my BF told me he loves me and we've been going out for a month he said i love u in a week after we started going out.. he said he felt it was love from the 1st sight and he just knew i was the right one..
he really appriciates everything in me..and he cares so much about me..he treats me in a perfect way even wen he is around his friends or mine..he keeps kissing my hand and holding it even if he was busy doing sumthn..
so to short this out..I think i started feeling am falling in love with him but I just dont know how to say it..i dont wanna go too fast so when and how shud i say it to him to make him really really really happy? like in an original way
2006-11-07 03:06:58 · 14 answers · asked by rosa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you "feel" his love for you; therefore, if you are in sync with one another, he will feel your love towards him. "what you are speaks so loudly, i can't hear a word you"re saying......."actions speak louder than words"
2006-11-07 03:18:23 · answer #1 · answered by bill 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say only when you're your ready, if you feel that you do love him then tell him, but if you are unsure then don't say anything because that will be the first of lies you start to tell him. If you can't be bf and gf without lying then how can you not expect that there will be more lies. When you tell him you can tell him on a ride like at a carnival or amusement, like before you go over a steep hill. Or you could tell him in the language of your heritage, like for example if you are Hispanic then you could say tu es mi amor, which means you are my love. I hope things go well between the two of you good luck!
2006-11-07 11:13:17 · answer #2 · answered by littlemin5 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just say it to him... you don't have to come up with an original way to say it... its the best when you love someone so much that you don't need to take time to find an interesting way to say it bnecause you are busting at the seems waiting to tell him as it is! you can do that later with little notes, surprises etc.. the first time is a big step, and you souldn't put any distractions with it... clear your mind of everything but him, look into his eyes and say it with your whole heart... that will touch him more than a creative way, because he sees all your focus on those three words and on making him know that it is true :)
2006-11-07 11:12:13 · answer #3 · answered by lily 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Say "I love you" when you feel you're ready. This guy sounds like a great guy. This is what i did for mine, I made a home video that day with me holding up a huge sign on the video camera that says "Nick" on one card, then i flipped it to the next card, "I really want you to know" then the next card "that you flutter my heartstrings" next card "and i want to let you know" next card "I LOVE YOU" And then like i recorded my own little message so he could watch me. I did all this and before i did this i invited him over to my parents house, cooked him dinner, and when we sat down to put the movie in, i put this in instead. He loved it. Just be creative and be original! Good luck!
2006-11-07 11:10:33 · answer #4 · answered by Ricki M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This situation sounds so familiar, I was 16 when I got with my boyfriend, he was 20, and I was with his a week and a half, and he looked at me and told me he loved me and he knew he was going to be with me for a long time.. It scared me very very bad, I mean I was only with him for a week and a half, and he was all ready telling me this... and I have this thing with the words...I LOVE YOU..... don't say them unless you truly mean them.. but I have now been with him going on 6 years... allot of people will say he cant love you in a week, but you can...... we are living proof........ but don't just tell him you love him if you don't, or don't just tell him because he has told you.... When you truly know in your heart you love him, than just tell him..... good luck and god bless
2006-11-07 11:15:44 · answer #5 · answered by Kimmy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are uncomfortable saying it directly to him then wait until he tell you again and then say I love you too. My man told me he loved me after about a week and he is the same way as your man and we are now married with a son. Good luck!
2006-11-07 11:09:33 · answer #6 · answered by cmsmith114 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
An original way.... When he is driving and has parked the car, take out your lipstick and write it on his windscreen. Then turn around, kiss him, your arms around his neck, look him in the eyes and tell him again, with words.
Congratulations. May you go from strength to strength.
2006-11-07 11:12:14 · answer #7 · answered by Sugar 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he's keeps treatin you right eventually you will just say it with out thinking about it. That my dear, is original and best because it wasn't planed with infatuation or lust.
2006-11-07 11:11:25 · answer #8 · answered by zippo_lyp 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get alone hold his hand --- look into his eyes and say i love you
its cliche but its honest and he will appreciate that and it means a lot to have the lady you care for say she loves you
2006-11-07 11:11:03 · answer #9 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes just saying it simply will have the most extraordinary results
2006-11-07 11:09:51 · answer #10 · answered by wingedgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him your "having strong feelings of love for him".. Or If you can write poetry, try writing a poem that tells your feelings. Or you can find one that has already been written, that fits your feelings.
2006-11-07 11:11:04 · answer #11 · answered by magnolia_76 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋