I have done nothing wrong, it just she has a problem with me, she thinks i want him back i still love him, we split 11 yrs ago, but was sleeping together 4 months ago, but i was lonely (i have been on my own since we split nearly) i am not saying i wouldnt of a few months ago, but now, never, he has no back bone, but why does she hate me, i have done nothing wrong, she told him to see our daughter, and when he did, she made him choose, and yes i know i am ranting, but why do current partners have a problem with ex'x
2006-11-07 03:28:46 · 22 answers · asked by trouble 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we have a child together, and they where not together when we slept together, i just want my daughter to see her dad and so does my daughter
2006-11-07 03:43:37 · update #1
Its a pure jealousy thing on their part along with the fear of your ex partner returning to you.
2006-11-07 03:39:13 · answer #1 · answered by david b 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, you never sleep with your ex. It just creates progblems. Ex-sex is a no-no. Allot of people do it, but it just goes to support my theory that too many people confuse lust with love and stay in bad relationships too long "because the sex is so good".
Why does she have a problem with you? Jealousy. And the recentness of your sexual relationship with him doesn't help the matter any. How does she know you aren't still sleeping with him? You two have a history of having sex even though you split 11 years ago. I think that until she is absolutely certain that you are no longer in his life other than being a joint parent of your child, she is going to be this way.
2006-11-07 04:01:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had this comparable situation. And it resulted in disaster and heartache. i replaced into the different female for a on an analogous time as yet i ended it because of the fact i had to be the lady! He ultimately complete along with his lady pal on the time and we've been given at the same time. He suggested he would possibly never cheat on me or leave me for somebody else even although he had cheated on his previous lady pal with me. i presumed him! greater fool me! I moved six hundred miles to be with him and 3 weeks later he left me for somebody else he had met a marriage. I took the possibility and that i replaced into happy i took the possibility because of the fact i've got been given to make certain what he replaced into particularly like. If i hadn't i could have been stuffed with what ifs. i'm hoping that enables yet each and every relationship is distinctive. He would possibly no longer prefer to cheat on you and characteristic no person to cheat on you with yet remember he has the recommendations-set to do it!
2016-10-15 11:51:56 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say you split 11 years ago but you slept with him as recently as four months ago - no wonder his partner doesn't trust you. He needs to stay in contact with his daughter and therefore you'll always figure in each others lives but ONLY for your daughter's sake. You say you are lonely; in that case move on and get a life for yourself. There's no going back so move forward. Good luck.
2006-11-07 03:44:49 · answer #4 · answered by Sue S 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Was they together 4 months ago?If so you or he did do something wrong.That should do it? If not she feels threatened are insecure in her relationship with him, but she does have to realize that you have his kids, maybe you should suggest that she comes when he visit them so that her threat fades.If she made him choose then she has little respect for him are the child.And if he chooses her over the kid shame on him.But it sounds more his problem not yours.
2006-11-07 04:13:06 · answer #5 · answered by martha g 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's insecurities on her part and is afraid she'll loose him to you and the family you had together... It's her problem and as long as your not interfering into it at all, let her hate you and tell her you will not respect her any less if she wants to be that way. I went through this myself and understand.... After she thinks about you saying it after you repeat that you don't want him,, she'll feel bad and stop all of it...
2006-11-07 04:08:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
the girl is jealous and insecure. and if she knows that you slept with him as recently as 4 months ago then she probably thinks he still wants you, but rather than taking it out on him she directs her anger at you.
2006-11-07 04:04:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My ex hubby's ex wife looked after my daughter while I gave birth-
She even gave me a teddy bear to be buried with my other daughter when she died.
We got on well
2006-11-07 03:31:42 · answer #8 · answered by Elle J Morgan 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think it's because you were there first and there is always going to be some part of him that loves you and she can't accept that. as for making him choose her and the child that's just a bunch of sh-- because you can not ask a father to choose between a part of himself and someone who CAN be replaced.
2006-11-07 03:33:38 · answer #9 · answered by kayleibunny99 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She sees you as a threat! Have you called her to meet and explained that you'd like to get on civilly especially if there are kids involved. you also don't know what he's been saying either.
2006-11-07 03:36:40 · answer #10 · answered by madmoo0 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋