Why do girls complain to their bf's so much about thier best friends?

Question

I mean they make it sound like they're SOO disgusted or whatever and then a day or two later its like nothing happened at all. Every thing is peachey agian till one of them pisses off one of the 4 musketeers. Tell me what gives. Also why do some act like jealous boyfriends?

Answer 1

Girls argue and they want to talk to someone they trust to talk about it with. Just don't insult her friend when you're talking with her because then she'll be confused. Also, friends act like jealous bf's because they could actually be jealous that she has someone and they don't or they just don't want her to spend ALL her time with you. I mean wouldn't you be mad if one of your friends did that to you all teh time.

Answer 2

Girls complain to their boyfriends about their best friends because they think that their boyfriend is the closest person to them. They confide in the boyfriend and know that they won't be judged, at least not to harshly. I get pissed off at my friends and yell TO (not at) my husband because I consider him my best friend and share everything with him. I know that he'll make me feel better. Women have a habit of over exaggerating things so when they're mad, their friends are the devil but then when they've made up a couple days later, everything goes back to the same.

Also some act like jealous boyfriends because they are jealous. They're jealous that you're getting more of your girlfriend's attention then they are. Another reason could be that when the girlfriend is mad at you, she'll go tell her best friend and then that friend will remember that and give you the death look because she's kind of protecting her friend. I hope that explains it a bit.

Answer 3

Because she is complaining to her best friends about you. So she complains to you about her best friends. That is just how it works. Those are girls, no matter what age. Its not about growing up, it is just how females sometime deal with problems with close friends. They like to talk it out and they love to complain and get it out of there system. Once out of there system they are fine. If you have a group of girls that are close that is what they do. I do it with my group.

Answer 4

girlfriends often need someone they trust and love to talk about their feelings. thats the boyfriends job to listen. They also tell their best friends stuff that bf's do that pisses them off.

its how women deal with things

Answer 5

Just to get it out of their system when they're mad. I'm sure this girl complains about you to them too. Not all girls/women do this. You could ask her to stop and only tell you about good things! Let's see if she has any good things to say.

Answer 6

Thats how we are dont judge us mister. The reason they do this is because in the ranking you are right below the best friend so when they make us mad you get to hear it all, oh happy day.

Answer 7

She complains to you becausea girl will usually complain to their best friends, but since she is mad at them, you are the only one left!

Answer 8

Girls complain about our boyfriends to our best friends because we are emotional beings and need comfort. You guys talk sh*t about us too! LOL

Answer 9

because girls are like that WE forgive easy and need someone to listen to us and usually it's our b/f we go to you should feel special.and were b/f so of course were gonna make up. as for acting like a jealous b/f you got me there.

Answer 10

b/c if you are their boyfriend , you are the one that they trust and can talk about their friends to that won't go and tell everyone else! You are suppose to be there for her when she needs and ear and that whatever she says won't get repeated!