Okay, so I like this guy and he likes me. However, I don't think he understands that I like him. I have tried flirting and chatting with him, but nothing seems to work. What should I do? Any tips?
2006-11-07 02:24:06 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
slap him
call him a total idiot
then kiss him
2006-11-07 02:29:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well. You may be serious for him. But make sure he is with you too. Time spent with him is the answer. You need to be a friend with him first. If you are genuine he will understand and you will tell him without uttering a word from your mouth. He seems to be a genuine guy. But find out he is good for you for the long term. You may seem to like him on face value, but reality can be different or same. Validate that first if you intend to have a long term relationship.
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tom
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2006-11-07 10:30:55 · answer #2 · answered by bh37bh37 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, are you really sure that he's into you!? Well, if you're 100% confident that he really likes you, here are some tips:
1) Continue giving hints... always pay special attention to him above all things
2) Sometimes being too forwardly blunt might cramp his style or his flirting preferences or even worse, intimidate him.
3) If he's really that slow, just make your hints more obvious until he gets it.
4) if still not working, be blunt... or he's not that interested
2006-11-07 10:36:43 · answer #3 · answered by Ernest Ian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There could be alot of things you don't know and therefore can't 'factor in' to this equation. If the guy likes you he would probably be asking you out....so if that's not happening you may want to examine what or whom else is out there that you're attracted to. He could be intimidated too--or he could be interested in someone else---lots more you need to discover. I'd suggest you get to know him alittle better before jumping to conclusions....and to find out if he's seeing someone else. That would explain him not pursuing you.
2006-11-07 10:29:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to stay more time with him but in a indirectly way, for example both can start a course of something that both like, and will spend many time together and living more anecdotes.
2006-11-07 10:34:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
write him a note tell him what you feel go to his house watch movies and if he cuddles with you give him a kiss on the neck!!! works every time
2006-11-07 10:32:35 · answer #6 · answered by shayshay<3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go up to him directly and talk to him, or slip him a note sometime, just to explain how you really feel about him. Maybe he will come around.
2006-11-07 10:26:26 · answer #7 · answered by BloodyCarrion 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't pour your heart out just yet. Be blunt, yet playful. Ask if he's planning to ask you out or what! Keeping it casual will make it easier to move forward!
2006-11-07 10:27:37 · answer #8 · answered by edu_jr 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
baby girl, trust me. he notices you. he's just playing cool right now. he wants you to make the first move toward asking him out on the date. now, here is the question. if you don't mind asking him out, then make the first move.
2006-11-07 10:26:58 · answer #9 · answered by harmony 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everybody has a certain amount of the dreaded "FEAR OF REJECTION". However!!!!!!!!! You will never know (unless you acquire a spontaneous bout of clairvoyance), unless you ask.
Remember.......the only dumb question, is the one never asked.
GOD BLESS YOU!!!!!
2006-11-07 10:31:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋