I DO NOT KNOW WHAT TO DO!!! This girl that i love is not being direct with me and im not sure if i should try and forget her or continue goin after her. Here is our story. I met her about 2 or 3 months ago because of my new school. She is a very beautiful girl but the night i told her i liked her she started dating the biggest athlete in our school. Well we have talk on the phone EVERY NIGHT since they started going out and about 2 weeks ago they broke up. So wat i did was ask her to hang out with me. Every weekend since we have hung out. Here is the catch tho... Her old boyfriend wants to get back with her and she is unsure. She tells me everything they talk about and has tried to reject him but is too nice. She has said no to him but he just keeps begging her. I asked her out the weekend they broke up and she said that she wanted to go on a date with me first. So this last weekend we went on a date. I asked her out again on the end of the date and she didnt really respond she said, "we can talk about it on the phone tonite." What followed was a phone conversation where she said she liked me and all but she just didnt wanna date right now. She does eventually want to date me tho. I asked her to hand out this next weekend and she seems like she dosnt want too but idk. It really confuses me. Oh yea and the last two days i have been sick and while at school she has not sent me any emails wondering about me. Finally she told one of my friends yesterday in a long conversation with him (he is also her old BFs friend) that she did not like me physically but emotionally she as in love with me. And her old bf she liked physically but not emotionally. I dont know if she thinks im ugly or its the acne but idk. Im getting treatment on my acne so that should not be a problem after like another month but yea idk. So it is so confusing and i can not take this anymore. What should i do? I really really love her and think she is the greatest thing since sliced bread but if its not gonna work out i would rather not continue down this path. Her old bf called her last night and told her he had to have her in her life and she said the would talk today. i really hope that they dont start goin out again.
2006-11-07 03:03:31 · 9 answers · asked by Will b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i didnt read all of that,, sorry, but im still gonna say "move on". its best.
2006-11-07 03:09:37 · answer #1 · answered by nodumgys 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is time to move on. You are more of a friend to her. She ias confused and has you as a security blanket. You are doing what otheres cant give her. But she is not giving to you in return. You are still young, so it will be ok. Once your face clears, I am sure that youwill have chances with lotsa girls, and then she will see what she missed out on. You are giong along on a rollercoaster ride that is taking you all the way back around and it is not fair to you. It wont stop either. If she really like you, then she would not throw the excuse of not wanting to date. That is the nice way of saying"No" I am not interested. She just doesn't want to hurt your feelings. But in the ned that is what you will receive. The game is nasty and she is playing you. So move on and **** her.
2006-11-07 03:11:53 · answer #2 · answered by genietini 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she values your friendship more than she wants you as a boyfriend. Forget what the movies tell us. If all she wants is friendship, there is no point in hoping for more.
Try being the best friend you can to her, giving her good, objective advice. Other girls will find you more attractive if you have female friends.
Good luck. Women are put on earth to mess with our minds. But that's part of the fun of the ride!
2006-11-07 03:10:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmmm......well it sounds like this girl doesn' t know what she wants. As for you, you did your part in asking her and allowing her to get to know you. If she's still unsure about it just stop insisting, and dont worry about your appearance. She either likes you or not, my brother had this same problem. He kept insisting this girl that he liked her and they were cool and all and the girl just ended up going back with her ex, my bro just moved on and found someone better....i think he's much happier. This girl is just holding you back....let her go and move on....if she comes back let her be the one to tell you that she wants you....
2006-11-07 03:10:19 · answer #4 · answered by Buttercup 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems this girl doesn't know either - she wants both worlds... you and her old boyfriend.
I would say right now it would be best if you would back off to save yourself some heartache and allow her to mature a bit before approaching her again.
Miss Cris
http://lendinganear.wordpress.com
2006-11-07 03:07:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-21 10:20:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think better quit ...
Regards
Sameer
http://sameer-shaikh.blogspot.com
2006-11-07 03:05:51 · answer #7 · answered by Sameer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is too looooooooooooooooong!
2006-11-07 03:07:04 · answer #8 · answered by evesmystique 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nah just stay
2006-11-07 03:07:20 · answer #9 · answered by Ta1mat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋