I have known this guy through mutual friends for probably about 8 mths now. This past wkend we ran into eachother, out with our mutual friends, and ended up spending the rest of the evening together. And, the next evening & the next evening.we have this extreme attraction to eachother.i don't even know how to explain it? It's more than lust,it's a "connection" I can't stop smiling when i'm around him, and i get butterflies when i know i'm going to see him. I feel like i'm in highschool all over again, and the crazy thing is, he feels all the same things. It's not like we're 25 yrs. old..we are both way beyond playing games. I'm 32, and he's 39. Here's the dilema. I've been in a off/on relationship for about 2 yrs. now, and we have been real rocky lately, that's probably why i persued, well, not persued, but am so taken with this other man. I'm floating..I know my relationship is over but don't know what i'm getting myself into? Is this 2 good to be true? Should i be concerned?
2006-11-07 03:09:21 · 9 answers · asked by teeny 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like you are waiting for the new gut to make a commitment before dumping the old guy. What you should do is just let the old guy go and whatever happens, happens...It will be HARD, but that's the right thing. You know it is.
2006-11-07 03:12:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you should be concerned... But probably not for the reasons that you were thinking. Ending a relationship is stressful enough; but to start a new one on top of it is about thirty times more stressful. Even in the most perfect relationships, with the most compatible people, the begining is stressful for me.
So if this guy is Mr. Right... or even if he feel Mr. Right now, you can't pass that up. Go with what you feel. But before you put Mr. Right in the picture; make sure Mr. Wrong is long gone.
2006-11-07 11:15:09 · answer #2 · answered by Rachael C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would make sure your on again off again relationship is off permanetly before you continue with the new guy. It wouldn't be right not to tell the other guy you are seeing someone else. Just finnish with the first before the second one is continued. Good Luck
2006-11-07 11:13:35 · answer #3 · answered by smile4u 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep your eyes wide open girl. You are the right age for the "i've got to reproduce" hormones to be kicking in. He may look like mr Right but he could be Mr Wrong. be careful before heading to the bedroom.
2006-11-07 11:12:46 · answer #4 · answered by oldsoftee2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well to be fair, break it off with your current person and then take a chance.
2006-11-07 11:11:36 · answer #5 · answered by wingedgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it... if things don't work out you certainly are better off than where you are now...
2006-11-07 11:12:12 · answer #6 · answered by shughes2000_2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your dateing let it play out i wish i was in your spot
2006-11-07 11:14:40 · answer #7 · answered by Talking Hat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I say go for it.
2006-11-07 11:12:33 · answer #8 · answered by faybe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should not be concerned
2006-11-07 11:11:17 · answer #9 · answered by No Name 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋