im 23 indian girl i would like to get married to a 19old boy india we would like to get married online but we dont the rules. i only know that i can get married to a boy who is 21. pls help and if we do get married online will it respected hope for a reply soon
2006-11-07 02:29:01 · 12 answers · asked by RACHANA D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hi Rachna....
Well u have quite a geneniue problem but..there need to be certain decisions to be taken from mind and not heart...
See dear..when u both have decided to marry then there is no question that no one could stop both of you..but at the same time..is it that you both are going to marry online and hen wont meet for another 2 yrs or till the boy gets matured?Well if the answer is yes then the problem is that in this case there would be no respect to your relations and infact even the guys parents can sue you to the court..in turn making your parents goodwill bit rough..and if the answer is no then that means u both would stay toghther..then in such conditions i wont think your partner would be matured enough to satisfy your inner needs...
And let me also make you understand that only love cant take life going..its also daily needs ..for which money requires..and if u people plan to run away then ..u people may land in no mans land...
The best option i feel is that u should carry relations with him till he gets his maturity age and is fully setteled...and i dont no why you are so eager to marry..is it that u dont have faith on him...?well i think u have the answer itself in you.
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2006-11-07 18:45:31 · answer #1 · answered by lalit_jain123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes that's correct.According to Indian Law, a girl while getting married should be at least 18 years of age.A boy however while getting married must be at least 21 years of age.At first even the Boy was allowed to be a minimum of 18 Years of age but it was then increased to 21.
I would have suggest you wait for another 2 years but then you would become 25.If thats okay with you then what's wrong.ALSO make sure that HE ALSO want s to get married because indian boys at 19 are not that clear about marriage and he would still be studying at 19.How do you know that by the time he completes his education he will earn enough to take care of you??And if yu are the bread provider than ultimately it will be his male ego which will comin between.Right now he might think he is happy but i doubt that he is ABSOLUTELY CLEAR about marriage.Some years later maybe he could steer out of this relationship for this very reason and he will defend himself by sayin ' I WASNT READY' and you end up hurting yourself.
I suggest you look for someone your age maybe around 22-27 years.Best of luck !
2006-11-07 02:45:37 · answer #2 · answered by swankynix 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I've never heard of a online marriage. Bu tI think the bigger quesiton is do his and your parents know about this? I'm pretty sure marriage is a huge deal family/commuity wise in India. It sounds like you are trying to marry secretly. If this is the case, don't do it, it will just cause both of you to be unhappily married because of family pressures from both sides.
If though both parents do know you wish to be married why do it online? What is the reason for not holding celebrations the usual way? There is somethign that you are telling us and it is hard to answer your question effectively.
2006-11-07 02:39:19 · answer #3 · answered by Wibble 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right. In India, no man can legally get married till he reaches the age of 21. So you have to wait for 2 more years to get legally married to the boy of your choice.
And there is nothing called online marriage. If you have come across such a thing anywhere, just know that it is not legal in India.
2006-11-07 02:39:54 · answer #4 · answered by Modest 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's right! He has to be 21 and there's no on line marriage. even if its there, its not legal.
Now, give each other 2 more years and see if you still feel the same about each other. Boys at 19 are still immature and probably are not sure what they want. So, this 2 years would do good. Stay good friends though and don't get involved more than that and complicate your lives.
How do your parents feel about this?
2006-11-07 07:31:30 · answer #5 · answered by mads 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Online marriage is not accepted legally in India ... further yes the guy has to attain 21 yrs of age. But then if you guys are so much in love go ahead and marry and the society may accept it provided there are not privy to the grooms age.But then if its a marriage of convinence for legal issues then its of no use dear.
2006-11-07 17:49:02 · answer #6 · answered by Sudden 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry dear but Hindu Law doesn't permit this. Dont be in such a hurry, wait for two more years, I'm sure you both will end up in a happy married life
2006-11-07 04:44:30 · answer #7 · answered by Upal 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yaa u have 2 wait 4 .....2 years when he will 21years complete then u can do marriage wd him.
2006-11-08 01:47:36 · answer #8 · answered by jagrati 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
online marriage is not legal in india, are you dating online?
2006-11-07 12:40:05 · answer #9 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you trying to get him here in the US? If that s the case. That's the very wrong way to do it and impossible.
2006-11-07 02:44:25 · answer #10 · answered by Fantasy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋