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2006-11-07 04:26:24 · 22 answers · asked by 女性ウルバリン 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No it causes your divorce!
If a partner is flirting outside a marriage, it will awaken an inate feeling of jealousy that we all have. Jealousy is an emotion that tells us our needs are not being met, like trust, respect and did I mention RESPECT!!!
Jealousy is often considered bad, but it is not, what behavioural response we give to it can be bad. You can manage your response easily by focussing on what need is not being met.
If my partner was flirting, I tell her how I felt (ie jealous), followed by the reason, ie You were running your hand across his chest and that makes me think you were coming onto him.
She might give you an appropriate reason, ie she was getting rid of a bug.
Agree on an outcome ie You agree that niether of you will rub bugs of other peoples chests or breasts, let them do it themselves.
The key to all of this is Respect and communication.
2006-11-07 04:37:28 · answer #1 · answered by Triestobewise 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what kind of flirting it is. There is unintentional flirting which happens naturally, and you really don't realize you were doing it. That is harmless. Then there is intentional flirting, in which someone flirts every time they see someone, and they may have other things in mind. A spouse may think it's cute when their significant other is flirting unintentional. Maybe not so much with the latter. So, it can cause conflict depending on which one.
2006-11-07 04:54:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would depend on the individuals in the marriage. Some relationships thrive because the extra-marital flirting boots the ego and shows the spouse they are with a wanted person. Others die because thoughts are wondering.
2006-11-07 04:31:59 · answer #3 · answered by barbie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the people involved.
I'm not a jealous person, and secure enough with myself, that when I was married; it did not bother me when he would flirt with other women...and he flirted! But if I were having a conversation with a guy, oh lets say about the price of gas...he'd get all uptight and eventually pull me aside and say I was leading the guy on or worse jump down the guys back about flirting with other mens' wives. Ugly, ugly scenes....he's gone now to say the least.
What freedom!!!!
2006-11-07 04:32:20 · answer #4 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 11:56:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some flirting is healthy in some relationships, but there is a fine line there and should not be crossed. You know your sig. other and if you think they would be hurt if you were to openly flirt in front of them i would suggest you didn't do it. But what's good 4 the goose is good for the gander
2006-11-07 04:34:45 · answer #6 · answered by Twiggs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not if the marriage is stable.
If flirting makes the other spouse uncomfortable or jealous, then there is insecurity in the relationship. If a marriage is happy and trusting, whole and communicative, then a little flirting should be taken for what it is....harmless.
2006-11-07 04:29:39 · answer #7 · answered by JC 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
it comes down to how deep of a flirt are you or your other. I figure my beloved is going home with me if i get julious that means i do not trust her/him and it goes the other way as well. some people need to feel needed/loved. Remember there is limits to flirting do not make out. Stop it if you feel it is getting out of hand with one person do not surpress your partner outwardness is it not the reason you feel for them.
2006-11-07 04:41:00 · answer #8 · answered by D. P. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that all depends is it flirting with intentions of more or just doing to make someone feel good about there self. i think it could hurt the spouse or make them feel unwanted or start questioning things about thierselves or make them feel insecure but i guess it depends on who u are married to also some ppl dont care because they know who they are with loves them and would never do anything to hurt them so like i said it all depends best of luck to you.
2006-11-07 06:37:07 · answer #9 · answered by nuzzihuzzi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it does. Reason: Flirting can lead to other things that were never intended.
2006-11-07 04:28:26 · answer #10 · answered by Premo Mom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋