Family & Relationships - 7 November 2006

its like everyone i know has a boyfriend except me.....my mom wont let me date.....im15 ill be 16 in january..... it seem like only ugly guys like me or guys that are too old.....my mom is so over protective she wont even let me have guy friends its horrible so i have to act like yea i dont like him hes stupid when i wouldnt mind having a guy friend.........and my mom had a boyfriend when she my age....actually boyfriends....what should i do i cant talk to her or she will start screaming!!!

2006-11-07 04:20:25 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-07 04:20:10 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend broke up with his ex right before we started dating. Though they had dated for 3 years and lived together for 1, he said he'd really been out of love for the past 6 months. He did say, though, that she's a very good friend, and he wants to maintain that friendship. He met me after moving halfway across the country to go to school (so she's really far away). He's seen her once since we started dating (over break), and he says that he told her about me. I'm not sure, though, because he said she was really upset when he told her, and I found a few text messages from her on his phone, and she seemed really upbeat and happy. I know they talk a lot, but, then again, I talk with my ex a lot too. I'm worried that he might still be in love with her. What do you think?

2006-11-07 04:20:04 · 7 answers · asked by skichamonix515 3 in Singles & Dating

I know that nobody is perfect and that everybody has their vices, but lately it has goten out of hand when my girlfriends exhusband has his time with the children. The children say that their dad and his new wife go in their room almost the whole time they are at home and lock the door. The kids also say that there is a rule at that house stating "what happens at this house stays at this house." That is sick in my book. The visitation agreement as of now is every other week they go back and forth from one parent to the other, but the week they are gone is such a bad influence that it makes it tuff to enforce good behavior when they are with their mother. Seems to me that him getting popped for doing the drugs that I have been told by several people that he does, should be enuf to go back to the courts for more time that the kids spend with their mother.

2006-11-07 04:20:02 · 11 answers · asked by drbrian247 2 in Family

My boyfriend and I talk on the phone constantly and recently he got sick and we are not talking as much! I have been very supportive and asking him to hang up so he can get good sleep, but I really miss talking to him. I don't make him feel guilty, but going from talking over 3 hours a day to under 30 minutes really blows! I hope he gets better soon I miss his company. Am I selfish to still want to talk to him?

2006-11-07 04:19:42 · 8 answers · asked by Queen 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-07 04:19:19 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i only ever want one child to spoil and love .im 18 i dont want one now but maybe in a few years idealy i would like to raise it on my own if i nerver meet a guy 2 av one with wat other options are there

2006-11-07 04:19:09 · 6 answers · asked by crazygirl3k 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

is it a must that 1 needs to get married to remain happy. can't they be happy by remaining single and having good relation with family and friends. is marriage a demand of the society or person concerned. is only a bond or legal document needed for a person to take somebody's responsibility?

2006-11-07 04:18:49 · 27 answers · asked by Kashish 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Which is important for a life partner - career / Appearance / Character / Family background?

2006-11-07 04:18:46 · 20 answers · asked by Ammu 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My wife of almost 10 years cheated on me, I love her but its hard. Would I feel better f I cheated on her? I dont know??

2006-11-07 04:18:39 · 38 answers · asked by Mr. Know It All 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been married twice.Got divorced once and currently seperated for 3yrs,with no contact with my hubby.I hardly have friends l can go out.All friends are phone friends.I tend to lock myself at home.Even when I have 1 week off from work, I stay home all the time.I want to make friend but don't want to go out.When I have friend I like going out with them.Recently I met a foreign man who is younger than me.He says he got feelings for me, but he has suddenly stop contacting me.After 10 days he asked me if I want to meet him.I should have let it go, but I didn't.I went to spent 6 night with him.We argued and be hapy but went back to sqaure one.When I return home he didn't contact me.When I annoyed him with sms he said he is still with me but can't sms me 200 times, he is busy.But he is not even sending 1 sms.I know he don't care for me but why I want to retain him and can't think anything except him.Am in real pain, feel like dying, but my parent will suffer, he probably wont know I die

2006-11-07 04:18:36 · 2 answers · asked by Pet-anj 1 in Singles & Dating

When i ask u if i stop talking to u would u care? I have run out of ideas, im tired of racking my brain, i ask this really close friend of mine that question just trying to make conversation and see what she thought about me, and took it as i didnt want to speak to her and just wigged out on me, i just need to know if u would react the same way, and what should i do cuz right now she doesnt want anything to do with me???? We do things like this all the time, I tell her i luv her all the time, we have fights and be okay the next day, we sort ask things or do something to see how the other person will react, Like one time she will called and saying that she was engaged, came up with a very convincing story til i started freaking out in my head, then said im just playing, just a lil thing she does. we are in different states and i asked this question becuz I told myself that i would never make her feel like i didnt want to talk to her anymore and i asked that to see how she feels?

2006-11-07 04:18:22 · 3 answers · asked by Walter 1 in Singles & Dating

Boyfriend and I have been together for 1.5 officially, though we've known eachother 3 years. He is lovely and great. Awhile back he'd dropped hints and eluded to proposing. It iddn't happen and I must admit I was a little disappointed. He has said it was because of finanacial reasons which I totally understand cause those things are NOT cheap. He's been saying for awhile that he wants to do something really special for New Year's Eve (spend it in NYC) at someplace "not too loud/but nice/chic." And this weekend he was saying how we should go look at rings this upcoming weekend.
Do you think he is going to ask me during New Year's! AH!!! :)

2006-11-07 04:17:29 · 20 answers · asked by Mimi 7 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-07 04:17:25 · 24 answers · asked by MsNic 4 in Singles & Dating

her & her husband raised my youngist daughter & now that she grown my cousin doesnt like me being a part of her life . but my daughter want"s me to be a part life . my daughter is having a baby & cousin keep's pushing me away from her . my cousin doesnt want to be a part of my grand baby's life . and i have done nothing to her or my daughter . i think she is hogging the stage

2006-11-07 04:16:40 · 3 answers · asked by dirtdevil215 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

thinking in the back of my head, she is nice to me but i bet she is still a b # t c h to her husband.

2006-11-07 04:16:26 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-07 04:16:17 · 12 answers · asked by ? 5 in Singles & Dating

I am not sure if you remember..but I posted that I checked my guys v/m..and there was three messages..I think from different girl..2 from the same girl..
the first girl..was like..hey its me..i know its early but I had to leave you a message..we're good honey..I'm good..I'm sure..talk to you whenever..be safe....
the second girl..was like hey it me..I left work..I checked footlocker they want $ for the sneakers..but its ok I will pay for it..no big deal.

the next message I heard from the same girl about two weeks later,...hey its me..I assume your on lunch..I bought them...I have the receipt..I will see you when I go on lunch..
what I made from all this is that with the first girl..maybe he used to mess with her but no longer..the second girl..I am clueless..dont know what to think..
I have been checking his v/m I have not heard anything since...but he did get a pair of jordans for his b'day..he told that is mom knew someone that knew someone to get a hookup.... I dont trust him

2006-11-07 04:16:12 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay, so I have a friend that I am interested in, great guy, although is horrible at communicating. here is my question, yesterday I left him a voicemail, asking him to call me because I needed help with something. he didn't call back, which sucks, but for him not uncommon. so I kinda want to send him a text message kinda joking about him being bad at returning calls, a nice way to make a point, just to give him a little kick in the butt. what would be the best way of saying "you suck at returing calls, whats the deal".

2006-11-07 04:15:27 · 5 answers · asked by fishinggirl1978 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-07 04:14:39 · 8 answers · asked by Reo 5 in Singles & Dating

If you had a girlfriend or boyfriend who has been working. The whole time they been working for like a year and for this whole year they been dress like a certain way. And this certain way is usually just some plain work pants and a plain shirt. You know nothin serious. But all of a sudden they start going to work dressing nice and doing they hair all nice. Really for no reason. Is it wrong for me to ask why?

2006-11-07 04:13:51 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have my ex-hubby name on my arm, i don't regret getting and want to keep it. My boyfriend is turning blue in the face about it. He wants me to get it covered, I said if we're together another year I would but only if he gets my name on him and have his tattoo of Casanova covered also. he said no but still wants me to make him happy and have mine cover to make him feel better. If he can't deal with a tattoo of my ex how am I to think he can deal with kids by my ex. It like he doesn't want to be reminded that i was with a man before him but duh i have kids by another man. What should I do?

2006-11-07 04:12:34 · 15 answers · asked by knight_trina 2 in Singles & Dating

I need some good websites to look at hair styles for my wedding......Thanks.

2006-11-07 04:12:34 · 15 answers · asked by Gypsie 5 in Weddings

2006-11-07 04:12:19 · 9 answers · asked by Reo 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-07 04:12:16 · 15 answers · asked by amarinder s 1 in Weddings

hours a night. constantly cleaning up at home and working yet they never give you credit for what you do only complain about what is not done.

2006-11-07 04:12:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm only fifteen, but please listen to my story, befor you blast me for being to young
Here goes....I love her, now please dont say I'm crazy until my story is over..
Over the summer, I liked her. we seemed to talk all the time, and flirt like crazy. well she kinda backed off, and I kinda smothered her a little bit...so I gave it a while and asked her how she felt.....she said she didnt like me like that...but... a month later...she emailed me..and told me that she was really sad..cuz our friendship wastn wat it used to be ( we've been friends since age 7).. I told her it was just hard for me to get over her.....but I was working on it..and things got better, and we seem to be good friends again..but theres one problem..I love her....I just cant get over her.... I mean I want her to be happy, and if she is thats great..but, she's a huge flirt, ..and it just kills me to see her with these other guys all the time....

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but a couple of things she has said confuse me. when she said she wants our friendship back....she was talking about me moving on and getting a gf......that if I get rejected ..the reason is probably stupid.....and she also said her reason was probably stupid... but the she goes and flirts with these other guys...and I just dont want her to be a **** or sumthing...that would kill me more than anything..I am afraid to get close to anyone else, becuz I'm afraid that this wiill happen again.....and plus..well idk..i love everything about her..her smile, the way she laughs....everything..I know this isnt just another crush..cuz i have had many of those....and this isnt one of those...is there anything i can do?? please help?

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but way back 6 months ago, she told her friends she mite like me......and then she backed off ..so I know she has even the slightest feelings..and other times..I just kinda get that sense..she has thought about it..i just dont know what to do..I mean she is only 13..so I know her mind is goin crazy.but what should i do

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I mean since weve been friends for so long...we see each other every week...... i mean..i know nothing is gonna happen in the next month..but am i crazy to hope for sumthin in the next year or so?? or however long??

2006-11-07 04:12:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why do men let go of a great women and then want her back when they lost her am i ever going to find true love please help me understand

2006-11-07 04:11:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-07 04:11:30 · 11 answers · asked by stephanie p 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

paranoid.

2006-11-07 04:10:24 · 11 answers · asked by lasilent71466 1 in Marriage & Divorce