Is this Jealous?

Question

If you had a girlfriend or boyfriend who has been working. The whole time they been working for like a year and for this whole year they been dress like a certain way. And this certain way is usually just some plain work pants and a plain shirt. You know nothin serious. But all of a sudden they start going to work dressing nice and doing they hair all nice. Really for no reason. Is it wrong for me to ask why?

Answer 1

If it's a girlfriend she might be doing that different because there could be a better looking woman in the work place and she may feel she needs to "step it up". But me being a woman, if it was my boyfriend, yes I would be jealous, why would he need to all of a sudden change his appearance? I would ask him why and then later go show up with a "surprise" lunch for him to spy on him.

Answer 2

Try asking them if they changed the dress code or if they got a new job position. You can tell if there is something up by how they act away from work with you if there is something going on. There are little things that they do different that will get your attention. If they think that you are jealous because you ask that it is a pretty good reaction that leads to something going on

Answer 3

She's interested in someone else at work. I had a best friend that did the exact same thing. She wore make-up, dressed nice always, fixed her hair and then she finally told me she had met someone at work . She did not do any of this before he came to work there. She almost left her husband over him. Only he was married and would not leave his wife. They had a six month affair and when it was over, she stopped all of that stuff and went back to normal.

Answer 4

maybe they admire a successful person at work, and wants to come off as polished in the bosses eye

and people do go through phases, don't know this persons age, but styles and taste do change as we mature

I don't know if its jealousy but you're only human to wonder if its to attract a certain someone... I think there would be other clues if that was the reason

Answer 5

No, because many times you switch your style up to impress someone. Now if she is guilty then she will get really up set, but if she is not she can explain that maybe she wants to come out more due to issues of insecurity, or maybe she wants a raise. There are many different reasons, but I do not think your being jealous, just taking pre cautions.

Answer 6

Not really. but you can be subtle about it. Let her know you have noticed this change in how she is dressing and casually ask her if there is any specific reason for the change. If she gets defensive or angry, there may be a reason you may not like.

Answer 7

Maybe she wants to look better at work...it could be that she just wants to feel sexy about herself but it could also mean that she met someone at her job and wants to look sexy for them. But don't jump to conclusions. Its most likely that she has a good time at work and it makes her feel even better to look nice. She wants to look appealing at work and to the people around her. Yeah u might be a little jealous but I don't blame you...I would've felt the same damn way.

Answer 8

No way! In some cases this could be a sign that they are trying to attract someone else.

Answer 9

there has to be a reason for the sudden change. not jealous, just being smart on your part to wonder

Answer 10

No I would want to know why too. I don't think that is being jealous, you just want to know.