I been dating someone for already 3 months. We hang out almost every day, he know my friends and family, as well that I know his, and we really get along. He always make me laugh, and is always worried if im upset or there is something wrong. We just started being intimate like one month ago, and its not about that, because when we hang out together is mostly just to be together as in going fr dinner, walks, or just watching our shows. The problem is that I dont know if I am his girlfriend. Wel,, I think that I am just because we always argue with each other like we are a couple. As in for example; why dint you pick up the phone, or explanation, things like that....... But I am just not sure. We spoke about each other before a couple of times, and both agreed that we both wanted a serious relationship. We always talk about future plans together, etc. I just never hear the G word. and for some strange reason I dont even want to ask.
iIs he serious with me????????????
2006-11-07 04:23:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like it but maybe you should talk to him and ask him.
2006-11-07 04:25:42 · answer #1 · answered by Saint 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you have all the makings of a "girlfriend," without the label." You have talked about relationships before and you both agree that you both want a serious relationship, and it sounds like you've taken the steps into the serious relationship side. I would be happy with the love you have, whether or not he's called you his girlfriend yet. Another facet of relationships is being able to talk about the serious stuff when you don't necessarily want to do that. If this problem is really bothering you, talk to him about it. Let him know that you are happy where you are in your relationship, but are looking for the re-assurance of being called his girlfriend. Good luck!
2006-11-07 12:30:31 · answer #2 · answered by Steph L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How does he introduce you to people? That is a surefire way to find out what he thinks. If he just introduces you by your name, or as his friend, he does not consider you his girlfriend.
He should be proud to have you be his girlfriend, and if he is, he will introduce you that way to people. Take notice next time you meet someone new.
If you want a more immediate answer, just be honest and ask him upfront. I know it's hard, but any answer is better than no answer at all. The wondering is the worst part.
2006-11-07 12:28:26 · answer #3 · answered by Jitterbug 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope just riding the horse he has until he finds one he likes better...sorry..but I along with every guy I know have done it many times...and I am sure girls do it to...better than being alone and he isn't lying to you ..so ..it is what it is...better run now before you get in deeper..it will hurt a lot more when you hit the six month or year level and realize that you have wasted a bunch of time
2006-11-07 12:27:23 · answer #4 · answered by Tikcus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like it.
2006-11-07 12:26:47 · answer #5 · answered by nuzzihuzzi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.. make him say it.. then make him you a ring !
2006-11-07 12:29:56 · answer #6 · answered by Kelli T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUH! ASK HIM!!!
2006-11-07 12:26:48 · answer #7 · answered by Bond girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋