her & her husband raised my youngist daughter & now that she grown my cousin doesnt like me being a part of her life . but my daughter want"s me to be a part life . my daughter is having a baby & cousin keep's pushing me away from her . my cousin doesnt want to be a part of my grand baby's life . and i have done nothing to her or my daughter . i think she is hogging the stage
2006-11-07 04:16:40 · 3 answers · asked by dirtdevil215 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
because your cousin did raise your daughter that's why she is acting like that.she is acting like she is her daughter..but if your daughter wants you to be part of the baby's life then don't let your cousin win this battle..it's your daughters life..simply tell your cousin "I do thank you for raising my daughter to be the woman that she is, but she does want me in the baby's life and out of no disrespect to you and your husband, I'm gonna be there for my daughter and her baby. If you don't like it that is your business, but don't try and stop me. And if you really love my daughter you will go by her wishes" And back that up..your cousin is probably just afraid that your gonna break your daughters heart because you wasn't there to raise her..Good luck and Congrats on your Grand-Baby
2006-11-07 04:26:03 · answer #1 · answered by becca j 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She probably is thinking that if she raised your child without your help, then the baby is her grandchild and you shouldn't be stepping in trying to be motherly now ( of all times). Ask her. Maybe she doesn't know whse is pushing you out of their lives.
Good luck!!
2006-11-07 12:22:11 · answer #2 · answered by Queen 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
thats bad, i really feel for you
2006-11-07 12:19:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋