live together but i live with him..and his parents....and he gets texts all the time (in a diffrent language cause we live in europe..) and i am worried cause i cant read them and i am scared some are his ex...cause she is still obsessed with him....they dted for 5 years and she has not gotten over it yet....i have asked him who it is all the time at weird hours and he says his friend...but i dont believe him....what do i do..
2006-11-07 05:06:50 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You have to be willing to trust him, and if you can't, then maybe this relationship isn't right for you.
2006-11-07 05:09:25 · answer #1 · answered by Ariella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, if you are able to have his phone long enough to write down the messages that he is receiving, and you know what language it may be, such as french ect. Then ask someone you know to translate, you live in Europe right? I am sure someone knows the language if not there is this website I used to go in, it is called spanishtranslor.com or spanishtranslator2.com, I may not be obsolutey correct on the web address but you can always google it, and its not just for Spanish, its for all languages. Its very accurate, I used to use this site to do my homework, I got a B+ in that class
2006-11-07 13:13:33 · answer #2 · answered by Thandie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he obsesses about his ex and he's may not be being honest with you. It sounds to me like he is stringing one of you along in case the other doesn't work out.
2006-11-07 13:10:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
call his phone from a different number or have a guy friend do it and ask for what ever his ex's name is and if hes like i dont talk to her anymore then there you go. make sure its a number that wont matter if he calls back or put it as privite so he cant call back
2006-11-07 13:11:01 · answer #4 · answered by Doisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't believe him (and you're not ordinarily a jealous person), I say follow your gut. It's probably dead-on. I would definitely move out of his parent's house anyway. that's just bad all the way around...get your own place.
2006-11-07 13:10:55 · answer #5 · answered by K C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would first do some inveartergation before I jump to conclusion. If you see it with your own eye's then you have your answer. Life is too short to waste it on someone that don't love you.
2006-11-07 13:14:45 · answer #6 · answered by angle2005star 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't trust him then there is no hope for your relationship. If he is acting shady, then there are reasons he is acting this way. I say, kick him to the curb and find yourself a real man with his own flat!
2006-11-07 13:10:43 · answer #7 · answered by raiderking69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u can research dat language it's bound 2 work or mayb call the person bac and c who it is
2006-11-07 13:09:59 · answer #8 · answered by nyzfynestshortiiee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
simple... copy his texts onto a piece of paper and then go to www.google.co.uk . . there you click on the "language translation" tool and type the text in and it will translate it for you
2006-11-07 13:22:08 · answer #9 · answered by rup 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get some one to read it for you that knows the language
2006-11-07 13:13:40 · answer #10 · answered by connie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋