trying on a new thong that i had just bought. Does this mean that he is gay even though he says he still want s to be with me? He asked to borrow some panyhose that i bought this week. How can he love me and dress like a woman? He only wants to dress like a woman at home. What should i do??????
2006-11-07 05:26:20 · 16 answers · asked by BOOYAH 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he bought pumps and a skirt and the saleslady told me that those were too big for me, but he said to the saleslady that they were for him...i thought i would die!
2006-11-07 05:31:49 · update #1
Well if you are commited to him you and him need to have a serious talk. If he really loves you he needs to respect some boundries that the two of you could set. That having been said, He is probably not gay, most crossdressers are not gay. And if you accept this side of him you are open to a lot of fun times and wonderful things that many other couples cannot experience. You two need to work things out, set the limits that you are comfortable with, but at the same time keep in mind his very real need to dress like a woman.
2006-11-07 07:49:57 · answer #1 · answered by JML 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're probably wondering what's up with this???? So, the simple answer is that he has an addiction. When he wears women's clothes it causes a release of neurotransmitters in his brain that give him a feeling of excitement, pleasure and gratification (like having sex). He may feel that he is expressing some inner identity, or getting in touch with his inner self.. This is just meaningless self-justification.
Women who are married to heterosexual crossdressers say that they feel as if they are their husband's second love. They are addicted to crossdressing. They try harder and harder to achieve that stimulating gratification they had when they first tried crossdressing. As they get older it gets harder and harder to do.. Some do fairly well with their female alter-ego, others try to give it up entirely. When they get around 40 years old they usually have some crisis where they consider permanently changing their gender. They also run into periods of depression.
Being a crossdresser is tough. I don't think you'd want to go there, but if you love this dude, then you may be the piece of stability he will need later in life.
2006-11-08 09:34:38 · answer #2 · answered by Dr. D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry, it's a proven fact almost all cross dressers are straight males. In fact, it's dressing up like a woman that makes them feel closer to women. It's just a fetish he has. It doesn't mean he wants to be a woman or anything. That is an entirely different kind of person, called a transssexual. You're safe :)
2006-11-07 05:31:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him to depart. call the telephone company and function my telephone sort replaced. bypass in the process the domicile searching for letters, photos, momentos, articles of clothing, etc., and positioned them interior the trash outdoors. Smoke a bowl. Take a protracted warm bathe. Smoke yet another bowl. sit down on the piano and play a pair of preludes and fugues from the 2d e book of the nicely-Tempered Clavier.
2016-12-17 05:57:00 · answer #4 · answered by wexler 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
run he needs help and you can't help him, if you don't mind your man wearing your panties and bras and walking around in your high heels then by all means stand by your man but what happens when he wants to wear your panties to work or out with you girl your setting yourself up for some real heart ache lol
2006-11-07 05:32:16 · answer #5 · answered by sexyswells42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a cross-dresser myself, and I am all straight, I just like the feel of women's underwear, and it does make me try to understand women better.
2006-11-07 06:46:39 · answer #6 · answered by anjel 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Say he looks beautiful. He should of told you this up front instaed of you finding out later.
2006-11-07 05:28:59 · answer #7 · answered by red1967 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
let him do please !!
he seems to be cool with his own mind, be cool yourself
he doesn't seems to be gay and perhaps he loves you so much that he is afraid of your reaction. let you have much pleasure with a man wich is different more comprehensive of the women ! you are very lucky ! do waste your chance !
2006-11-09 11:43:39 · answer #8 · answered by jh_en_fille 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
.... the fu ck ... alright hold on did u just say he tried on your thong?
ok well if my bf did that i would laugh at it.. but i would still love him..
like ok u should love someone for who they are.. not what they dress like
2006-11-07 05:29:32 · answer #9 · answered by ily_______&?; 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is actually quite common.
and no, this doesn't make him gay.
just accept it and keep living life. He's still a good man for you.
2006-11-07 05:30:16 · answer #10 · answered by a1tommyL 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋