ok i'm only 15-i've been in two relatinoships with a guy 6 months older and one with a guy 6 months younger-both relationships went about 6 months....and both ended abruptly when they left me for other girls.....i never tryed to hurt them,i always treated them right.....and they jus left me for girls who didn't even care about them...i don't understand why....i mean they couldn't even think of a good reason to break up with me,every guy says i'm beautiful,every guy says i'm sweet every guy even says they envy the guys who got to kiss me,but i don't have a bf.....isn't that weird? i mean i don't midn being alone,it's better then getting my heart broken-but.....when is that perfect guy gonna find me?the kind of guy who will treat me right? i know i know i'm only 15 but.......i don't know...i am happy for like every one of my friends who are in great relationships n stuff.... but all my gf's slight me to hang with their bf's and i end up getting left alone like even at parties n stuff
2006-11-07 05:30:53 · 11 answers · asked by greenismylife.songismyworld 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and i jus have stopped going to parties cuz they get so depressing and boring....iam homeschooled too so i live like 30 miles from my friends ....i am a junior this year.....when i'm 18 i will go to college but even then i'm so afraid it will be jus like now...maby i am too forward with guys? maby that why they don't like me....i don't know...guys can u jus give me some advice.....i could really use some...i don't mean to sound selfish i am jus really wondering if there actualyl are guys out ther who will treat me like he should.i try to be happy and sweet adn act myself and everyone likes me but.....guys jus say they don't want to commit or whatevere and......everything jus kinda sux.......sorry this is long but i guess i reall need help
2006-11-07 05:34:59 · update #1
It always seems like you meet the right person when you are least expecting it. Try to be patient and be yourself...there's no point in changing who you are just to get a guy to date you or stay with you. From a guy's perspective, it sounds like all of the guys who you've been with are missing out on a great person. You'll find the right guy, and when you do he'll treat you the way you deserve and want to be treated. You shouldn't have to alter the way you dress, or act, or talk, or do anything different just to make someone like you.
If you ever want to chat, feel free to email me :-)
2006-11-07 05:35:55 · answer #1 · answered by j_della28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, being young is a blast! Seriously, you have no bills, no serious obligations and life is in the palm of your hands! Why do young people want to grow up so fast? There is nothing special about being an adult except for getting to stay up late (you usually pay for it the next morning when you're tired for work) You are old enough to drink (drinking is more dangerous and you can't trust anyone plus the legal limit has been decreased) You have no one to tell you what to do (it's fun until you realize that you NEED someone to tell you what to do or you won't do it). My message. Just enjoy being young with your friends. Everyone rushes into relationships and I love my husband but sometimes you want to have time to yourself. You have plenty of time to get married and be in a serious relationship but right now you should focus on you. Work on getting into your dream college and once you know what YOU want out of life...a guy will just naturally fall into the picture. Don't go looking for relationships because they will find you!
2006-11-07 05:43:27 · answer #2 · answered by Mrs_Rivera2U 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm so sure there are millions or even billions of people asking the same question you are asking. The thing is there is no right answer for you, the perfect guy for you is not just out there in the market or the street you just have to try-an-error, hang out more know more friends and then see what do you really need. after all no one know you better than yourself.
almost 50% of my friends are single and still looking for the perfect one, its not that easy. Try and learn from your mistakes
2006-11-07 05:39:27 · answer #3 · answered by jeff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AWWW!!! Honey, ive been there. Guys your age arent really worth it. honestly, i know how that sounds, but it's true. Very few have the capability to treat a girl right. They're extremely fickle and don't know what they want yet. Which is totally normal. My advice to stay single. I remember losing friends at your age because my girlfriends and i didn't like each others boyfriends. Its not worth it. Just enjoy being young. You can date, but just don't expect too much out of it. Have lots of friends( many times male friends end up making awesome bfs.) and don't stress out over it. The guys I dated at your age are comepletely insignificant to me now. Youve got sooo much time ahead of you. just don't ever settle because you don't want to be single. you'll find a great guy, just be patient. its worth it.
2006-11-07 05:50:33 · answer #4 · answered by haylz444 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy your teen years. Sure it feels wonderful to be love and love someone, but first you must love yourself (not self centered). Love will come to you not the other way around. Guys at your age are just full of hormones and so into themselves. Just enjoy your mall, girl to girl, mom/dad, studying days and make the best out of them for now.
2006-11-07 06:55:49 · answer #5 · answered by cimpuazaj c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What? You're 15 and you're not engaged yet? Give up. Get yourself some cats and take up a hobby. You've got a long, lonely miserable life ahead of you
2006-11-07 05:44:48 · answer #6 · answered by paganvegan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
firs of all u r jus 15....second is tht u will surely find someone whn ur least expecting...may b hes around u somewhere and it is jus matter of time or may be space tht is really in between u guys...so don worry...things gonna get well...stop being aloof it may lead to problems...rather make ur probs worse..if ya ask me njoy ur single life it rox...lol..
2006-11-07 05:43:24 · answer #7 · answered by squazi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will be 33 at end of the month, going through a divorce and have not met my guy yet, so dont worry :-O
2006-11-07 05:42:42 · answer #8 · answered by Graça 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aw you sound sweet hi my names steve you just met a guy
2006-11-07 05:37:30 · answer #9 · answered by hombresteve 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay in school kid
it will happen to everybody when the time come.
for now put your in mind in school, friends and family.
2006-11-07 06:19:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋