I am not sure if you remember..but I posted that I checked my guys v/m..and there was three messages..I think from different girl..2 from the same girl..
the first girl..was like..hey its me..i know its early but I had to leave you a message..we're good honey..I'm good..I'm sure..talk to you whenever..be safe....
the second girl..was like hey it me..I left work..I checked footlocker they want $ for the sneakers..but its ok I will pay for it..no big deal.
the next message I heard from the same girl about two weeks later,...hey its me..I assume your on lunch..I bought them...I have the receipt..I will see you when I go on lunch..
what I made from all this is that with the first girl..maybe he used to mess with her but no longer..the second girl..I am clueless..dont know what to think..
I have been checking his v/m I have not heard anything since...but he did get a pair of jordans for his b'day..he told that is mom knew someone that knew someone to get a hookup.... I dont trust him
2006-11-07 04:16:12 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have been with him a year..and honestly when heard the second girl..I thought the same thing..maybe he is just using me and the others to buy him clothes..the thing is I cant bring this up to him..until I have sufficient detail to blow it up in his face....
2006-11-07 04:29:36 · update #1
I think the real problem here is in your very last sentence: I don't trust him. If you don't trust him, then why are you with him? And why are you obsessively checking his voicemail anyway? The messages sound pretty innocent. The first girl is probably an old fling and the second girl is probably just someone he works with. If you're worried about it though, trust your instincts and leave him. Your instincts are usually right.
2006-11-07 04:21:01 · answer #1 · answered by Sarah M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any girl on my husbands voice mail other than family or work would make me suspicious. I wouldn't want another woman buying his clothing unless it was family. I think you should be concerned. Try checking his text messages, the inbox and outbox and see what that gives you.
2006-11-07 04:19:19 · answer #2 · answered by Premo Mom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is using you along with the other two girls. You are all serving his purpose somehow. Some of you buy food, some buy clothes some buy shoes or pay for his phone....
OPEN your eyes honey!!! He isn't being faithful, he is lying to you, and he is prostituting himself out for gifts...lol....Yeah hes a winner! NOT!!!
2006-11-07 04:22:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you u dont trust him wit cha bit ch *** den why you with him leave him if you think hes untrustworthy
2006-11-07 04:21:12 · answer #4 · answered by brandy baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋