Family & Relationships - 7 November 2006

I've been married to this guy for 21/2 yrs... I did my wifely duties (I mean everything).. but for some reason nothing I did was good enough...even went to counceling...it was a roller coaster ride....he was not interested in sex (rather watch porno..but he was hiding it)

I thought the porno was the only problem..find out he was cheating on me all along.. the other girl knows that he's married.

We are separated now and I move to different state... I'm about to file for divorce... to add insult to injury, I did some investigation and find out that he use our credit card when he bought her plane ticket last december to visit him, but for some reason it was cancelled....now the girl was about to use thesame ticket to see him for Thanksgiving and b-day. He denied about the other girl when I confronted him...(He'll find out sooner or later that I knew... coz I cancelled the ticket)...I want revenge.. or should I let "KARMA" take care of it.... :( :(

2006-11-07 04:31:30 · 18 answers · asked by R 2 in Marriage & Divorce

He cheated on me, left me for the other woman, is moving in with her - all in six months. I know we were having problems but I thought we could work things out. We are now divorced. I try to deal with him only when I have to - when it is about our son. I do not bad mouth him or the other woman to our son - even though it is hard at times. I will not impact my son's relationship with his dad.

However, my ex believes we need to establish a new relationship. He says I am still important to him. I do not want anything to do with him. I have told him I do not know him anymore and I have no interest in getting to know the new him. The one who tells me he is very happy with this other woman and they are in love. I think he is expecting too much from me. Are all exes like this or is mine still wanting his cake and eat it too? I think he needs us to re-establish a relationship to lessen his guilt. Any thoughts??

2006-11-07 04:31:12 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He got scared and thought his car got stolen,besides he got a ticket, well i did and i promised to pay it.I didn't tell him, but after i hang up,i broke in tears.I don't want to see him for a day or two.I need my space! What should i do ? i don't want to tell him , i cried.
any advice ?

2006-11-07 04:31:04 · 19 answers · asked by dersexy 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife and I are laid off and it's never been better! we receive unemployment, free oil heat for our home, about 1/2 our weekly food order is free, we get free health insurance for our family (given by the state of massachusetts) free housing is also available to some but we own so we can't get that! but we were saying it's so nice to spend time with our children and raise them, why go back to work and pay for health insurance, back in the rat race needing daycare etc.? especially now we can afford to get a mini van which we need with the kids...life is good! This is our FIRST time needing assistance and most of it we never even knew about, but wow, USA and Mass are a great place to be!! why work?

2006-11-07 04:30:58 · 30 answers · asked by b b 1 in Family

how can i trust my wife

2006-11-07 04:30:57 · 9 answers · asked by estigi 1 in Friends

This is what my g/f said to me wanting to break up last night..

things just aren't working out..

i'm miserable because your always mad at me..
your miserbable because i'm not a good girlfriend..

i try to be a better g/f everyday, but then i just get pissed and stop...

it's no big deal for me to hang out with my ex and all his friends, they are my friends and i wish you would just chill out about it..

your the last thing on my list of things to think about throughout the day...
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(we live together, i left and slept over a friends house...)
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she just called me at work.. and says..

her: are you ever gonna sleep in the house again

me: idunno... why?

her: idunno

her: i don't know what to say... i don't know what's going on...

me: what's going on is you broke up with me, and i'm giving that to you.

pause::

her: ook...

pause...

her: i guess i'll let you go..

me: ok

her: talk to you later

me bye

2006-11-07 04:30:56 · 15 answers · asked by Moto 2 in Singles & Dating

I am over the moon in love with my boss. I think about him 24/7. I used to hate my job but now I look forward to every morning when I get to see him. He's available and acts intrested but plays me off with jokes, I'll say I couls take u home right now and hes says"you can't handle me" and walks away. He's 15 yrs older than me and I am afraid to make a move. I'm not worried about the job I'm leaving soon anyway. I just don't want to fear rejection negativily or even worse scare him? What should I do?

2006-11-07 04:30:42 · 6 answers · asked by CamPIL 2 in Singles & Dating

When hugging friends (15/16ish) they lean into the hug and it is friendly, but If a girl stands straight so that to hug her, your whole body is against all of hers and she kind of pushes her boobs into you, does it mean anything? This is from a girl who doesnt usually hug, but has been asking me for hugs alot lately.

2006-11-07 04:29:49 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-07 04:29:02 · 16 answers · asked by labonte43 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I seem to be the one who initiates everything when im with my girlfriend. Its small things, like when we're out and sitting down together ill sit close to her and give her hugs and kisses or put my arm around her. But she wouldnt do this with me......she can be a bit stand offish. So does this mean anything, or is it that im more affectionate than her naturally????

2006-11-07 04:28:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My friend is thinking about having sex with her boyfriend, but she is only thirteen. She said she was going to be careful. He is fifteen and she is thirteen. I told her that it wasn't even right to do it that young, but then she said, "Why do you expect to live when you are eighteen? You could die tomorrow for all you know. Enjoy it while you have it." Now I am thinking about what she said and I can't get it out of me mind. Is she right?

2006-11-07 04:28:17 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The deceased is a 6 yr old boy in my neighborhood. He was run over by his school bus. I know his Mom just from the neighborhood. Her loss has touched my heart. I wanted to send money instead of flowers but I don't want to send an offensive amount. Is $25 too little?

2006-11-07 04:27:59 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

What dose it mean when a guy tell you he depressed and then he say the reason why is because he dont have a girlfriend and then he just leaves me standing there and he go's home??? Im so confused

Additional Details

16 minutes ago
Dose he want me to be his girl friend???

2006-11-07 04:27:58 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend is very insecure and when I lost my job last week, I asked for some time to reflect on the situation but did not fully explain the situation to her. She thought I was out doing something bad and late that night when her exhusband called after a fight with his current wife, they ended up getting together. She felt bad and told me, and I now want him to fess up to his wife as well but he says that if she finds out that he will post pictures of my girlfriend (his exwife) on the internet of when she was posing naked back when they were married. He also threatens my professional license and any other dirt he thinks he can dig up, makes no difference if it is true or not. That is like stabbing me in the back and then continueing to twist the knife. OUCH.Forgot to mention that my girlfriend is 8 months pregant with my child. Triple OUCH.

2006-11-07 04:27:26 · 21 answers · asked by drbrian247 2 in Friends

I have left jobs before because of unwanted "attention" from the men I work with. I don't dress suggestivley. I work in a gym ( I wear yoga pants and tshirts or sweatshirts). He knows my family. I don't flirt with him or make it seen that anything could happen between us. What's the deal? What subconscious signals could I be sending to these men that make them think it's okay to come on to me?

2006-11-07 04:27:25 · 14 answers · asked by Cindy S 4 in Singles & Dating

I cried in front of my b/f(we dated 4 a month) when he was alreadly kinda freaked out.He just turned 21 at the time,never had a g/f before.we kissed and went fast(he was the aggessor)on the way home he was saying stuff like he never has done anything like this before,mind going a mile a minute and he was confused.He tried 2 cheer me up but I was quiet the ride home.I went to kiss him on just on the lips,he kissed me with his tounge. I pulled away and cried,said I didn't want to confuse him anymore.he said he'd call but he didn't. 9 months went by and I saw him at my work. he said he saw I was real attached to him and when we kissed something clicked and he knew he didn't like me.I asked if it was all pretend or did he like me b4 and he said I really liked you. So what do you think happened? btw I am 24.he said I did nothing wrong. he comes 2 my work and I bag 4 him n he talks 2 me.does he still have feelings 4 me.he seems 2 really care.he kept saying how bad he feels.

2006-11-07 04:27:05 · 2 answers · asked by dabluschmosprincess 1 in Singles & Dating

i like two guys but one of them has a girlfriend and the other one i dont know if he likes me. I have liked the one with the girlfriend for a long time but i just cant seem to get him off my mind. what do i do?

2006-11-07 04:26:37 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Please give reason for your answer to the question

2006-11-07 04:26:24 · 22 answers · asked by 女性ウルバリン 4 in Marriage & Divorce

When hugging a girl, I have heard, the guy should have his arms around her waist and the girl should have her arms around the guys neck. But what if he is taller than her and it is easier to go over her arms, does it really matter?

2006-11-07 04:26:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-07 04:26:02 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend swears that I had to identify his girlfriend to know she was visiting my page. I know I didn't, so how did she show up, picture and all???

2006-11-07 04:25:36 · 1 answers · asked by Shelly 2 in Friends

My boyfriend is having a hard time finding a job. He has been out of the military for about 4 months and places he has looked at tell him he is over qualified. I asked him if he wanted me to look up some jobs for him. He said he doesn't like asking for help. My question is should I help him anyways or just let him be? If I should help him, are there any sites that you know of that are veteran friendly for finding jobs?

2006-11-07 04:25:34 · 5 answers · asked by Just a girl... 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-07 04:25:32 · 39 answers · asked by flick 1 in Singles & Dating

How can we justify not allowing homosexual marriage if we were
using the exact same words to disallow interracial marriage 80
years ago? That is - how can the argument be wrong then and
right now?

2006-11-07 04:25:25 · 24 answers · asked by Elana 7 in Marriage & Divorce

This is quite long but brace yourselves if you wanna get 10 points. Well, I was friends with this boy since 3rd grade and we started to like each other out of nowhere but we never really told each other we did-it was kinda like this "silent relationship" i like to call it. So we were cool and all and I felt it and I guess he felt it too-besides it's your first love I mean~come on! So we had a lot in common and all and 7th grade came along~well, the FIRST day of school he asked me, "Do you have this class?" because we were 7th graders and we were new to the school. Anyways I told him "No" but now I SOOOOOO wish I had that class with him because then we could've walked there together and asked each other how summer was and how nervous or excited we are of starting middle school-but no, it didn't work out that way.

2006-11-07 04:25:18 · 4 answers · asked by Allahu Akbar 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm having a debate with my friend.....

2006-11-07 04:24:21 · 17 answers · asked by Jonathon J 1 in Singles & Dating

I been dating someone for already 3 months. We hang out almost every day, he know my friends and family, as well that I know his, and we really get along. He always make me laugh, and is always worried if im upset or there is something wrong. We just started being intimate like one month ago, and its not about that, because when we hang out together is mostly just to be together as in going fr dinner, walks, or just watching our shows. The problem is that I dont know if I am his girlfriend. Wel,, I think that I am just because we always argue with each other like we are a couple. As in for example; why dint you pick up the phone, or explanation, things like that....... But I am just not sure. We spoke about each other before a couple of times, and both agreed that we both wanted a serious relationship. We always talk about future plans together, etc. I just never hear the G word. and for some strange reason I dont even want to ask.
iIs he serious with me????????????

2006-11-07 04:23:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My son is turning 13 this month , He lives with his father in a different state. I want to get him something speical he will always remember, I know I remember mine like it was yesterday.

2006-11-07 04:23:08 · 11 answers · asked by ohmygodtwins404 2 in Family

I'm nice, funny, smart, and handsome. She is single.

2006-11-07 04:21:24 · 16 answers · asked by Brandon A 2 in Singles & Dating

By that I mean is: if you are married does EVERYTHING belong to both of you and must be divided equally?

2006-11-07 04:21:12 · 2 answers · asked by fasenmyer 1 in Marriage & Divorce