prettier than me- why is that?

2006-11-07 05:14:55 · 15 answers · asked by Elizabeth W 1 in Singles & Dating

I have had a problem getting errections and i'm hoping that someone has the answers to correct it

2006-11-07 05:14:17 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have been married 23 years and he is a very over jealous and controlling husband. All at once he thinks we should try the swinging life style. In the 23 years we have been married we had never been out to a club or dancing. We didn't drink or party at all. I am 40 years old and this is the first time he has ever mentioned going out, much less dancing and drinking.Yes, I enjoy having a few drinks, loosening up and dancing. It is just plain fun. However he watches over me like a hawk and he is the one that always becomes flirtaious with other. He wants and tries very, very hard to have the night end with us drunk and ultimately have sex with others if he is attracted to the woman (single or married or even Bi if I would agree) He is alright having sex with a married couple as long as he chooses the couple. What I am asking is, "Why is he wanting to involve others in our sex life, knowing I do not feel the same way. Why remain married????????????

2006-11-07 05:13:48 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My question is, Is it right? Would it make me feel better? Any experiences out there?

2006-11-07 05:13:26 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

This is sad and I am wondering if anyone can elaborate on this. My ex-husband was always jealous of my relationship I have with my 15 year old daughter and my strong love that I have for her. He slowly started taking my relationship away with her. Last night on the phone he just blurted out. "I was never jealous of your daughter, I just never had that kinda love". He didn't, his mother is not a very nice person. Sometimes when a persons childhood is bad (abused, molested etc.) they repeat the behavior as adults. Others end it with them and do not repeat it. I know the apple doesn't fall far from the tree, is this why he is a womanizer and does not know how to love a woman? I know there are jerks out there but come on. Love is great. Who wouldn't want to give it? Is there hope for him?

2006-11-07 05:12:56 · 9 answers · asked by Just Because 2 in Marriage & Divorce

How did it make you feel?

2006-11-07 05:11:45 · 20 answers · asked by lily b 2 in Singles & Dating

So many people say that when someone likes you their eyes get bigger but I can't never tell and I don't want to be like "hold still a minute I need to see something" Does it really work because I can never tell?

2006-11-07 05:11:02 · 4 answers · asked by Lily 2 in Singles & Dating

Marriage bound families together adn they would pull together in hard times. Now we have nuclear families and families don't appear to pull together like they used to.
In the past these marriage bonds created my alliances between other families. Now we try to be self sufficent and don't need our own families needless to say someone else's.
Marriage does not protect a family.
Marriage has fallen to a breach of contract status. If it doesn't work I get half of the debt and wealth.
So what is the point to marraige? And is it out dated?

2006-11-07 05:10:41 · 13 answers · asked by snack_daddy10 6 in Marriage & Divorce

For the last week I been felling strange. I think he is seeing someone else. We made an agreement that we will only date eachother. For that whole year I been honest, respectful and faithful. I think he has not. He is the only made I dated in my City. Sometime I think I been played for a fool. It hurts me to just think he is with another women. A part of me wanna leave than a part wanna stay, because I grew to love him. I am confuse. What should I do.

2006-11-07 05:10:27 · 8 answers · asked by angle2005star 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

For the last week I been felling strange. I think he is seeing someone else. We made an agreement that we will only date eachother. For that whole year I been honest, respectful and faithful. I think he has not. He is the only made I dated in my City. Sometime I think I been played for a fool. It hurts me to just think he is with another women. A part of me wanna leave than a part wanna stay, because I grew to love him. I am confuse. What should I do.

2006-11-07 05:10:06 · 9 answers · asked by angle2005star 4 in Singles & Dating

i want to talk to girl and i like her in the highschool can u tell me how can i begin to talk to her ?

2006-11-07 05:09:01 · 6 answers · asked by 7antera 1 in Friends

I went On a date Sat. with a girl. It was my first time meeting her. She picked me up at 2pm sat.(cause my car broke down so we used hers) and we went out for dinner and looked at the stars. I went to drop her off at 10pm. But she said I want to stay out later. I she said lets do something spontanious so I agreed. We took a road trip that night across state and really got to know each other. It was 3 am and we were on the road and she said lets stop and get a room. So I agreed (But I wanted to show her that she could trust me and that I respected her so I got one with 2 beds. (nothing happened). We woke up the next morning and drove back to our hometown and went to church and a movie and dinner. We had a great time. But since my car is broke down she had to drop me off and by that time it was 6 pm sun. By that time I started senceing that she may have been tired of me and it's like she was trying to ...PLEASE FIND THE REST ON MY NEXT QUESTION CALLED CONTINUED TO FINISH THIS STORY!!!!

2006-11-07 05:08:52 · 3 answers · asked by stephen 1 1 in Singles & Dating

There is this boy at my school. I have liked him ever since 5th grade! HEre is the thing he refuses to like me!! All my friends ,and all the girls in his classes say he talks about me ALL the time!
He also flirts with me in a unique way. He is mostly mean to me , but some times he is super sweet.
I just dont want to wait for him to be the guy he really is!!! I think I am at a cross road , and I need to decide which way to go.
What should I do besides saying, 6th Grade is SUPER hard when it comes to this stuff!

2006-11-07 05:08:46 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been on dates with someone and at first there were little notes and all that good stuff now we only have 3 hour phone conversations on a daily basis. I am not sure if this is just friendship that they feel or something more.

2006-11-07 05:07:21 · 13 answers · asked by suthernbelle 1 in Singles & Dating

First I want to be clear that Im not narcissistic (if you dont know what that means then this question is over your head) nor arrogrant. Everywhere I go, I turn heads, I get winks, I get smiles, I get comments and that is flattering - I dont abuse it nor do I make myself out to be some stud. Once in awhile, I will see someone that is attractive and make the mutual gestures back and actually approach them. At that point they seem to become uncomfortable, nervous and speechless but why? My female friends tell me that its because Im too good looking and that can make them that way. So if that is the case, should I not approach you and just let you make the move? Can a man be too good looking that it becomes a disadvantage? Are we pre-judged on how we look and dress that you think we have different motives? Many think Im after one thing and the ones I do date end up being extremely insecure up to the point of spying on me. Help?

2006-11-07 05:07:12 · 18 answers · asked by etile 1 in Singles & Dating

live together but i live with him..and his parents....and he gets texts all the time (in a diffrent language cause we live in europe..) and i am worried cause i cant read them and i am scared some are his ex...cause she is still obsessed with him....they dted for 5 years and she has not gotten over it yet....i have asked him who it is all the time at weird hours and he says his friend...but i dont believe him....what do i do..

2006-11-07 05:06:50 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I mean they make it sound like they're SOO disgusted or whatever and then a day or two later its like nothing happened at all. Every thing is peachey agian till one of them pisses off one of the 4 musketeers. Tell me what gives. Also why do some act like jealous boyfriends?

2006-11-07 05:06:18 · 22 answers · asked by SCHMUCKY 3 in Singles & Dating

leaves your address here so that I can add, kisses...

2006-11-07 05:06:14 · 3 answers · asked by User 2 in Friends

One of my friends went to a attendance person in my school and said I was unhappy, I dont know what to do!

2006-11-07 05:06:14 · 4 answers · asked by friendlyeeyore1991 1 in Friends

I got into an argument with a friend of mine who I haven't known for too long, actually he is more of a mutual friend of a good friend of mine. I was pissed because he has a tendency to contradict me in anything that I say. I finally got sick of it and told him something to the effect that it was annoying that he reacted to everything that I say with some obnoxious contradiction, that he was reacting this way because he was intimidated by me, and that he was acting like a lost little boy wihout a "daddy" to teach him real confidence. Well I didn't know this guy's dad died when he was twelve, until he responded by saying, "my dad died when I was twelve!" He was really pissed and insulted. I feel real guilty, but I really had no clue about his guy and his dad. If I would have known I would have left the last part out, I was intending to say that he needed to grow up. So how bad is this?

2006-11-07 05:06:11 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have the hardest time getting eye to eye with any of the girls I've ever been with. It seems like girls don't want things to be simple, is that true?

2006-11-07 05:06:06 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am nice looking, athletic and average intelligence. I have a diverse interest in things that range from reading to ultra-lite backpacking. Yet I can't seem to find any nice ladies that would like to go out and have just a cup of coffee. I am shy and they don't seem to initiate the conversation. Could it be because I don't have any money?

2006-11-07 05:05:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I own a house and my gf used to live with me. she said she couldnt afford to pay half my mortgage and moved out. I told her i needed roommates, male or female. she said ok. then i got all male roommate and they stayed for 8 months. now i need new roommates and a girl wants to move in (never met her before) and my gf said she doesnt want a girl to live with me. Who is right? just need opinions of other people.

2006-11-07 05:05:33 · 11 answers · asked by Robbyz3 2 in Singles & Dating

Are there more? If so what are they? Just curious.

2006-11-07 05:05:23 · 5 answers · asked by hunterballlover4eva 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-07 05:04:10 · 14 answers · asked by Mary 3 in Family