What do you think this means-WHY!!!?????????

Question

This is quite long but brace yourselves if you wanna get 10 points. Well, I was friends with this boy since 3rd grade and we started to like each other out of nowhere but we never really told each other we did-it was kinda like this "silent relationship" i like to call it. So we were cool and all and I felt it and I guess he felt it too-besides it's your first love I mean~come on! So we had a lot in common and all and 7th grade came along~well, the FIRST day of school he asked me, "Do you have this class?" because we were 7th graders and we were new to the school. Anyways I told him "No" but now I SOOOOOO wish I had that class with him because then we could've walked there together and asked each other how summer was and how nervous or excited we are of starting middle school-but no, it didn't work out that way.

So around the middle of the school year he got hit by a car and couldn't walk and I was walking around the hallway at lunch and I saw him with crutches and I asked him, "Wo what happened to your foot?!" and he just kinda turned his head away with disgust at me and said, "I got hit by a car." And that was the beginning of the "unfriendship."

Slowly after that I started to get hella bad looks from him like I did something wrong and I don't think I did anything. I was so confused and I got hella upset and sad so I cried like CRAZY I'm telling you we used to be buds and lovers at the same time, but we never said we liked each other except for when he came to my house because my parents were friends with his parents and so they came for dinner and my older brother told him I liked him and it made me blush so bad but he said he didn't care so that my brother wouldn't get on our case.

I'm telling you when we used to play back-to-back in P.E. he used to pick me and he would be like hella happy that I would back-to-back with him and I was too ya know. Then he started to hate me and till NOW he doesn't talk to me but he moved to Kentucky last year and I'm here in California. After all this, we're both like 16 and 17 now and this happened so long ago and he won't even tell me what I did wrong. I even tried to send him a little last day gram in seventh grade asking him why he wouldn't even say hi in the hallway or anything like that-I think that made it worse but after that I just gave up. I always think about this and
I just wanna know why he just up and ditched me like that. Did this ever happen to you?
I also remember this one time in 4th grade this one kid he always used to bother me and when we were in line to go to class he said something hella mean to me and my guy heard it and he apologized for what HIS FRIEND did. It was like SOO sweet of him!
And now he

And now he doesn’t even wanna see my face. WHY??????

Answer 1

It sounds like in some way he feels that you rejected him. Maybe it has something to do with you not knowing he got hit by the car. A lot of guys respond like this when they are rejected by girls they like especially if they'd been friends for a long time.

The other however less likely thing that could have happened is that he did something that he knows if you would ever find out about that you would not approve of it. Maybe he feels that if he would be close to you, you would eventually find out about it and get really upset and reject him. So instead he rejected you first. It sounds kind of wierd but we guys do a lot of wierd things when it has to do with girls we like.

The bottom line is guys above anything else do not like to be rejected. Many guys will do anything to not feel rejected by the people they care about even if it means to hurt the people they care about. It doesn't make much sense but it is the truth.

I hope some of this helps and I'm really sorry about the lost friendship. Guys love hard but their hearts break hard.

Answer 2

What is it you want to do? Just find out what the deal was so long ago or try to hook up with this guy?

Its in the past so let it be that. Only you know if there was truly something you did to make him upset. If you know where he is and how to get in touch with him then drop him a line or two. But don't bring up the past. Keep it light and friendly....then see how things develop.

Answer 3

Probably cause you and your brother were close friends and so were your parents he probably thought you knew and would say sorry that it happened to him, he probably feels like his best friend in the world didn't know that he got hit by a car, and that upset him and he moved on cause of it, its not something you did wrong, but too bad some did not tell you before he told you, so that you could feel his pain.
Sorry your friendship ended that way, but I had a friend like that I was close to and was hurt badly and when I asked what happened they looked at me like I did something wrong, but if someone close to me would have told me before the friend had to, we probably be friends to this day!

Answer 4

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