is it a must that 1 needs to get married to remain happy. can't they be happy by remaining single and having good relation with family and friends. is marriage a demand of the society or person concerned. is only a bond or legal document needed for a person to take somebody's responsibility?
2006-11-07 04:18:49 · 27 answers · asked by Kashish 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i think u have the answer
u just need to accept it!
marraige is just a way of commitment to a person which is socially expected
however there can be no rules without exceptions
if u meet the right person u will know wethether marraige is a must or not
best of luck!
2006-11-07 05:30:03 · answer #1 · answered by jas 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not necessary to be married to live a happy life. Developing good friendships and strong relationships with other family can provide company. Getting out into the community and doing things for others can bring fulfillment.
Choosing a poor mate for marriage is far worse than remaining alone and focusing on being the best person you can be. But I have to say, that having a great spouse who is a real partner and friend and spending time with our kids is a wonderful thing.
2006-11-07 04:24:42 · answer #2 · answered by happygirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is much more then a legal document. Some will change afterwards but thats not what marriage is. It's more of a statement that shows 2 how much they care and love about each other and also shows devotion, loyalty and much more. You dont really seem like you're ready for it you might need more time to think about what would really make you happy maybe the people that are close to you didn't take marriage seriously and maybe thats why you feel that way but you need to sit down and think about this.
2006-11-07 05:06:14 · answer #3 · answered by quinn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever heard of the famous saying: There are two kinds of people in this world - Married People and Happy People.
Jokes apart, there are no musts. At times one can be happy leading a single life while sometimes you need someone to support you. And truly speaking, there's nobody better that spouse. It's all about sharing your feelings and getting that emotional support which normally drives the people to get married. If you feel you have someone to fulfill these needs without getting married, that should be good enough.
2006-11-07 04:53:37 · answer #4 · answered by Shalabh S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage will only make your life happy if it's what both you and your groom want. If it isn't, then you'll never be happy in that sort of union. I find it's more a demand by both society in general and by family members especially if 2 are dating for quite some time. I personally love the thought of marriage, even though I was divorced once. But I'm currently engaged again and cannot wait until our big day to arrive.
2006-11-07 04:22:56 · answer #5 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it is not a must that one needs to get married to remain happy - happiness does not automatically come with marriage. marriage is a very deep relationship, which 2 people have to respect, love, value and care for each other. it is a bond for life but nowadays most marriages end up in divorce because couples are very hasty in taking decisions and dont consider marriage as a sacred bond made in heaven
the one thing women yearn by marriage is becoming moms, and having a dad around for their children. giving birth to the a child with a man you love and adore is the most precious gift of life.
marriage is a demand of society in some countries, but like in England no one forces anyone to get married, everyone lives independantly and make their own decisions.
2006-11-07 05:23:57 · answer #6 · answered by GorGeous_Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In India it is; but you see in western society they have the different concepts about life, marriage, children and happiness also. So depends on the society and the age we live in. In your case it is right decision but be careful before choosing a partner. You are, but it is advisable. Good luck. :)
The point of discussion is that the marriage is the institution of society, and being a member of society we have to follow moral and ethical values and cultural concepts. If the 'person' (for responsibility) is not minor then there is no legal obligations.
2006-11-07 05:08:06 · answer #7 · answered by ritu raj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it is necessary. The society puts you there because if you are not married you "might have a problem" or "she's gay" or whatever reason the society might think its appropriate to call you because of that. I'm divorced and I really think I will never marry again. I have a good relationship with my friends (married and unmarried) and with my family and sons. I think and really believe that I will be pretty happy without ever getting married again.
Enjoy your life as it is. Your state of mind can change at any time. Just enjoy the moment, with whoever you want, with papers or without them.
2006-11-07 04:24:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no "musts" that is the good thing about being an independant person and making the "right" decision for your life.
You do not need to marry to be happy. There can be other ways one can experience happiness, it just all depends on what you want your life to be like.
Some people have the need to share their lifewith a partner and others may want to be in different relationships for the rest of life giving to many people.
2006-11-07 04:22:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way!!!! I've been married twice and miserable both times. I'm happier now that I'm on my own again and just dating. Now I wouldn't mind having a very special man in my life to come home to every night. But I don't do well with living up expectations of what a marriage should be...or do I just always marry the lazy pigs who think the women should do all the house work and have a full-time job, and never pitch in themselves? Who knows, but it will take a spectacular guy to get me to sign a marriage license again.
2006-11-07 04:25:10 · answer #10 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that one can remain happy as a single. but it depends upon the society in which you are living . either they are very backword or they know that marriages can keep anyone happy.
but still i say that if you got the good person who really cares for you and want to be with you for the whole life then there is nothing wrong to get married. i know ppl. say that partner is necessary for the old age. but they don't know that if anything haapen to him/her then what should the partner will do? but i thinkthat girls suffer most from this decision and they have to get finally married sply. in india. so it is upto you that you want to be happy with your parents wish , if they want you to get married or with yours wish.
it is not like the written responsibility. it is the responsibility which god offers you to do.so don't worry either you get married don't take it as burden. God Bless You
2006-11-07 04:27:30 · answer #11 · answered by R. S. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋