2006-11-07 04:17:25 · 24 answers · asked by MsNic 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Take out your frustration on his car...LOL...I'm kidding. Just find someone who is unbiased to talk to.
2006-11-07 04:19:46 · answer #1 · answered by voodoo_moonbaby43968 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Only thing I can tell you is time. If you plan on staying with him, it will take longer. I am not sure details so I will not tell you whether or not you should leave or stay, only you know if your relationship is worth that. But give it time. Eventually, it will get easier. I cannot say that the hurt and anger will ever go away completely, but just keep praying and keep your head up. If you have choosen to seperate from him, take time before getting involved with someone else. Because usually when women are emotional we tend to rush into something else that isn't any good for us either. Take the time to take care of you.
2006-11-07 12:24:22 · answer #2 · answered by givelife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i'm not an adult but i'm a teenager and to get rid of the anger ur gonna have to relax and cut him loose for a little while. Give urself time to breath and after a while u'll know what to do and if u still love him after all the sh*t he put u through then talk to him and tell him that u don't appreciate him lying to you after all the things you've done for him. Tell him that you love him and you want this to work...u just don't want him to keep lying to you because its hurting you and killing the love each time.
2006-11-07 12:21:34 · answer #3 · answered by iluvashtonkutcher676 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its natural to be angry after finding out that youve been decieved. Dont worry, all of the anger will go away in due time. Take this as a lesson learned and get rid of that liar if you havent done so already.
2006-11-07 12:29:03 · answer #4 · answered by Cuteness 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you just need to learn from life and take it as a lessoned learned and remember not everyone is like that. Just try and find some other things to d odo get him off of your mind. What kind of lies did he tell you? depending on the lies depends on what you can do to get him off your mind and to get rid of the anger.
2006-11-07 12:22:17 · answer #5 · answered by Daigsmommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something physically demanding. I used to have a huge Oak tree stump in my back yard and I would pound 10p nails in it using a small hammer till my arms felt like noodles. Take up a martial art at your local community center, try working out on a heavy bag and pretend it's his face you're punching. Gets the frustration out and benefits your health. WIN - WIN!
2006-11-07 12:21:15 · answer #6 · answered by Rich B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a hard one. My wife lied to me and cheated on me, yet somehow, I found it in myself to get past it and continue with our relationship, which is now stronger and more fulfilling than it was before. Perhaps the first step it to find out WHY he lied, or why he felt it necessary to lie. Talk about it and what led up to the lies. Only once you get past the "why" can you get on with forgiveness.
2006-11-07 12:22:32 · answer #7 · answered by Lorne O 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anger is a natural part of healing - being angry is OK. It just takes time. Soon enough you will get over the hurt and be able to move on - keep your chin up.
2006-11-07 12:20:08 · answer #8 · answered by ksmpmjoll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are getting anger,drink a cup of water and sit down.Dont think about his lies told you.It will make you sick mentally and physically except give any good results.Dont try to revenge him.It will continue the problem .if you love him heartly try pationtly to make him undestand his bad quality and avoid it for lifetime.But sametime you should see your pluspoints and minus points at you that he dislikes and correct it to catch his love.If not so forget him.
good luck
2006-11-07 13:04:40 · answer #9 · answered by gratuateall 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U have to let it go... Just pray about it and ask for his help.. Sometimes its hard to know that someone has lied... But by taking it out on him or doing something wrong and stupid isnt the best way...
2006-11-07 12:25:12 · answer #10 · answered by blue eyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgiveness is a good place to start. That means saying to him "I forgive you for..." but you also need to tell him how he hurt you. For example, I feel devistated because you abused my trust. I feel cheated...
Please remember that just because you forgive someone it does not mean you have to go running back into an abusive relationship. He has to deal with the consequences of his actions. That may include losing you.
If someone crashes their car into you, you could forgive them, but next time you see them on the road, you would be normal if you got nervous and got out of thier way. Your certainly not going to let them crash into you again.
2006-11-07 12:23:47 · answer #11 · answered by Triestobewise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋