I'm female and i hate if a man talks rude to me or in a loud tone.I'm I being sensible here or what ? I think a man should treat a lady with respect, i've have been called a *****,the f word,etc...
At work I was scolded by a manager, for a something, it hurt a lot, now he tries to be nice, i ignore him,he looks a lot,I don't.Sometimes, i feel really sad, and don't want to see men.What do u think ???
2006-11-07 02:28:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well, you don't need to put up with rudeness from men or women.
It is a descriptor of the person, not whether they are male or female. Don't put up with it, just surround yourself with nice people and stay away from mean ones.
2006-11-07 02:31:48 · answer #1 · answered by Barbara 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean. Some men can really be insensitive and down right cruel. I have been treated miserably by a few and still expected to be at their beck and call. For a long time I hated men and I truly mean hated them. For years I didn't date and when one would even glance at me he got the cold shoulder and evil eye. It's different now though. I prayed and asked God to take away my hatred of men and he did. I have since met one of the most beautiful men God has created. I am not talking about his outward looks, but his heart. He never, ever has spoken to me cruelly or called me out of my name. I feel like a princess around him . He has done wonders for my self-esteem just by showing me I don't have to be treated like garbage and that not all men are alike. I've learned not to let the nastiness and coldness of others change my heart and distort my view. If I had not of asked God to help me with this issue, I would have missed out on meeting my now fiance because I would have snubbed him too and believed he was just another loser. Don't miss out on finding your special guy just because you've run into a few idiots who aren't worth the energy spent hating them. I pray you allow God to lift this off you and touch your heart. You will meet the right guy . God bless you and hang in there.
2006-11-07 02:42:11 · answer #2 · answered by softlyinspired 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see that your account has been suspended too bad...well if you made another account & read this I made an account here to answer your question. like a lot of people here said it definitely started with your fathers abuse & has escalated from there throughout your life..what you need to do if you want to change how you feel about men is start to get in touch with your masculinity & learn what that means..i'm sure you don't trust men either so that needs to be changed by recognizing that & finding good men in your life you can trust & building your freindships with them..i could also recommend a mens group that is directed towards finding out what it means to be a man today. If you want to stop hating men it starts with you, take the action to change or you most likely won't find great happiness in life. pce Ed. man,husband,father
2016-05-22 07:23:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Darlin, it goes both ways. We men feel the same way about women. Just try to be around those that make you feel good and avoid the jerks. I try to treat everyone the same even if I don't like them. It gets difficult but I make an effort regardless.
2006-11-07 02:33:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was raised alittle old fashion but Yes I think men should respect women and talk to them with respect. That is why I am divorced because he was very disrespectful and abusive. No woman should be treated like someone's property. We are people just as they are!!
2006-11-07 02:32:18 · answer #5 · answered by cmsmith114 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to take time alone to step back and see why all the men around you seem to be a little on the abusive side. Pick different men.
2006-11-07 02:30:57 · answer #6 · answered by blonde_bitch_norris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So,dont see men.I mean if you have to work with them,thats a different story-but,you dont HAVE to go out with someone who treats you bad.And you definately dont have to put up with guys calling you bad names !!! You have to say 'i'm better than that'. If a guy cant treat you with respect,then why would you need them??
2006-11-07 02:33:49 · answer #7 · answered by tennessee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a fact that some men have no manners, and need to taught some....it is also a power thing some of them like to have the upper hand, and in the case of your boss, he likes to wield his power, to watch you quake in your boots so to speak.....but i agree with you i don't like rude men, and i don't have time for the either.
2006-11-07 02:39:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think we ALL feel this way. They just communicate differently than we do. But if a man calls you names, he was NOT brought up properly. Find a man who was!
2006-11-07 02:31:50 · answer #9 · answered by Christabelle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men should act polite to ladies
2006-11-07 02:31:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋