I'm thirteen and as if life wasn't already confusing enough my boyfriend is avoiding me. He doesn't kiss me in the hallway or hug me anymore. He waves at, happily but from a distance. I've been going out with him for atleast 5 months now and I don't know what to do. I see him all the time and we still hang but I'm not sure whats going on.
My friends give me the same answers, "He's a guy, what do you except?" But he's my guy and he isn't supposed to do that, I need to know if I should move on and find someone better, or give him another try!
2006-11-07 05:17:29 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
try talking to him, if he doesn't listen then move on.
2006-11-07 05:18:49 · answer #1 · answered by S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone else honey im almost 18 and been through the same thing many times. if he just suddenly stipped be affeconate he is talkin to some else chances are that know you or are around whan you see him since he just waves at you from a far ways. drop him and let him know you wont take his **** bacause if you do chances are he will stay with you and get the thought in his mind that he can walk all over you and you will always be there.
Good Luck!
ps. if you do dump him dont even pay him any attention, it will piss him off soooooooo! bad
2006-11-07 13:22:25 · answer #2 · answered by Doisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
13 is a strange age. It could be that his friends have been bugging him and teasing him so he is trying to play it safe. Or he could be ready to move on and doesn't know how to tell you.
You might as well learn now that the best way to resolve this is to just ask him.
Remember this is not the guy you are going to marry and although it may hurt to hear something that you don't want to hear it is better for everyone to be honest.
Good luck
2006-11-07 13:21:24 · answer #3 · answered by keith s 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think you should talk to him and ask him. I also think that you are a little too young to be too involved with one boy. Just make sure that you never do anything you don't want to do with a boy just to make him happy or prove to him that you love him. If you cannot talk to this boy, then move on. It may be that he doesn't consider himself to be your boyfriend. Just have fun with your friends, don't think too much about this boy. Remember, school is far more important than anything else right now. You have the rest of your life for boyfriends.
2006-11-07 13:21:12 · answer #4 · answered by BluePassion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 13 and boys are really fickle at your age (well they are fickle all their lives but puberty brings out the worse in guys).
Get a life. Do things with friends. Attend youth group meetings at your church or place of worship. Volunteer to help people through associations who do good.
Get your mind off boys. When you get older you can date and look for someone special but now you are too young for romance and all the baggage that comes with love.
2006-11-07 13:22:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you probably don't want to hear this, but at thirteen your mind should be on educating yourself, not on boys.
Any guy who avoids you and waves at you from a distance when he sees you, obviously does not want to be bothered. Learn to be a strong person. Don't settle for anything but the best. Do not allow yourself to be defined by a man.
Move on. Men are just like busses, if you miss one, just catch the next.
2006-11-07 13:22:06 · answer #6 · answered by Lawana C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl i know its confusing but u need to stay strong im kind of going through the same thing so are a couple of my friends ummmm... boys are difficult but dont let that bring u down i mean u should move on if its been going on 4 a while if not try to stay with him i mean if it makes u feel bad then i think u should mone on but i mean in the end its u not me breaking up with him and in the end only u can decide so myu advice is to try and work things out and talk to him see wats going on ans let him know that its ok ask him is he loosing intrest and if he is asahmed of u tell him how u feel and hopefully it will work out for the best smile and kepp your head up : ) write me back and keep me posted tia_m_r_19@yahoo.com : )
2006-11-07 13:27:07 · answer #7 · answered by TIA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why so desperate? Ur just thirteen and whole life is in front of u.
If u really really really care for him & if he is SOOOOOOO good and worth a wait, then just wait patiently b'cos if he cared/cares he will come around eventually, though this seems a distant possibilty.
Oppps u were calling out to boys only.....SORRY
2006-11-07 13:22:29 · answer #8 · answered by KK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would talk to him and tell him how you feel. It can be just a guy thing but if you don't tell him it is bothering you how can it be fixed. It sounds like he don't want to be seen in public displays of affection. Is he ashamed of You? I hope not. If he is not proud to be with you you should find someone else. You deserve better.
2006-11-07 13:23:58 · answer #9 · answered by janine b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he got told by teachers not to kiss you in the hall. You should try backing off the boys for a year or two.
2006-11-07 13:20:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first you are thirteen, drama already is no good, but still immaturity is still in play for both of you give him space or confront him and ask him what he wants but remember you are only thirteen...it won't b the end of the world there are plenty more fish i n the sea
2006-11-07 13:20:59 · answer #11 · answered by Derek D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋