How can you tell if i guy is interested in you "relationship wise", compared to just being interested in you for "one thing"?
2006-11-07 03:29:59 · 16 answers · asked by XCuteX 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Im just curious coz i likethis guy and im sure he likes me but i dunno what his intentions are towards me.
2006-11-07 03:36:05 · update #1
you will know by the way he looks at you and the way he talks to you, the way he treats you in front of his friends, if there are late night phone calls...stuff like that
2006-11-07 03:32:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aha- well, the age-old wisdom is to let him know you're interested (directly, by text, through a friend...) then if you get to go out on a few dates, don't sleep with him. Kissing and hugging only. If he's really keen on you and not your body, he'll still be interested in 1, 2, 3 months' time. Makes sense?
2006-11-07 11:41:10 · answer #2 · answered by CT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if this bloke talks to you bout anything and everything, like what happened on tv last night, the weather, football, how ducks fly and dont fall outta the sky or whatever without always bringing it back to sex is one clue. does he talk to your face or your chest?is he all touchy feely with you and not any other women you both know? like others have said have some self respect though, if he does fancy you he'll stay around and not expect to jump in the sack at the 1st opertunity, if he keeps pressing the issue show him the door chuck
2006-11-07 11:40:35 · answer #3 · answered by Andy S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a difficult one....the ones who really like you and the ones who just want sex often say exactly the same things. Whether they actually mean it or it's just a 'line' is for you to work out!
Generally if a guy wants to help you with stuff and does stuff for you, then he means what he says. If all his actions lead back to getting sex off you (including ulterior motives) then you've got your answer....
Men ain't cut and dry!
2006-11-07 11:53:05 · answer #4 · answered by LadyMiranda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop doing the "one thing" and you will find out very soon if he is interested in you "relationship wise". Try it and see!
2006-11-07 11:32:38 · answer #5 · answered by evesmystique 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to him about something unrelated to sex. Find out what, if anything, you have in common. Build on a friendship first then see what happens. Good luck.
2006-11-07 11:40:51 · answer #6 · answered by Sue S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep saying no!, ( for the sex part that is )and see if he still keeps inviting you out and answering your calls , its OK , I will probably get shot for this
2006-11-07 11:36:41 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give him the "one thing". Have self respect and self confidence in who you are. If he wants to be a real boyfriend, then he will prove it by his actions.
2006-11-07 11:34:14 · answer #8 · answered by kayboff 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you don't give it up to him and he does not get mad about it. If they wait they want a realtionship, give it up to quickly then you are just another notch on their belts.
2006-11-07 11:34:50 · answer #9 · answered by schell_75 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually he talks to you about things as opposed to just trying to get in your knickers, I would think
2006-11-07 11:31:57 · answer #10 · answered by greydays 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋