He got scared and thought his car got stolen,besides he got a ticket, well i did and i promised to pay it.I didn't tell him, but after i hang up,i broke in tears.I don't want to see him for a day or two.I need my space! What should i do ? i don't want to tell him , i cried.
any advice ?
2006-11-07 04:31:04 · 19 answers · asked by dersexy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont u ever touch a mans car without his permission u crazy girl!!!!!!
2006-11-07 04:32:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do u think what u did was right? I am sure permission of b/f means in the least that he shud have the knowledge about the car having been taken away by u. Secondly some people r very possessive about certain things which they own/use. R u not? May be the way he reacted was wrong. He might already be sorry for it and preparing to apolosize to u. Probably u shud not take him for granted.
2006-11-07 12:40:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well just like your parents you should have left him a note or called and left a message on the phone saying you had the car, he is probably not upset that you got a ticket but you took the car with out notifying him, I would be upset myself if someone I trusted took something without me knowing or even leaving a message or a note saying they had my car!
2006-11-07 12:33:54 · answer #3 · answered by Sassy H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all this is all YOUR FAULT. U never take a mans car without permission NEVER. Men have a special bond to thier car like women have to shopping or whatever. That is a huge no no. Dont be surpised if dumps you. IF you knew he would get pissed why would u take the car. What did u think he was going to think when he relized his car was gone. And women wonder why we are the way we are
2006-11-07 12:36:32 · answer #4 · answered by dunebugger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you dating the car or the guy? Unless a guy offers to let you drive his car, don't do it. It seems hard to understand, but a man's masculinity is somewhat tied to his vehicle. When you run off with it, it is demasculating and evokes a somewhat primal response. It would be like if you had a baby and he sent the babysitter home and took the baby out for a walk. Same hormonal response in reverse.
2006-11-07 12:36:20 · answer #5 · answered by James B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well don't tell him you cried. You did kind of deserve the scolding but at least you took responsibility for it. He'll forgive you, but it sounds like a day or two would do the both of you some good to calm down and get past it.
2006-11-07 12:34:26 · answer #6 · answered by Diagonal 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are a bad girl. Stop crying and go pay the ticket. Give him the reciept and apologize and promise to be more mature and not do something like that again.
2006-11-07 12:35:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You brought this on yourself. Take the consequences. And as much as you don't want to see him, he probably doesn't want to see him either. He probably didn't mean to scold you, but you did technically steal from him. Be glad he didn't break up with you right then and there. You may be hurt that he yelled, but think about how he feels.
2006-11-07 12:39:28 · answer #8 · answered by Ms. G 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I were him, I'd break up and you could go steal cars from someone else in the future.
I wouldn't even take my husbands car without asking. It's just called being polite and respecting your partner.
2006-11-07 12:36:26 · answer #9 · answered by Momma Jo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He did have his car stolen... by you. Take your lumps and deal. How long after you stole his car did you tell him? When the red light or speed camera ticket arrived?
2006-11-07 12:36:02 · answer #10 · answered by Lost in Merryland 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How did he get a ticket it you were driving? What was it for? I would just let him cool off for a few days and if he doesn't want to talk to you anymore, there is nothing you can do about it.
2006-11-07 12:33:15 · answer #11 · answered by tmac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋