Do u still lingering with thoughts on them or hope to reconcile?
For me, if i know this relationship is beyond remedy and not worthwhile to keep, i do keep it as part of my memory for period we been together, just like many platonic friends i have, but just that i will erase my feelings for them. thus even if they call me i won't feel anything for them. no more pain. i look forward for a more fulfilling relationship next time. how about u?
2006-11-07 03:04:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the reason for me to bring this up is that i have 20 to 30 netfriends, still single, but i am sad esp. some can't shake off guys who are unworthy of their love. it is a common trait and really need to be rooted out. easy to say, but must do to stop the pain effectively. no point talking to their ex again.
2006-11-07 03:24:03 · update #1
GOD! I've been dealing with that for 10 months now. And I run into them at the dojo ALL THE TIME. It's been excruciating.
Yes, I do have lingering thoughts of reconciliation. I am still very much in love. And yes, I know the reasons I left are still as strong as when I left them.
I do hope to be friends with them, though. They were both very good friends before we became lovers. One is very gregarious. She's been able to bridge a form of mild platonic relationship that has seemed to work. Still, it's difficult with someone you love.
2006-11-07 03:11:37 · answer #1 · answered by Radagast97 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think getting over a breakup can be difficult for some, and the best way is get yourself into some sort of new activity... and by this I don't mean, sleep with random guys. There may be those guys out there who can offer that brief compensation for that lonely and empty feeling you may have, but one night stands and random hooking up will only make things worse in the long run. Focus on the fact that you are free to do whatever you like. Think back, was there anything you really loved doing as a past time or hobby before your last relationship, that might have been put on the backburner throughout that relationship? Or maybe it's time to try a new hobby. If you are an outdoors type of person look into hiking, biking or maybe rock climbing. Playing sports and exercising releases endorphins, and requires concentration on something other than your breakup.
2006-11-07 03:16:59 · answer #2 · answered by dreamin delux 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I avoid the person until I can think without hurting then; I remember the good times. Its over and unless it was a real stinker, whats the use of dwelling on all the crap you went thru. It helps me to keep a positive light on relationships on a whole. When you carry baggage , its always in front of you blocking your progress.
It is good to keep the crap in the back of your mind though. As reference for later when faced with same or similar circumstances.
2006-11-07 03:13:16 · answer #3 · answered by Carrie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I havent lingered or even thought about the past. The past is to be left alone. If you can actually say you can be friends with your exes than good for you. Most girls couldnt deal with it whatever the circumstance. I know i wouldnt want to be friends with any of my exes. For me the past is just that the past. To leave someone and then go out with someone new and still talk to that person in my words is disrespect. I dont want him to talk to his ex so i am not going to talk to mine.
2006-11-07 03:08:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my case, I havent even seen any of my ex-GF's yet we see my wifes ex-BF as quickly as and a on an analogous time as, yet no longer sufficient for her to think approximately them pals. Beside I dont think of it would difficulty me. it relatively is an illustration of risk-free practices in ones relationship, while ex-fanatics can proceed to be close in someones existence yet no longer reason undesirable with the relationship. to boot your ex-fanatics are basically that, there is not any reason to lead them to paramours.
2016-10-15 11:51:15 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I try to avoid the thoughts of my ex girlfriend by doing something I enjoy doing, like going to a movie with friends.
2006-11-07 03:09:22 · answer #6 · answered by hot_rod2k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what i would do is find another person that you like and get to know that person...so that will help you get over your ex
2006-11-07 03:07:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cuz we wonder what if?
maybe if circumstances are different or if time lapse then we could get back together.
when you have feeling for someone, doesnt just go away quickly
2006-11-07 03:10:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore .... Past wounds are never good .. no matter how sweet they are
Regards
Sameer
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2006-11-07 03:06:24 · answer #9 · answered by Sameer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋