Family & Relationships - 7 November 2006

After month of trying to persaude me to live with him, I finally moved in with my boyfriend in a circumstance where I had no where else to turn to.
I moved country to come and be with him and now at my time of most need of his support he has expressed a desire to be alone.....have his "independence".
He is a sensible guy and by no means do I think it's anything other than "All the right things, just at the wrong time". Because he still wants me to wait for him while he has his chance at doing what "he wants".
I have never let him down, always been there for him and we couldn't get on better together and now such a shock to my system.......
Do I take this as a sign to cut and run........or do I be patient even though the outcome is unsure for me?
I am 22 and he is 24.....I'm a New Zealander but moved from Switzerland to be with him.

2006-11-07 02:31:25 · 9 answers · asked by jessieket04 3 in Singles & Dating

but the state she gets the ok to move too has a six month jurisdiction on the court order she is given.she is now been living in that state she was granted to for eight months nows does the court order still remain the same, or does she then have to file for another court order in the state she is in now ?

2006-11-07 02:31:07 · 4 answers · asked by jeremiah da man 1 in Marriage & Divorce

everyone tells me that my boyfriend and i started dating way to soon
i mean yes it was a little soon [it was official 2 days later, but kind a 'goes without saying thing" from the night we met on]
but weve been togetther for almost a year


so whats your opinion?
how soon is to soon? and whats the soonest youve ever started dating someone after you met them?

2006-11-07 02:30:58 · 22 answers · asked by Jordan Alexis 6 in Singles & Dating

BACK!!!

I wanna belt out the song from WhiteSnake soooooo bad, but I have such a terrible pitch...I may break windows.

HERE I GO AGAIN!!!

My gawd I feel so damn liberated :))

2006-11-07 02:30:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

his so damn sexy..and i cant stop thinkin about him..im 5 and his 28...i always take a lottt picture of him..and i always jump high when i see him..i cant get him out of my mind..TT
hiss sooooooooo damn HOT

2006-11-07 02:30:12 · 2 answers · asked by RonyChan 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

was it in a backseat? A hotel room?

Mine was in the backseat of a camaro at a public park---yes it was very late and very dark...

2006-11-07 02:29:11 · 16 answers · asked by Cindy S 4 in Singles & Dating

im 23 indian girl i would like to get married to a 19old boy india we would like to get married online but we dont the rules. i only know that i can get married to a boy who is 21. pls help and if we do get married online will it respected hope for a reply soon

2006-11-07 02:29:01 · 12 answers · asked by RACHANA D 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm female and i hate if a man talks rude to me or in a loud tone.I'm I being sensible here or what ? I think a man should treat a lady with respect, i've have been called a *****,the f word,etc...
At work I was scolded by a manager, for a something, it hurt a lot, now he tries to be nice, i ignore him,he looks a lot,I don't.Sometimes, i feel really sad, and don't want to see men.What do u think ???

2006-11-07 02:28:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Please if any one can help me out on this i would really be greatful
I need to go where my father was killed and get some closer. I didnt get to go when he died cause my 2month old at this time was really really sick.. Please any help on this thanks

2006-11-07 02:28:28 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-11-07 02:28:10 · 13 answers · asked by mickeys12 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm a female and i only seem to like bad boys who like to get down and dirty with it. And when i meet the too nice guy i tend to shy away. Why do you think this happens?

2006-11-07 02:27:55 · 11 answers · asked by 2sweet4u 4 in Singles & Dating

my girlfriend put her mouth on my "rear" the other day.This suprised me. i was wondering if other women do this as well

2006-11-07 02:27:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have this small diary(journal) and i have written only the things that happened between my BF and I...I wrote my thoughts wen am not with him and every little thing that happened between us..
we've been going out for a month so i thought of keep writing everything till valentine's day and then give it to him as a gift with a necklace engraved with each of
our names and the date of the day we first started going out!

so shall i give him the diary? it doeznt contain anything about my freinds or family its only about him n me

2006-11-07 02:27:26 · 13 answers · asked by rosa 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife started obsessing over her 37th birthday as if that was a significant date. She radically changed a couple months before and the months since her birthday. She started using pot - against my wishes and principles. I caught her cheating - her response "don't ruin this for me". She continues to use the pot and cheat with various guys some in 3-ways. She at one point said that this(pot, cheating) was just for a short while. Now she says she wants just an open marriage because she likes F'n around.
She is doing sex acts with these guys that I will not do. I will not do a 3 way with her and another guy, as she recently asked me to do. I am not into anal sex which is one of the things she is doing with these guys.
Is this just a midlife crisis that she will get over soon? Or is she now into other things and will not go back to how things were?

I do love her. Yes we did have problems in the bedroom. She had always been the prude in the bedroom!

2006-11-07 02:27:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

The dresses that my bridesmaids will be wearing are somewhat elaborate, and since I have 2 maids of honor I thought it would be best that that both the bridesmaids and the maids of honor wear the same dress, with the difference that the maids of honor dresses will be in a different shade within the wedding's color scheme. But now one of my MOH, thinks that everyone wearing the same dress will not look good, and I worry that a different dress might clash with the bridesmaids dresses which are already bought. What do you think?

2006-11-07 02:26:43 · 16 answers · asked by marij 2 in Weddings

A guy I've known for a couple of years has recently returned from travelling and has been emailing and ringing me in a friendly way to catch up.

We are both open (and relaxed) with the fact that we find each other very attractive.

I have just come out of a long term relationship and have been dating other guys, he's got a girlfriend at the minute but it's not a serious relationship (on his part anyway).

We havent met up yet, but he often sends me teasy texts about how much he fancies me and wants me (oo-er!) or that he's thinking about me.

He's a bit naughty and I think at the minute he's just after sex. I don't want anything serious, but it would be nice to have more of a fling than just a shag!

I know he fancies me, how do I go about making him want me more and for more than just sex?

(P.S....I do realise he's a player, but I'm not looking for marriage material!)

2006-11-07 02:26:35 · 8 answers · asked by LadyMiranda 1 in Singles & Dating

they split up when the children were 1 1/2 yrs and 1 yr, and are now both re-married? If the children never really knew about any of it, and don't remember it and both parents have moved on(well at least one), then why talk to the children about it at all? I mean, tell them if they ask, but why say anything to them if they don't. The only thing the kids are going to end up asking is why mommy and daddy aren't married anymore(which is why I think they were told in the first place) and it will only confuse them. They are too young to understand why the parents split. The children are 5 and 6 now. But they were asking questions about mommy and daddy being married when they were 3 and 4 out of the blue. But they weren't even old enough to remember when daddy and mommy were together! And none of them were alive when they were married. The grandmother argues that it is important to the kids to know that daddy and mommy were married, but they were only together 1 1/2 yrs.

2006-11-07 02:25:19 · 15 answers · asked by Mommy2be 2 in Marriage & Divorce

....Singles & Dating? It seems less than God like to me. I would think quiet introspection and scripture study would be what God wanted from us. Not to post almost incomprehensible gobble de g0ok about Jehova knows what to a bunch of horny housewives, homeschooled teens, unemployed pederasts and well, the rest of us.

2006-11-07 02:25:09 · 20 answers · asked by TheOneVersion3.0 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay, so I like this guy and he likes me. However, I don't think he understands that I like him. I have tried flirting and chatting with him, but nothing seems to work. What should I do? Any tips?

2006-11-07 02:24:06 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I mean lets say you love her , care for her, and respect her. You only want her only and no one else. Yet you like to have sex a lot and only with her is that a problem?

2006-11-07 02:23:49 · 15 answers · asked by Arthur D 3 in Singles & Dating

ok i realy like this guy . anf i ask him out and he said that he liked me but he had said yes 2 this other girl and he did not want to dump her but that when they broke up he would go out with me .
he said 4 me not to worry that they would not be going out that long and we would go out soon. do u think that he is telling the truth or his he just playing with me? and do not say just forget him its not that easy

2006-11-07 02:23:36 · 4 answers · asked by minda marie 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-07 02:23:29 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

The girl gets on my nerves, I want to hit her but im not trying to go to jail. I love her to death but if i can not find something to keep her quite ima hit her.

2006-11-07 02:23:02 · 16 answers · asked by itsme 1 in Friends

do you think that real love has power to make it own way towards success??

2006-11-07 02:22:32 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

with romantic words and beautiful poems. I think that is so sexy! Gentlmen are the hottest things around!

2006-11-07 02:21:24 · 20 answers · asked by Pardon Moi? 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-07 02:20:14 · 10 answers · asked by Steph :-) 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-07 02:18:41 · 27 answers · asked by interested 4 in Singles & Dating

I have MS and can't work and Social Security does give enough (3people 1 adult and 2 children) I am only legal guardian to kids so they get no money from that. But I am only worried about the holidays. I want them to have a nice holiday. So if any knows any help I could get or something I could do it would be appreciated. the kids are 3 and 10

2006-11-07 02:18:33 · 5 answers · asked by antsmom95 2 in Family

i have been secretly talkin to this guy that i like. Problem is i didn't tell my cousin who happens to be friends with the guy. i dont think i should tell my cousin but it is getting so frustrating!! what should i do? (i noe my life seems a bit complicated now huh?)

2006-11-07 02:18:26 · 5 answers · asked by kellydarcey 2 in Singles & Dating

What motivated you to do so?

2006-11-07 02:17:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating