Family & Relationships - 7 November 2006

I kinda discussed things with my older sis about my ups and downs that I was going through with my one true love. Now we've worked things out. But she still doesn't like him. But my mom and other relatives like him and enjoy his sence of humor. My sis doesn't understand when he is kidding around. I didn't either at first then I got it that he likes to kid alot. He disscused things with his buddies too before. Since my sis lives out of state she doesn't know all the wonderful qualities he has. How can I convince her that he is not the bad person she thinks he is. Should I tell her about all the nice things he has done for me? Have I tainted a bad picture about him to her? I want all my family and friends to like him. He is the best things that has ever happned to me. He is my world. I would be lost without him. He has many good qualities. If I tell her the good things about him would she change her mind?

2006-11-07 03:42:18 · 10 answers · asked by cluelesschickus 1 in Singles & Dating

The things that I read on dating sites - "looks aren't as important as personality", "looks don't matter to me", "I'd rather have someone with a wonderful personality then great looks". Looks & appearance are what we as himans judge on all first impressions. We approach people that we are attracted to based on that first impression. That person could be a psychotic axe murderer or a sexy black widow. You can't find out someones personality on a first impression from across a room or a club. It seems that women & men are willing to date people that are negative and totally wrong for them. But, because they look hot and sexy. They'll except some abuse to be with a physically attractive person.

2006-11-07 03:42:04 · 8 answers · asked by The Oracle Of Portland Maine 3 in Singles & Dating

I have been in 16 year realtionship and a 6 year realtionship. One resulted in divorce. I have met this wonderful man 2 1/2 months ago. He treats me special. He wants to spend the rest of his life with me. I have never met anyone like this before. I really feel like he is the one for me. Is it to early for an early engagement and maybe get married next year. He makes me complete in ways that I hadn't felt in years. What shall I do?

2006-11-07 03:41:22 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

you go out to eat with friends and some how they manage to stick you with the bill? (excuses: I forgot my purse/credit card/money) ---what did you do to stop being used by them?

2006-11-07 03:41:18 · 8 answers · asked by jaimestar64cross 6 in Friends

I have known her for about 3 years. We are pretty good friends and she tells me everything. She'll tell me if she's going out with another guy, or even stuff that she will only tell her best friends. However, she gets mad pretty easily, and sometimes when I try to talk to her, she will have an annoyed tone and tell me to shut up.
She also wants me to help her with everything and come with her to a lot of places. When she has to go do something, she'll tell me to come with her and beg me to. Your Thoughts?

2006-11-07 03:41:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

You say you will love me
If I have to go
You'll be thinking of me
somehow I will know
Someday when I'm lonely
wishing you weren't so far away
Then I will remember
Things we said today

You said you'll be mine, girl
'til the end of time
These days such a kind girl
seems so hard to find
Someday when we're dreaming
deep in love, not a lot to say
Then we will remember
Things we said today

Me I'm just the lucky kind
Love to hear you say that love is love
And though we may be blind
Love is here to stay and that's enough

To make you mine, girl
be the only one
loves me all the time, girl
we'll go on and on

Some day when we're dreaming
deep in love not a lot to say
Then we will remember
Things we said today

Me I'm just the lucky kind
Love to hear you say that love is love
And though we may be blind
Love is here to stay and that's enough

To make you mine, girl
believe only one
loves me all the time, girl
we'll go on and on

Some day when we're dreaming
deep in love not a lot to say
Then we will remember
Things we said today

2006-11-07 03:40:41 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-07 03:40:28 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My wife and I have been married for almost 3 years. She recently told me that she does not feel the same way she did when we got married, she said the love is gone, but I dont feel the same way. Any help on this would be great.

2006-11-07 03:39:01 · 24 answers · asked by Jason N 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend broke-up with me 8 months ago and the wound is still fresh. He had stopped talking to me since we broke-up and after 7 months, he started calling everyday. We would have 5-10 minutes conversations. I would go see him at work and he would kiss me good-bye. Last Thursday he told me he loved me before we hung up. My heart stopped. I thought maybe we still had a shot. Then Sunday he called me for a ride. The thing his he was at a "friends" house, obviously a woman. Why would he ask me to pick him up from a woman's house? Here's the other problem, since we broke-up he's been living with another woman. Is he just playing games? Is he confused? Does he still love me? He just confused me. When I confronted him yesterday, he said he was just going to stop calling me all together. Sadly I begged for him not to take that away from me, seeing that he had already taken himself away from me. He said he would call on occassion to see if I o.k. What do I do now?

2006-11-07 03:38:48 · 17 answers · asked by AngelLuv 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-07 03:37:44 · 18 answers · asked by ? 2 in Friends

I like this guy and he likes me too but he says I don't show it. How am I supposed to show that I like him?

2006-11-07 03:37:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been in this relationship for over 7 year. We have 2 kids together also. We have talked numerous times about getting married. I have even started planning a wedding several times in the past 7 years also. But by the time I start getting everything together and ready to spending some money, things go down hill. We start fighting constantly and end up splitting up. We can fight about anything under the sun. From our sex life to how the toilet paper hangs from the roller. It doesn't matter what it is, we will fight about it. We love each other and care for each other a lot. But there is is so many issues that need to be resolved. We have both tried to change our ways, but it alwasy seems to end up the same way every time, in a fight. What should we do, just go ahead and get married, it is looking like we will be together forever anyway. Or just stay as partners and see where it goes. He wants to get married and so do I, I just don't want to be in an unhappy marriage. Please help me

2006-11-07 03:35:49 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

what type of advertisiment that the old like ? why
Do the younger people like watching TV and what type they interested in?

2006-11-07 03:35:12 · 1 answers · asked by Trang P 1 in Singles & Dating

Then they'll see how marriage doesn't solve everything. Then they'll get divorced and have to put with all the stuff that goes with that.

2006-11-07 03:34:48 · 16 answers · asked by ♥Brown Eyed Girl ♥ 5 in Marriage & Divorce

pulled you behind a building and started kissing you. what would you do how would you react. please be honest


and your not going out but she likes you and you like her and you both know it

2006-11-07 03:34:08 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-07 03:33:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay, I just want to know why I go to a dance and I never ever get asked to dance. All the guys go to the girls who are sluts, me and ym friends always get left hanging. What is going on?! Are guys just trying to get out of asking and going for easy targets? I just wnat to know if its just me or if there is osmething going on with guys...

2006-11-07 03:33:46 · 4 answers · asked by Horselover 2 in Singles & Dating

A few weeks ago, I was having a discussion with a guy that I've been seeing for the past two months. He told me that he had something he wanted to tell me and he hoped that I wouldn't be judgmental. I assured him that I am not that type of woman - I handle people on a case by case basis and I wouldn't want to date anyone willing to hide things from me.

One night, he revealed to me that he's on probation. Eight years ago he was the driver in a car crash where the passenger, one of his closest friends, was killed. He sustained serious injuries and nearly died himself. Drugs and alcohol were not a factor; rather, he was speeding and lost control of the car. He plead guilty to vehicular homicide and was put on probation. I am sure that he has learned a tragic lesson. I know that it took a lot for him to tell me that and I appreciated it.

He and I know a lot of the same people. One of those people knew him before and after the accident. He mentioned that the guy I'm dating did go

2006-11-07 03:33:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-07 03:32:43 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Honestly, do women find men at 40 who are divorced, have a management job, no kids, and don't live at home with mommy attractive? Is it looks? money? power? or what about charm, charisma, and just being a nice guy? Ladies tell me what you think.

2006-11-07 03:32:32 · 10 answers · asked by droopydog88 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-07 03:32:00 · 4 answers · asked by diegoshank 1 in Singles & Dating

Do the ladies have somthing against fat dudes? Whats the problem girls? Just embarressed or what? Be honest here!

2006-11-07 03:31:56 · 8 answers · asked by Mr. Know It All 2 in Singles & Dating

school is beging to bog me down and my boyfriend who graduated two years ago is getting a little irritated that im not spending as much time with him wat do i do?

2006-11-07 03:31:14 · 12 answers · asked by ~ ★ ~Soulja Girl~ ★ ~ 2 in Singles & Dating

I dont know if this is even the appropriate forum to ask this in....

Last night I tried calling my fiance. Couldnt reach him for a few hours. It was an emergency so I needed to reach him asap. I knew he would prob be at the coffee shop studying so I drove to the coffee shop and thought I would catch him there. No big deal.
When I pull into the parking lot and as im walking past a restaraunt right beside the coffee shop I see him sitting there having dinner with a woman. So I walk in and confront him. Maybe I should have trusted him and not said anything and waited. But I couldnt help it.Come to find out he met a bunch of people from work because they just closed a big deal and they were all having dinner and they ended up being the last two to leave. This girl was his intern. I am completely humiliated. What would you women do? Would you believe him if hes never given you a reason to not trust before? I am so confused and hurt. I dont know what to think.

2006-11-07 03:30:35 · 32 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

How can you tell if i guy is interested in you "relationship wise", compared to just being interested in you for "one thing"?

2006-11-07 03:29:59 · 16 answers · asked by XCuteX 1 in Singles & Dating

I have done nothing wrong, it just she has a problem with me, she thinks i want him back i still love him, we split 11 yrs ago, but was sleeping together 4 months ago, but i was lonely (i have been on my own since we split nearly) i am not saying i wouldnt of a few months ago, but now, never, he has no back bone, but why does she hate me, i have done nothing wrong, she told him to see our daughter, and when he did, she made him choose, and yes i know i am ranting, but why do current partners have a problem with ex'x

2006-11-07 03:28:46 · 22 answers · asked by trouble 4 in Singles & Dating

I am 28 Married Female who has been involved in an affair for the last year with an older man (54) who is in a committed relationship. Last night after the 2 of us had relations it hit me that I am a whore. I realize that I need to change my life big time.

I have been thinking about packing it all up and moving 1000 miles away so I could start over and get my life back. I just think that everyone around me would be better off without me, and I would be better off in an area where people don't know my history where I can start over.

Part of my awaking was do to the fact that some people from Temple found out about my relationship with my "boyfriend" I acknowledged it while he denied knowing me in a sexual way. My friends from Temple all think I am a crazy stalker, and so does everyone else. The Rabbi is of no help and I am not at all close with my family. Please advise.

2006-11-07 03:27:55 · 15 answers · asked by Laura F 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-07 03:27:50 · 14 answers · asked by Julie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I believe my boyfriend is going to cheat on me. He looks at naked girls all the time. Is he going to cheat or is he not satisfied with my body, and looking for something new.

2006-11-07 03:27:11 · 11 answers · asked by big bang 2 in Singles & Dating

I know his name. And roughly where he was at the time of my birth.

2006-11-07 03:26:00 · 8 answers · asked by Supersammy :o) 3 in Marriage & Divorce