A guy I've known for a couple of years has recently returned from travelling and has been emailing and ringing me in a friendly way to catch up.
We are both open (and relaxed) with the fact that we find each other very attractive.
I have just come out of a long term relationship and have been dating other guys, he's got a girlfriend at the minute but it's not a serious relationship (on his part anyway).
We havent met up yet, but he often sends me teasy texts about how much he fancies me and wants me (oo-er!) or that he's thinking about me.
He's a bit naughty and I think at the minute he's just after sex. I don't want anything serious, but it would be nice to have more of a fling than just a shag!
I know he fancies me, how do I go about making him want me more and for more than just sex?
(P.S....I do realise he's a player, but I'm not looking for marriage material!)
2006-11-07 02:26:35 · 8 answers · asked by LadyMiranda 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what, this is your mom!
2006-11-07 02:28:21 · answer #1 · answered by Ms. Weequahic high 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just say in 1 of your texes that the 1st time would be to experiment then you wouldn't mind getting to know him a bit better between the sheets.
2006-11-07 02:30:51 · answer #2 · answered by Jo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well why make him want you for more than sex if all you want is sex???
he has a girlfriend as well --- how would you feel if he was seeing someone else "just for sex" while going out with you???
make a decision --- do you want a serious relationship or sex --- if sex there are plenty of nicer looking guys available --- if serious wait and see if they break up
2006-11-07 02:31:11 · answer #3 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time he sends you a naughty SMS - say yes.
If you get him in bed you are in a far better position (no pun intended.) to negeotiate for more if you want it.
if not - it is easy to get out of.
2006-11-07 02:32:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he acts like this, despite his current girlfriend, what do you think he will do if he finds another girl he likes, while you guys are dating?
I wouldn't go there!
2006-11-07 02:31:29 · answer #5 · answered by Steph :-) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away,that will def make him want more!Also for the moment i think you keeping away will be good for all parties concerned.
Hes a slapper!
2006-11-07 02:29:49 · answer #6 · answered by kittypinkchuck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bottom line - the guy is in a relationship - leave well alone
2006-11-07 02:50:52 · answer #7 · answered by sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gosh is that the time already
2006-11-07 02:28:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋