I own a house and my gf used to live with me. she said she couldnt afford to pay half my mortgage and moved out. I told her i needed roommates, male or female. she said ok. then i got all male roommate and they stayed for 8 months. now i need new roommates and a girl wants to move in (never met her before) and my gf said she doesnt want a girl to live with me. Who is right? just need opinions of other people.
2006-11-07 05:05:33 · 11 answers · asked by Robbyz3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well I understand your girlfriends point of view cause of cheating issues. I understand your point though too. You need help paying the mortgage. I guess your just going to have to think about what is more important... bills or your girlfriend? Or just try harder in finding a male room mate. Twist it around also. How would you like it if she was going to live with a male that you both didn't know?
2006-11-07 05:09:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you gave her the chance to move in and she gave it up. now you need a roomie! it is your house she doesnt have a sya in who you let live there.
i completely understand why she wouldnt want a chick to live with you but it is your decision! if she loves you she will have to deal with whatever decision you make. and whatever happens after that is life. you will get over it.
personally i think it is a bad idea. when i turned 18 i had a boyfriend and moved out of my parenst house into an apartment with my guy friend i worked with. well 2 weeks later i was sleeping with my roomie and broken up with my boyfreind../ me and my roomie now boyfreind have been together for 2 yrs.
2006-11-07 05:28:51 · answer #2 · answered by The Weed Fairy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is the big deal????
A roomie is a roomie, as long as they are respectful of personal space, clean, and pay the bills (or whatever your criteria is). I would meet the potential roomie with your girlfriend... to ease any weirdness.
But if your girlfriend is STEADFAST on NO female moving in with you to share the bills, etc.... imagine what a life with this woman would be like.
EWE.... too much friggin DRAMA!
2006-11-07 05:10:28 · answer #3 · answered by cheesytoast 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend told me to go ahead and have an old friend move in with me because he desperately needed help. So I did. Then found out that he smoked crack, used my credit cards, was the cause of me and my boyfriend breaking up, stole from me and hit on my daughter. So my answer is NO, don't do it!
2006-11-07 05:12:07 · answer #4 · answered by Maggie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women could properly be...dazzling, pay attention of the era, and in the event that they use pads, it could stink. heavily nonetheless, alot of cases it finally ends up advantageous, particularly if there are 3 people residing interior the comparable place. pay attention nonetheless, if she purely broke up with a boyfriend, usually cases women ought to apply the roommate as a rebound, thats approximately all thats rather diverse. It rather relies upon on the lady
2016-10-03 09:30:14 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is jealous. Kick her to the curb. Why is it ok for a boy to live there and not a girl? She doesn't trust you.
She thinks since you will spend s much time with her you are going to bang her. And she is right, but that doesn't mean that she is justified.
2006-11-07 05:22:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it can go either way, depends on the people. you have to ask yourself if you would be ok with her living with a male that she never met before. jealousy is definitely in play here. I say don't do it as to not complicate your relationship.
2006-11-07 05:10:19 · answer #7 · answered by kloquewerk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
robbyz maybe your gf is not sure of your trust fear of being betrayed or losing you to someone else. since she has objected to u having a girl as a room mate i think if you really love your girl you will respect her feelings and play safe prevention is better than breakups
2006-11-07 05:12:06 · answer #8 · answered by zelmacreado 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were in your situation, I wouldn't want my b/f to have a female move in. Girls can be shady sometimes. You never know what might happen if she moved in. I dunno, but that just sounds like bad news.
2006-11-07 05:10:29 · answer #9 · answered by Steph L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you let her live with a guy that you didn't know?
2006-11-07 06:39:59 · answer #10 · answered by belle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋