Family & Relationships - 7 November 2006

My husband and i got married when we were 18 and 17 right out of high school after a year of dating we eloped. My parents could not stand him at all thought he as a looser and spoiled brat. After being married 3 months it was hard the standard of living for both of us dropped dramaticly i found out i was pregnant he was fine with it till he saw the utra sound we seperated his choice.I went back home(to my parents) and gave birth to our daughter started working for my moms buisness that she owns and going to college. I will be graduating this year with degree in finance.My husband and i have yet to file the paper work for divorce. I started seeing someone else for the last 2 yrs an old friend from kindergarden who moved away when we were young.He is wonderful with my daughter and she calls him dad. Estranged hubby just got in contact wanting to be a family again after 4 yrs i said no.Now he is demanding to meet my bf and see his daughter?

2006-11-07 03:14:54 · 17 answers · asked by Isabel G 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-07 03:14:50 · 10 answers · asked by parasolx 1 in Singles & Dating

My email is ...longreacj@yahoo.com.au ..Thanks.

2006-11-07 03:14:37 · 5 answers · asked by Danielle 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend told me the other day he thinks he's starting to love me. what does this mean??
surly he does or doesnt love me??
i dont understand!

2006-11-07 03:13:24 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-07 03:12:35 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i've had about 5 bf and i'm in year nine i need help cause all the boys i go out with are scumbags and go off with my bz m8s and one of them told me he was only goin out with me cause my bz m8 told him to i eed to find proper boy please i'm only 13.
pinky

2006-11-07 03:11:58 · 5 answers · asked by danni 3 in Singles & Dating

Have you ever been so bored to where you are sitting here online with nothing to do? I'm kinda tired of posting and answering questions. This is going to be the last one from me for a little bit. Anyways, have you ever posted a question of wanting people to message you on yahoo messenger? Did people actually take it seriously and talk to you there? It's up to you if you want to message me or not, but I'm just sitting here trying to find something to do.

2006-11-07 03:11:25 · 9 answers · asked by Jammin' On The One 3 in Friends

what is the difference between boy and a girl?

2006-11-07 03:11:16 · 15 answers · asked by andy 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been going out with someone for a year - I have one 7 yr old son
on, he has 3 children from his marriage, 1 living with him, soon to leave home & 2 younger children who visit ever 2nd w/end and get on great with my son. My boyfriend loves me and wants to move in together, buy a house together in the future etc BUT has said that he dosen't want to be a step father/role model to my son! - says that his grandfather can fulfill this
(My son's natural father was violent & abusive and has not seen my son for two yrs by court order)
I love my boyfriend but wonder if it is unfair/too confusing to my son to live together when my b/friend dosen't want to take on this role - my father from a young age is my stepfather, I guess I have always hoped my boyfriend/the man I end up with would want to take this role on - Help- I love my b/friend but my son must come first!

2006-11-07 03:10:32 · 8 answers · asked by Dilemma! 1 in Singles & Dating

have you and your boyfriend ever gotten into a little argument where he says somethings that hurts you but its nothing physical.
now this morning it happened we always get into little arguments over the most stupid things ever.... but it gives me doubts if he really loves me just by the things he says... what can you give me as advice.

2006-11-07 03:10:10 · 20 answers · asked by SHORTY 2 in Singles & Dating

My mother and sister have had a falliing out. My siste is in a complicated, not always very healthy relationship and my mother has tried to be supportive and be there for my sister. my sister has apparently reconciled with her husband and has pretty much cut of all ties to her family. my concern is with her 3 kids. They are close to my mother and miss her but my sister won't let them visit my mom.Is there anything that can be done about it?Does my mom have any rights?

2006-11-07 03:09:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have known this guy through mutual friends for probably about 8 mths now. This past wkend we ran into eachother, out with our mutual friends, and ended up spending the rest of the evening together. And, the next evening & the next evening.we have this extreme attraction to eachother.i don't even know how to explain it? It's more than lust,it's a "connection" I can't stop smiling when i'm around him, and i get butterflies when i know i'm going to see him. I feel like i'm in highschool all over again, and the crazy thing is, he feels all the same things. It's not like we're 25 yrs. old..we are both way beyond playing games. I'm 32, and he's 39. Here's the dilema. I've been in a off/on relationship for about 2 yrs. now, and we have been real rocky lately, that's probably why i persued, well, not persued, but am so taken with this other man. I'm floating..I know my relationship is over but don't know what i'm getting myself into? Is this 2 good to be true? Should i be concerned?

2006-11-07 03:09:21 · 9 answers · asked by teeny 1 in Singles & Dating

Your daughter age 16 --- is late coming in from her date, it's a school night and she has failed to call. She finally comes in (2 hours late!) and tells you "sorry, but we were having so much fun that I forgot to phone"!
What's your response?

2006-11-07 03:08:44 · 14 answers · asked by jaimestar64cross 6 in Singles & Dating

Her birthday is coming up and then there's Christmas so I need a lot of ideas of what to get her. She's not really into music so that makes it harder. WHAT SHOULD I GET HER????

2006-11-07 03:08:03 · 9 answers · asked by littlemin5 3 in Family

She abuses prescription drugs, has tried to commit suicide, and is already trying to start some crap about the holidays and the family. She has no job, and only stays with my brother for the money and the big house and nice car. She tells my other sister-n-law that I'm a ***** and she don't like me - and I've never done anything to her. She talks about me all the time and spreads rumors that aren't true. Why is she picking on me ? I have my own family and life to tend to and don't have time for her bull sh*#! Should I approach her and put an end to it (it would get ugly), or do I call my brother and tell him whats going on ?

2006-11-07 03:07:59 · 18 answers · asked by Mandy W 1 in Family

my BF told me he loves me and we've been going out for a month he said i love u in a week after we started going out.. he said he felt it was love from the 1st sight and he just knew i was the right one..
he really appriciates everything in me..and he cares so much about me..he treats me in a perfect way even wen he is around his friends or mine..he keeps kissing my hand and holding it even if he was busy doing sumthn..
so to short this out..I think i started feeling am falling in love with him but I just dont know how to say it..i dont wanna go too fast so when and how shud i say it to him to make him really really really happy? like in an original way

2006-11-07 03:06:58 · 14 answers · asked by rosa 1 in Singles & Dating

like, how do girls know they found the right guy

2006-11-07 03:06:56 · 10 answers · asked by ktgirl465 1 in Singles & Dating

I'd appreciate any input on this serious situation.

My sister, together with her live-in bf of many years, runs a small landscaping company. The workhorse of this operation is a beautiful Dodge Ram truck, which is in her name only.

The bf has a LONG record of doing stupid and dangerous things. Last night, my sister asked him to go to the store. He allowed his 17-year old son to drive him, and he insisted on taking the Ram (other vehicles were available).

On the way home, contrary to explicit instructions, the bf allowed the son to make a side trip up into the country. In the process, the son rolled the Dodge. The Dodge is now totaled.

She loved her truck. When the bf & son explained what had happened, she began to cry, and scream at them, calling them idiots. The son smart-mouthed her, using vulgar language, and my sister slapped him.

The bf, fearful, took the son and dashed off in another vehicle, leaving my sister to deal with police & insurance.

What should she do?

2006-11-07 03:04:43 · 7 answers · asked by silvercomet 6 in Family

Do u still lingering with thoughts on them or hope to reconcile?

For me, if i know this relationship is beyond remedy and not worthwhile to keep, i do keep it as part of my memory for period we been together, just like many platonic friends i have, but just that i will erase my feelings for them. thus even if they call me i won't feel anything for them. no more pain. i look forward for a more fulfilling relationship next time. how about u?

2006-11-07 03:04:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I Love him, and do not, and cannot leave. I just try to walk away. How can I help him with his problem. He rarely tries to get help or realize that he needs it.

2006-11-07 03:03:42 · 40 answers · asked by bearlady 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I DO NOT KNOW WHAT TO DO!!! This girl that i love is not being direct with me and im not sure if i should try and forget her or continue goin after her. Here is our story. I met her about 2 or 3 months ago because of my new school. She is a very beautiful girl but the night i told her i liked her she started dating the biggest athlete in our school. Well we have talk on the phone EVERY NIGHT since they started going out and about 2 weeks ago they broke up. So wat i did was ask her to hang out with me. Every weekend since we have hung out. Here is the catch tho... Her old boyfriend wants to get back with her and she is unsure. She tells me everything they talk about and has tried to reject him but is too nice. She has said no to him but he just keeps begging her. I asked her out the weekend they broke up and she said that she wanted to go on a date with me first. So this last weekend we went on a date. I asked her out again on the end of the date and she didnt really respond she said, "we can talk about it on the phone tonite." What followed was a phone conversation where she said she liked me and all but she just didnt wanna date right now. She does eventually want to date me tho. I asked her to hand out this next weekend and she seems like she dosnt want too but idk. It really confuses me. Oh yea and the last two days i have been sick and while at school she has not sent me any emails wondering about me. Finally she told one of my friends yesterday in a long conversation with him (he is also her old BFs friend) that she did not like me physically but emotionally she as in love with me. And her old bf she liked physically but not emotionally. I dont know if she thinks im ugly or its the acne but idk. Im getting treatment on my acne so that should not be a problem after like another month but yea idk. So it is so confusing and i can not take this anymore. What should i do? I really really love her and think she is the greatest thing since sliced bread but if its not gonna work out i would rather not continue down this path. Her old bf called her last night and told her he had to have her in her life and she said the would talk today. i really hope that they dont start goin out again.

2006-11-07 03:03:31 · 9 answers · asked by Will b 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-07 03:03:27 · 11 answers · asked by Steph :-) 3 in Singles & Dating

I have a 4 year old daughter and my husband that I need to buy stocking stuffer for. I had the hardest time finding things for them. If anybody has any suggestions please help me!

2006-11-07 03:03:13 · 7 answers · asked by leah_bass 2 in Family

2006-11-07 03:02:51 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mom's brother left Belgium for the US 24 years ago. We lost track. He lived in California. We tried for several years now to find him but we didn't yet. We feel a little bit desperate right know.
Do you have some suggestions for us?

2006-11-07 03:02:09 · 3 answers · asked by Nessie 1 in Family

Everyday I try talking to some of the kids at school. They just ignore me due to the way the school is ranked.

2006-11-07 03:01:47 · 6 answers · asked by Crazy K. 2 in Friends

2006-11-07 03:01:02 · 4 answers · asked by Kria 3 in Singles & Dating

He is in the Army and we met over the phone. He has been stationed in South Korea for the past six months and we've been talking for the past three. He is from the town that is like 15min. away. But the only hold up is that he is 19, im16, he has a kid and is inthe middle of a divorce. i know he is getting a divorce because i have met his mother.

2006-11-07 03:00:40 · 9 answers · asked by kd_bug 2 in Singles & Dating

Im 25 years old and have a boyfriend, when ever family comes over or older friends they always ask if im married or have kids. God that bugs because they dont ask how my health is or school or work is going and even so when I tell them no to there ?, the converstaion ends. Well I have gotten to the point where I tell them something smart like so are you divorced? Or have someone else to bug? I know thas mean but who else feels that is annoying? The pressure.

2006-11-07 03:00:11 · 4 answers · asked by D'oh! 5 in Singles & Dating

mates. Our friends gave us a $120.00 "gift certificates" to a really fancy restaurant. I have never been to a place like that. Don't know how to act! What can I expect? Just think how many Burger King burgers we could buy with that much money. Help this country boy to know how to act when we go in.

2006-11-07 02:59:57 · 8 answers · asked by Bluebeard 1 in Marriage & Divorce